smacking & caning
I have caned Ariene before but it hurts me too much when I see the red mark on her thigh afterward. Also, when Ariene sees the cane, she'll cry Noo.. pain pain.. so heartache.. so I asked my maid to "hide" the cane from me so I cant use it on her anymore. Now, I just use my hand to smack her hand when she does something wrong. It gets the message across for my case. Few days ago, she took the crayola crayon and started leaving signatures of her masterpieces everywhere - sofa, chair, wall, door, table. I took her to each & every place that she shouldn't scribble on, point to the scribbling, very sternly tell her "NO, we don't draw here" and smack her hand, then show her the sketch book and tell her "Yes, that's right we draw here". All the while, she knows she's done wrong and her head hung low down. Towards the end, she was dropping tears and she said "Sorry mummy" and gave me a hug. After that, I asked her to get a damp cloth and clean up her mess. Now, if she forgets and tries to draw elsewhere, I'll give her a stern NO and she'll go get her sketch book and say "Draw here".
Payment updates
Sunny - $57.60
Aileen - paid
krissie - paid
chickenlittle - paid
tabbiseus - paid
wenyl - paid
Chilles - paid
flo - paid
Sunny, do u have my account numbers? You've never joined my sprees before, so I don't think u got my account numbers right?