(2006/01) Jan 2006 MTBs
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sleepingdeer
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Hi Wenyl,
yep, am going to the gathering... I'm bringing my NU500 as well, same model as Krissie... You can try it out later
yep, am going to the gathering... I'm bringing my NU500 as well, same model as Krissie... You can try it out later
mashybrainz
New Member
Re: Preg after C-section
I also dunno how long to wait. But don't wanna risk bursting open from the wound. Hehe, so will wait a while. Anyway, not in a hurry. My ds is already a lot to work on.
Rachel
Depends on which school of thot. Everyone has got diff teaching mtds. The no alphabet theory is from glenn doman.
I also dunno how long to wait. But don't wanna risk bursting open from the wound. Hehe, so will wait a while. Anyway, not in a hurry. My ds is already a lot to work on.
Rachel
Depends on which school of thot. Everyone has got diff teaching mtds. The no alphabet theory is from glenn doman.
sleepingdeer
Active Member
Mummies,
my MIL is at it again... am at home today, and promised myself not to get irritated by her... the morning started ok, keep myself myself to think of her as help when I wanna to bathe etc... worked so far, until my gal started talking away while playing... the more she talk, the louder she got... and my MIL keep telling her 'NO NOISE, NO NOISE'... what does she mean by that, can my bb play in peace and can't she yell once in a while...? You mean Shannon can't communicate what she want talking a a little louder?...She's at home and it's not like she's was yelling the roof off...! THen later on, she keep telling her, 'you're not hungry right... not hungry lah... when it's her feeding time already! This is the first MIL I've seen who doesn't want to let baby have her food... imagine, she keeps restricting us from feeding bb on demand... saying she's not hungry, not hungry, when it's so obvious that she is! Sigh.... More therapy needed with this mummy...
my MIL is at it again... am at home today, and promised myself not to get irritated by her... the morning started ok, keep myself myself to think of her as help when I wanna to bathe etc... worked so far, until my gal started talking away while playing... the more she talk, the louder she got... and my MIL keep telling her 'NO NOISE, NO NOISE'... what does she mean by that, can my bb play in peace and can't she yell once in a while...? You mean Shannon can't communicate what she want talking a a little louder?...She's at home and it's not like she's was yelling the roof off...! THen later on, she keep telling her, 'you're not hungry right... not hungry lah... when it's her feeding time already! This is the first MIL I've seen who doesn't want to let baby have her food... imagine, she keeps restricting us from feeding bb on demand... saying she's not hungry, not hungry, when it's so obvious that she is! Sigh.... More therapy needed with this mummy...
mashy
ic... anyway i have not start making the flash cards oso. but at least now have a clearer view. thanks. how your darling react react when you flash card??
sleepingdeer
think like what some mummy mentioned before. if the soft way cant work, hard way might jus do the trick! be firm and let her know who is your gal's mummy and caretaker. at the early stage my mum oso dont agreed on the feed on demand way, keep saying bb jus fed 2hrs away... or say sensitive comment like is your breast milk enough and do bb drink enough?? now she accept the way my bb react and my way of caring for bb. has to tell her straight that i know what im doing and its all for bb's welfare.
dont sub press yourself any longer... if not sooner or later will get nerve breakdown woh!
ic... anyway i have not start making the flash cards oso. but at least now have a clearer view. thanks. how your darling react react when you flash card??
sleepingdeer
think like what some mummy mentioned before. if the soft way cant work, hard way might jus do the trick! be firm and let her know who is your gal's mummy and caretaker. at the early stage my mum oso dont agreed on the feed on demand way, keep saying bb jus fed 2hrs away... or say sensitive comment like is your breast milk enough and do bb drink enough?? now she accept the way my bb react and my way of caring for bb. has to tell her straight that i know what im doing and its all for bb's welfare.
dont sub press yourself any longer... if not sooner or later will get nerve breakdown woh!
mashybrainz
New Member
rachel
so far so good. he's rather interested in them.
In fact, when I was pasting the red dots, he was already looking at it curiously.
Sleepingdeer
Don't you think you've made a wise decision to be SAHM then? Imagine leaving Shannon in her hands? Well, just ignore her and cherish your bonding time with Shannon.
so far so good. he's rather interested in them.
In fact, when I was pasting the red dots, he was already looking at it curiously.
Sleepingdeer
Don't you think you've made a wise decision to be SAHM then? Imagine leaving Shannon in her hands? Well, just ignore her and cherish your bonding time with Shannon.
hi mummies
Re: flashcards
I found this website... I think someone recommended before... its very good too... I haven't had the time to show flash cards..
http://www.internationalparentingassociation.org/Materials/index.html
RE: weaning off breast..
