ivy,
try to call your son a english name, easy to name and choose..
As for chinese name, best to get a fortune teller to "count" after he is born.. cos the time and date is critial to decide the name..
i believe so, cos my parent anyhow give me my chinese name.. i alway fell sick when i was young.. when my friend's mum count my name, stated that the surname and the name are crack..
When i went oversea to study, i was v v healthy, i dun have gastric problem and migraine didnt attrack for 3 years..
From there, i realise becos no one noe my chinese name..
However, when i am back to s'pore, even through my chinese name has changed, my old friends still call me my old name as they already used to it.. i tend to get fall sick easily..
My friend's son also the same case, they don't believe,however,his wife gave a try. She changed her son name and everything run smooth.. luckily, she changed his name when he was only 3 years old..
I mean i didnt mean that to curse anyone.. Its just a suggestion.. precaution better than curse..