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Mandy n everyone Such men don't deserve our faithfulness. I was just thinking before I came to this forum that when my ex pass away, I will not even attend his funeral. For some things , the more we are sentimental the worse for us. Such trash will hold us back from achieving our real...

My single colleague told me the other day ABC is divorced n she speculated that it must be ABC"s aggressive personality . I was thinking - you have not been married, how do u know? Be careful who you tell to.. I kept my status a secret. It is none of their business.

Cuttie - u sure hui hui will get the house if she got kids custody ? What if she cannot afford to buy him out? How will court rule?

It is tough to divorce when the kids are young, esp if you dont have family support. Luckily I only discovered his straying when my elder one entered primary school. It is easier as they are older. I wonder how many mummies out there tolerate or "tahan" until the kids are older? How do you cope?

Angie and Juz Yes..please keep us posted when the story is coming out for ALL the media. Thanks!! We will support n watch...and tell our gal friends to watch...

Thanks juz n princess It is not an easy decision to make but I felt I had to. Else I can never respect the woman I see in the mirror every second of my life. Besides, my kids told me they are happier now - there is peace. I don't care what he does with his life. If he contracts a terrible...

Hahaha. Peanut - I like your post!!

Juz Divorce was a way for me to gain back my self-respect and to get back "my piece of the sky", so to speak. To use your words in another post - I initiated the divorce with my head held up high.

Even if the guy is having sex with you doesn't not mean he is not cheating. He has the urge n you are there. Full stop. So ladies, once you sense he is behaving suspiciously, start checking on him. Whether there is sex or not in the marriage.

Angeline Chan - what website is that, that your hubby visited? Let's pool our knowledge together - we will be more "powerful" that way. Magpie Tan - I empathise with you. A year ago, I was stressed and down. Because I debated long and hard as to whether to divorce or not. I opted for divorce...

Just saw a friend's post on FB. She was so happy at the ROM and posted: "In a Miss, out a Mrs". Bah! What is the big deal about being Mrs? What Lonely Heart said above is right. You can be super sweet but there is no stopping your husband from seeking thrills outside and blaming you. My...

put a cctv in your house please! i am very worried for your daughter.

Jon In response to your post : I m a very positive woman. I don't sweat the smAll stuff and I see humor in almost any situation. I don't nag. My husband is often the negative one. I m not ugly. In fact I was an sia air stewardess. Then why does my husband still stray ?

Shirley Your husband confessed his affair to you? That's very nice. Before that, you don't know about the affair?

Well said shoppixe. You are also v knowledgeable. Most guys may not tell you they are going to a health centre. They say "massage" but you must be alert already!! I know some of us sound negative but we have been burnt. So we are smarter n wiser. I wish I had known all this years ago.

Susanna.... Pics of syt??? Don't keep us in suspense leh...

Just wondering - was it Regina who told us about sammyboy? Before that, we never heard of it? I m doing a poll of sorts. Seems like most of us have not heard of sbf. WHY? Is it because we spent too much time on family matters? We don't google on certain topics so we are not aware of sbf ?

Hi Mehui You made a sharp observation - about men reporting home punctually. that's how I got fooled by mine. Queenie - it is still not an equal world huh? Anything we can do to change it???

I agree with Susanna. Thanks suz for the info!! You are one interesting gal!! Decent men? Who are they? Can we tell? What about the principal and the teacher that were caught?? Which man would not enjoy a "cat bath"? Sad reality is - very few will say no.

Wow Susanna !! Really? What is a cat bath?