Can I get some advice on mommies who are giving EBM/ FM via bottle only? I'm still latching on at home but my baby takes very long to finish feeding on the breast and next month I'm back to full time work plus I have to do some studying so I don't know if I can cope with pumping/ latching and I want to have time to play with my girl as well... a bit worried that I wont be able to cope... how are you all coping? Is it an emotional struggle to stop latching? i feel that i'll miss that bond cos its the only thing that I have with my girl that no one else can do.. Am I just being too emotional?
Sleepingdeer...
U are very good with tolerating ur MIL... maybe u can just "ignore" her comments cos she seems to make these insensitive remarks with whatever u do... maybe u just do what is best for ur baby... don't let your baby get caught in between!
Sometimes my inlaws do make funny remarks like " i think your girl's cry is too weak.. don't feed so soon so she can build her lungs by crying out loud" aiyor... my poor hubby as a baby... but I just smile and say issit? then just feed ASAP MY STYLE!
Re: flashcards
I found this website... I think someone recommended before... its very good too... I haven't had the time to show flash cards..
http://www.internationalparentingassociation.org/Materials/index.html
RE: weaning off breast..
Can I get some advice on mommies who are giving EBM/ FM via bottle only? I'm still latching on at home but my baby takes very long to finish feeding on the breast and next month I'm back to full time work plus I have to do some studying so I don't know if I can cope with pumping/ latching and I want to have time to play with my girl as well... a bit worried that I wont be able to cope... how are you all coping? Is it an emotional struggle to stop latching? i feel that i'll miss that bond cos its the only thing that I have with my girl that no one else can do.. Am I just being too emotional?
Sleepingdeer...
U are very good with tolerating ur MIL... maybe u can just "ignore" her comments cos she seems to make these insensitive remarks with whatever u do... maybe u just do what is best for ur baby... don't let your baby get caught in between!
Sometimes my inlaws do make funny remarks like " i think your girl's cry is too weak.. don't feed so soon so she can build her lungs by crying out loud" aiyor... my poor hubby as a baby... but I just smile and say issit? then just feed ASAP MY STYLE!
dear mummies
just saw this, so thot will share since we hv a topic on 2nd bb.
http://www.babycenter.com/news/?id=532197&scid=momsbaby:20060424:2741:17840:7898#story
just saw this, so thot will share since we hv a topic on 2nd bb.
http://www.babycenter.com/news/?id=532197&scid=momsbaby:20060424:2741:17840:7898#story
hi mummies
too busy over the weekend.
1. Denmy - aqua
2. Cookie - Yellow or Lilac also can
3. SL - Lilac
4. tabbiesus - aqua
5. Cindy - Lime green (confirm)
6. SY - aqua
7. Mashybrainz - Lilac
8. Clayre - Lilac
9.God's child - lime green
10. krissie - yellow
thanks for helping to get this!
re flashcards
i tried to flash again but i only manage to flash like 5 cards a day cos hard to catch his mood. i find it hard to keep to the instructions actually. is it ok if i retire the cards once he has seen it 15 times?
mashy
how u get him interested?
sleepingdeer,
best is to ignore her! maybe now that u decided to stay at home to take care of shannon, your MIL decides that she wants to take care of her too so all the weird comments....
my MIL also say weird things like ask me to take care of my bb properly..u mean i won't take care of him properly is it? really find it weird to hear such things from them...
tabbiessus
i am on both EBM/FM but that's cos i not enough. i will still let him suckle once in a while. initially i did think that i will miss out on the bonding but after a while when u get used to it, it's ok. there are other ways to bond.
too busy over the weekend.
1. Denmy - aqua
2. Cookie - Yellow or Lilac also can
3. SL - Lilac
4. tabbiesus - aqua
5. Cindy - Lime green (confirm)
6. SY - aqua
7. Mashybrainz - Lilac
8. Clayre - Lilac
9.God's child - lime green
10. krissie - yellow
thanks for helping to get this!
re flashcards
i tried to flash again but i only manage to flash like 5 cards a day cos hard to catch his mood. i find it hard to keep to the instructions actually. is it ok if i retire the cards once he has seen it 15 times?
mashy
how u get him interested?
sleepingdeer,
best is to ignore her! maybe now that u decided to stay at home to take care of shannon, your MIL decides that she wants to take care of her too so all the weird comments....
my MIL also say weird things like ask me to take care of my bb properly..u mean i won't take care of him properly is it? really find it weird to hear such things from them...
tabbiessus
i am on both EBM/FM but that's cos i not enough. i will still let him suckle once in a while. initially i did think that i will miss out on the bonding but after a while when u get used to it, it's ok. there are other ways to bond.
durianlover
New Member
Re: bumbo
Rena, i'm also interested but is there a website to see the sample of the different colours?
Really no time to catch up with all the postings so if i miss out on posting my bumbo order pls sms/call me at 93831991 can? thanks!
Rena, i'm also interested but is there a website to see the sample of the different colours?
