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it has been a while... jus wanna say Hello to all. And once again... JIA YOU JIA YOU JIA YOU!!!!!!!!

hi ling, athen the menses finally came!!! So relieved...

I see. Thanks Ling. Actually I spotted in early Aug. I asked TCM doc, she said that is considered menses even though it's spotting. So she asked me to observe for early Sep. So yah I will monitor again... if no news I will see gynae. Thanks Ling. You have been a great help.

I see. thanks Ling. So ur dowager came after 3 mths?!?!? Wat did u do to induce it?

Hi Ling, Athen Thanks for the advices. Ling, thanks for telling me about asherman's syndrome... 1st time i heard of this. ok will monitor till next month. If nt i will go back to the gynae. Athen not too sure about allergic to chinese herbal soup but I think some bodies react to things like...

hi ladies same here. not sure if i m having the same "problem" but since my D&C, my menses is still MIA. wanna try also cannot... cos no cycle at all. not sure will it affect subsequent chances of preg. dunno why i so anxious to try, probably cos i think this is the only way to get over...

sigh my MIL went to tell my SILs about my preg when i was 5 wks too. I din like tat not cos' I pantang but cos i did not want the pressure. somehow i felt pressurised after they all knew. I dunno if this is a normal reaction. And now that bb is gone, i feel sadder in front of them since they...

Athen (hugs), mabbe in our mommies' time, there is seldom Mc cases or rather pp never tok about it so they think there is rare case of mc. dun mind too much abt her... I think if i were you, i will avoid her calls too for a time being too, since ur hubby can't really help in the communication...

Yah Piglet I think this is one way to console myself... but now i m worried about my future chances since my body is still "not normal" in terms of menstrual cycle. Hi Athen you are a strong lady. Thank goodness for your bb boy. I certainly hope that things will get better for this little...

paws68, your wonder is exactly mine too! I think on some level, the food we eat and the work we are doing make some diff to our bodies. But then, around me, there are pp who can have their babies normally and it seems easy. After losing my first bb, i realise it's not easy. NExt time, I will...

piglet, pat... hugsssssss miss shann, really thank you for encouraging. my gynae asked me to rest for 2 mths but i was wondering does that mean 2 mths of rest or 2 mths of menses... cos my menses is just spotting.

piglet cry just let it out... that was what i did. I tahan at the clinic then when I was alone, I simply let it all out.. It was my first too. I could see my bb's shape. I was 9 weeks with the bb:~~~( i really noe how sad u r now... Hugs

Ling, thank you. Yah I will try not to think too much and let my body heal. Kept thinking the worse. :S

Thanks Bingo. Yes let's JIA YOU! For now I am waiting for my body to recuperate. Seems like it's slow process to have only spotting instead of menses. Piglet, really sorry to hear that and I am sure the ladies here really empathise cos we have been there. I dunno about mis-diagnosis but I...

hugs, nico... reinluv, u r not crazy. it's just show how much we miss the little one. time will heal the pain but it will never make us forget "IF the baby is here, she/he will be... ..." IF the baby is here, my tummy will be ... ...". Now I look at those woman with round big tummy with...

Hi Nico the actual surgery is very fast mabbe abt 20min or so. Just that you need to do a lot of waiting before and after the surgery. Before it, i need to wait for my cervix to soften (after 2 tablets are inserted) so that it will not be damaged during D&C. After the surgery, I need...

Hi bibi Thanks for re-assuring. You ladies made me feel that I am ok. It's just that kinda irritating to keep waiting.

Hi Sther happy that ur menses came! I wish mine can be normal again. My spotting has ended. It lasted for a week. Now i am still waiting for the moment... really dunno when it will come.

Hi reinluv, lux Thanks so much for sharing ur experience. I guess I am just spotting on and off and I have kind of "wasted" so many pads. So afraid the "flood" will just come in. Hi sther, D&C shd be the "washing". Going through the day surgery to remove the foetus from the womb. I...

Hi Lux it has been slightly more than a mth. So by right this is the time for the menses to come. Still on and off spotting. Today seems nothing.