Hi Mummies
So many posts to catch up on.
Have a complaint to make, need to find someplace to air my frustrations. My hb came back yesterday finally, from Croatia, flight got delayed for an hour and I was early at the airport somemore! THere and then, can suddenly feel the tiredness just taking over me. Was happy to see my hb.
Just in the weee hours of this morning, Daren woke up crying for milk, but his appetite has been poor lately, think maybe he's recovering from his flu/cough and still on medication, but didn't drink much. From a full 180ml feed, now he only takes in 100ml. Daren wants to get back to sleep and I carried him and pat him, his eyes were closed, and when I placed him back down in his cot, he made noise and toss and turned. I went back to my room and tried to go back to sleep, but still hearing Daren making noise via the baby monitor, thinking his diaper needs changing as his groin area was red, I woke my hb up to change him and help settle him to sleep. ALL these took place at around 4 plus am.
6.30am, Daren suddenly woke up howling/crying, I quickly got up and went to get some water for him, my hb got up and carried him up, and when I came back to the room and just say, "ok, drink water", my hb just (to me), kind of burst out saying," Can you take over him? I barely slept!" I heard that, I was so furious there and then.
I just took over from my hb and tried to soothe and settle Daren as much as possible, seemed like Daren wanted to sleep somemore but was uncomfortable, end up placed him in the sarong.
I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable here, not having taken into consideration that hb is going through jet-lag, but he was promising me that now he's back home, it'll be much easier for me...seems like this week I can forget bout it. Moreover, I'm having a field trip starting at 5.30am this Thursday and Friday, how to entrust Daren into his care?
Looks like I got to stay at my mum's on Wednesday and Thursday....