Rena,
When is ur doctor coming back? My gynae at Gleneagles is very reasonably priced. Before I bought the package, I used to pay only about $80 per visit, including scan. If your gynae still not coming back next week, come see my gynae, Prof Ng SC, O&G Partners.
Also, ladies, lets not jump to conclusions that her hb is having an affair as yet. He may be cheating on her, but he may not have commited adultery unless he admits it himself or you have proof of it. To put bluntly, by law, commiting adultry requires the parties involved to be sexually engaged. If he hasn't done anything of that sort, he has not commited adultry. Assumptions and jumping to conclusions only make matters worse instead of solving anything.
For all you know, because of all our homornes surging, we could be over-reactive to certain things which are not as bad as we thought it is.