Really no time to catch up with all the postings so if i miss out on posting my bumbo order pls sms/call me at 93831991 can? thanks!
durianlover
here's the website you can check the color. me oso deciding which color to get, oso to get hb to agreed to buy...
http://www.bumbobabysitter.com/
here's the website you can check the color. me oso deciding which color to get, oso to get hb to agreed to buy...
http://www.bumbobabysitter.com/
mashybrainz
New Member
SY
Nothing leh. I think he's just one curious little boy.
Nothing leh. I think he's just one curious little boy.
Sleepingdeer,
Just reply her ok but immediately feed ur gal again lor. My MIL also dun like to feed bb with milk. Last Sat my girl got no appetite as she just wake up. She just spit out everything I feed. MIL told me not to force her, anyway no need to feed so much milk. Feed water will do. So fedup with her. Can't imagine if I leave Jamie there for a few hrs. Hb actually suggested to leave her there and we go Compasspoint to shop but I refused to. And I told hb NO WAY I am going to leave her alone with PIL.
Just reply her ok but immediately feed ur gal again lor. My MIL also dun like to feed bb with milk. Last Sat my girl got no appetite as she just wake up. She just spit out everything I feed. MIL told me not to force her, anyway no need to feed so much milk. Feed water will do. So fedup with her. Can't imagine if I leave Jamie there for a few hrs. Hb actually suggested to leave her there and we go Compasspoint to shop but I refused to. And I told hb NO WAY I am going to leave her alone with PIL.
happypiggy
Active Member
Sl/rachel/denmy/tabbiesus,
Re: Bumper Mat
I also interested to get. How much are you gals looking at? If got good lobang or BP let me know too k?? Thanks! = )
Re: Bumper Mat
I also interested to get. How much are you gals looking at? If got good lobang or BP let me know too k?? Thanks! = )
sophia_rebekah
New Member
Hi mummies! Wow! so much to catch up!
Bumbo seats
Count me in too! I would like one in aqua color. So if order more than 6 the price would be $68? And where would the collection point be?
Bumbo seats
Count me in too! I would like one in aqua color. So if order more than 6 the price would be $68? And where would the collection point be?
RE: Flash Card
One of the mummies is doing a BP leh. I am purchasing.. see if u all are interested?
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/270192/406326.html?1145851114#POST1642938
One of the mummies is doing a BP leh. I am purchasing.. see if u all are interested?
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/270192/406326.html?1145851114#POST1642938
mashybrainz
New Member
may
Actually if bb doesn't wanna drink, cannot force one leh, else the bb will start to think that milk time is unbearable and will grow to dislike milk time.
Actually if bb doesn't wanna drink, cannot force one leh, else the bb will start to think that milk time is unbearable and will grow to dislike milk time.
mashybrainz
New Member
Re: bumper playmat
How much? If anyone can get it cheap, i'll be interested too.
How much? If anyone can get it cheap, i'll be interested too.
sophia_rebekah
New Member
Re: BP
What's BP? sorry, abit lost with all the short-forms
What's BP? sorry, abit lost with all the short-forms
mashybrainz
New Member
BP: Bulk Purchase
wander_mum
Member
Hi,
May I join?
May I join?
tabbiesus,
i've weaned my bb from my breast long long ago. there are many other ways to bond, dun be too worried. some of my frens were commenting that the point of BF is to ve the bond thr. well, to me, the main point of BF is provide bb with nutritious milk! maybe dats y i could stop direct latch without feeling bad about it. so its jus how u view it.
re:bumper mat
so much talk about the bumper mat..anyone got lobang? i also interested now.
i've weaned my bb from my breast long long ago. there are many other ways to bond, dun be too worried. some of my frens were commenting that the point of BF is to ve the bond thr. well, to me, the main point of BF is provide bb with nutritious milk! maybe dats y i could stop direct latch without feeling bad about it. so its jus how u view it.
re:bumper mat
so much talk about the bumper mat..anyone got lobang? i also interested now.
wander_mum
Member
My bb gal 3mth 3wks.
Any1 heard be 4 that we got to refrain ourselve from consuming papaya, bitter gourd, pumpkin? My MIL told me last nite.
