Hi all mummies
Thank you for your advise...I'm so emotional these days.. hahaha.. when I read all your reply I feel so touched and wanna tears ( tear becos I'm touched ok!!)..heehee.. some silly, must be the pregnancy homones!
yes yes, I have also decide to take a firmer stand by going over or even to their room to carry kaelyn when I miss her so much.
I mean I'm very thankful that my PIL are helping cos they really dote Kaelyn thats why I'm
"ren-ing" and try not to make them feel like as if I'm making use of them.6
I guess my not-so-uptight reaction has make them think they can cross the boundaries.
In the past I also bring kaelyn to my room and keep her occupy with books and other stuff.
MIL even stand at my room and tempt kaelyn with toys when kaelyn ignore her, she came to carry her away with me protesting to her "but...mum I'm playin with her now."
MIl reply: let me play with her first.
Tahnkfully kaelyn cried and refuse to play with her(I really Thank God for that..

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.. finally no choice she return Kaelyn back to my room
Thanks for all the suggestion again, I will use your tactics when suituation arise.
Talking to PIL??!!... tell them abt my feelings...if they are my parents, I think it will work. Not with my PIL. in my 3 attempts trying to talk nicely and calmly with my MIL, she walk out on me before I finish my sentence and leave me comment in cantonese like " I dun have breathe like you" meaning.. she dun wan to waste her breathe on me.
When my HB is home, they dun do the things they did... MIL will even carry kaelyn to the dinner table and say.. see what papa is eating blah blah blah.
Mu Hb did asked if I wan him to talk to them. Knowing my HB also not very sensitive to situation, I'm just afriad he will say things so blunt that make PIL think I talk bad abt them again (eventhough I'm stating the fact, it still complaint to them).
Thanks I will be strong! hee and will update on how Strong I am next week.
Re: Nokia vs sony ericson
Sleeping deer
Personal I will recommend SE... I used to be a Nokia user/supporter, Until I change to K750i and the recent K800i.
SE is so much user friendly than NOkia anytime!
SH
my MIL also asked if she can add salt in Kae's meal.. i told her better dun lor.
I asked why wanna add? she also told me she feel no taste.
I agree with you.. if they are not rejecting no need additional sodium in their food.2f