hi everyone, thanks for the advices on K's rashes. It looks pretty bad yah ... but at mid day, the redness is quite gone, and by the next day, the patch is not there, though you still can see the spots. There's no water inside. wanted to bring him to see PD but seeing how fast it's recovered, I think I'll wait to see if more would be back... hubby suspect it's coz helper didn't clean thoroughly properly coz each time we find out and monitor, he'll get better. but after a while, he may get it again. it might be that she uses wet cotton wools to clean and it flows to the back which she didn't check before wearing the diaper ... we don't think it's food allergy but we could be wrong.
Mashy, K's weight also ding-dong at 9++... it's been like that for a few months and the last weighing 2 wks ago, he's just 9.2kg.
mamachan, can u post the redhill play-place address and number. it's the one where u pay for 10 session and each at $2, i think. We went to Safra Toa Payoh yesterday and K loves the ball pit ... he got in free. would like to try the redhill one :>
YuenYuen, I got the night-waking problem too. Got no solution yet... what worked for my #1 doesn't work on him and I'm still trying out various methods. He's up 1.30, 3.30, 5.30, 6.30 .... he's a very persistant seeker and I'm stuck with this problem since trying to wean him more than 2 months ago.
one option is to get your maid to do the night feeds. And u said your hubby works at home so he can jaga the maid in the meantime. Your older one is 4 yr old right? another option is for your boy to stay with your mother ... I know these are not ideal solutions. how is your mum taking all these quarrels?
My stand with family relationship problems has been to "siam" if nothing works. I find sometimes it's very difficult to talk to family members logically. I'm having that problem with my own brother time and again. I just can't believe what kind of a MCP he has become, believe that he's so righteous and can-save-the-world. I've been siam-ing him for a while as I find I can't get along with him on how to manage certain matters. *sigh* And this morning, I literally screamed up at him for a matter that he's rightfully put it that he's angry with me for giving some silly advice to my mum. I actually said sorry a few times and told me I wouldn't interfere anymore but to him I'm just being sacarstic and keeps pushing me to a corner, so I blew ... I really really want to break off from my maternal family as they are just troubles each time the phone rings ... sorry for the vent. I've tried but things just don't work out. Sometimes I do wish my mum can be of a sane-er mind .... I feel like crying like a little girl sometimes but she's just not there for me.
.ky.