Any1 heard be 4 that we got to refrain ourselve from consuming papaya, bitter gourd, pumpkin? My MIL told me last nite.
wander_mum
Member
Ask her she also don't know. Just told me can only take after 4mths. Another problematic MIL. Told her is too late to let me know....(If she sincere, shd let me know earlier...not when approaching 4mths).
tracy
yah, went there on last saturady.
brought my model (my boyboy) over too to try on the sling. haha lucky he did not scream the whole place down. bought nursing bra and nursing top too.
after successfully sling my boy on, think he quite like it. he slept all the way in the sling after i BF him in the car.even went for lunch and find a friend after that but he still sleep soundly in it. so happy, at last put the sling to good use liao =)
yah, went there on last saturady.
brought my model (my boyboy) over too to try on the sling. haha lucky he did not scream the whole place down. bought nursing bra and nursing top too.
after successfully sling my boy on, think he quite like it. he slept all the way in the sling after i BF him in the car.even went for lunch and find a friend after that but he still sleep soundly in it. so happy, at last put the sling to good use liao =)
SY
hahaha think he is beginning to relise these objects infront of him is his hands bah! true lo, real difficult to capture their funny/cute moment. by the time you get the camera, they jus dont cooperate leh...
your boy has lots of hair! mine yah... sigh... shake head... turning bo ta
hahaha think he is beginning to relise these objects infront of him is his hands bah! true lo, real difficult to capture their funny/cute moment. by the time you get the camera, they jus dont cooperate leh...
your boy has lots of hair! mine yah... sigh... shake head... turning bo ta
jojopiglover
New Member
harlow mummies...on course today...so can come in and post...hehe...
Ohh...need to check with all mummies...anyone having menses despite TBF? My menses came back today....a bit then stopped...issit ok...cos when I had my first boy...my menses started very soon...but this round...can tong until 3.5 months...so not too sure if it is normal...can anybody HELP!!!
Thanks!
Ohh...need to check with all mummies...anyone having menses despite TBF? My menses came back today....a bit then stopped...issit ok...cos when I had my first boy...my menses started very soon...but this round...can tong until 3.5 months...so not too sure if it is normal...can anybody HELP!!!
sleepingdeer
Active Member
Hi mummies who went got the gathering...
had a great time... will be looking forward to the next one... though I hope Shannon will behave herself more at the next gathering...
here's the one lousy photo I managed to catch b4 my gal started wailing away AGAIN!... Other mummies, do share your photos hoh...
had a great time... will be looking forward to the next one... though I hope Shannon will behave herself more at the next gathering...
here's the one lousy photo I managed to catch b4 my gal started wailing away AGAIN!... Other mummies, do share your photos hoh...
hi mummies who went gathering..
I had a good time too!! many thanks to the hostress-Rena.
All the babies like each has something on their mind.. heehee...
errr.. I cannot post photos from my camera yet, hb using my usuall pc.
Demny>> when I show my hb Kaelyn on same bed with keenan and told him that's the boy friend.. my HB shock..hahaha...
I had a good time too!! many thanks to the hostress-Rena.
All the babies like each has something on their mind.. heehee...
errr.. I cannot post photos from my camera yet, hb using my usuall pc.
Demny>> when I show my hb Kaelyn on same bed with keenan and told him that's the boy friend.. my HB shock..hahaha...
Re: fed up with MIL
fed up ley... I starting work on Thurs, my MIL MIA until Wed afternoon then come back. we dun call her she also dun call and tell us... very irreponsible
dunno how to trust her.
I dun have time to orientate her...darn...
and it's pretty irritating.. she wans to go MIA when everytime before and after she comes back or go off to MIA.. she will wanna fight taking care of kaelyn with me...even when I rock her to sleep, wanna snatch over.
I mean.. if she so "she bu de" then dun MIA la...feb up...arrrgghhhh...
Ok finish complaining...
fed up ley... I starting work on Thurs, my MIL MIA until Wed afternoon then come back. we dun call her she also dun call and tell us... very irreponsible
I dun have time to orientate her...darn...
and it's pretty irritating.. she wans to go MIA when everytime before and after she comes back or go off to MIA.. she will wanna fight taking care of kaelyn with me...even when I rock her to sleep, wanna snatch over.
I mean.. if she so "she bu de" then dun MIA la...feb up...arrrgghhhh...
Ok finish complaining...
GATHERING
Rena - Thanks for letting us mess up ur plc. BB & I had a good time.
Denmy - Thanks for the sling demo.
Cookie - Maybe ur MIL needs to take a breather once in a while. Tat's why she MIA. She paiseh tell u mah. Older folks will never admit tat she is tired from taking care of their grandchild. After MIA, she miss ur gal, so she want to be close to Kaelyn.
Here are some pics from the gathering.....
Ethan making new frens
So fast holding hands liao! Faintz!
The more we get together....together....together!
Rena - Thanks for letting us mess up ur plc. BB & I had a good time.
Denmy - Thanks for the sling demo.
Cookie - Maybe ur MIL needs to take a breather once in a while. Tat's why she MIA. She paiseh tell u mah. Older folks will never admit tat she is tired from taking care of their grandchild. After MIA, she miss ur gal, so she want to be close to Kaelyn.
Here are some pics from the gathering.....
Ethan making new frens
So fast holding hands liao! Faintz!
The more we get together....together....together!
happypiggy
Active Member
The pictures are sooo sweet!! How I wish Ashley & I were there too!! Next time round maybe I'll try take leave n join u all... = )