wow really lotsa posting cannot catch up.. (I'm saying this everytime I come in..hehe)
Sunny
I was in the same position as you before Kyler arrive, headache on how to handle. But I have 1 more option.. which is getting a helper and I Choose that.
I plan to send Kae to playgroup when she is abt 2.5yr old and also when Ky is bigger ( was also worrying on the get sick part). So mean while.. the helper help out MIL on the daily chores.
By the time kae is old enough to go school, helper contract will be ending too so just nice.
Dunno abt you..MIL also say she can cope with 2 kids but I'm actually glad that helper is here cos now even I'm at home, it's still handful, esp when the 2 babies cry together. Kyler wants milk - he need us but Kae a bit "tei" and wanna be carry - she want us. I know I have to attend to Kyler cos he is hungry but kae can be very sticky esp when she din have enough nap.
I was out running errand and MIL told me... she cannot cook and eat dinner cos Kae stick to her like koala and Kyler crying for milk..*faint*
Flo
Remember I was asking mummy abt this headache not long ago..hehehe...
and Thanks to all mummies contribution.. their advice works for me and Kae.
Last time I used to sit her on the toiletbowl and want to brush her teeth but she die die will refuse.
The new method (I combine a few mummies advice..hehe) is let her stand on chair next to me when we brush teeth together (even I just brush after I wake up), i apply 1st teeth on her brush ( I change to oral B, kae dun like pigoen somehow) and I apply mine.
I will brush to demo for her, she will take her brush to follow. The I show her the "eeee" when we brush the front and sides and "Ahhhh" when we brush inside. Then I rinse first... and follow by helping her to brush, meanwhile she will be busy going thru my toiletries items. then I will "eeee" and "Ahhh" so she will form the mouth for me to brush.
She still zip her mouth or bite the brush but most time she is pretty co-operative.
Thanks to all mommies again...
