don't worry, my first D&C I bled for more than 2 weeks. if u are uncomfy or really scared, call the clinic. they will tell u whether they need to see u a not.Ladies,
This is my 12 day after D&C. Last few days, I didn't have much bleeding, only very very light light brown spotting.
Yesterday n today, I notice more red brown bleeding when I wipe. It stain my pantie liner too... Kind of worry now.
Took my temperature, so far no fever. Might be normal bah...
Hope it reduce bleeding soon. Yesterday just draw tons of blood, then bottom also bleeding now. Wa Piang!
Duno isst bcos I drink black chicken soup n causes it, inside the soup a lot of herb...
Got scare by the first D&C, now abit panic abt the 2nd D&C. Hope it wouldn't be that bad lor... Stop pls stop ASAP.... Pray pray.... Dun wan to have bleeding when I'm at Korea, have to keep the news away from my mil... Hope it will reduce bleeding...
Ur 2nd MC it flow out by itself? Did u told Dr Su abt it? Previous time I heard Dr Su saying if that the cases, meaning something wrong with the implantation.. Need to BU a lot... Hug hug!! Why we have to go thru it again... Haiz!
Big big hug! I really couldn't imaging how will I ever felt to see my sac dropping out.
U a strong women.... Jiayou girl... Sorry to bring the past out... Hug hug!
We shall close that chapter move on. Now I'm trying brainwash myself, try not to think anymore since it doesn't help.
Back to square one lor... Now I only wish my bleeding stop ASAP... So I could Ttc again...
Just now call the clinic abt my bleeding, dr say it normal. As it take a few stage for my womb to flush all unwanted stuff out, so I will have on n off bleeding... Before D&C, he say I will stop spotting during 2 week, that why bite my teeth n go thru D&C again....Now only hope I dun bleed like the previous time... Dr wan to give me pills to be taken during my Korea trip, it helps to stop the bleeding. But felt it not good lor... Store those dirt inside not a good thing...
Princess & hopeful mum,
I'm going on the 30th... Another 2 day to go...
Notice my blood got some tissue too... Could be flushing out those unwanted stuff now.
Now it seem turning from red brown to very dark brown.. Just had to endure this period.. Trying my best to stay calm n ignore it... Hehe!
Agree fully... I prefer natural or pills to flush out... Somehow the doc afraid it might not able to flush out fully n cause some infection... That scare my hubby to max... So everyone keep encourage me to go for another D&C. In fact I'm totally against the idea but my gynea saying it will stop bleeding aft 2 week, so I bite my teeth n go for it... Haiz!! Now I can only hope it stop ASAP...
Haze...
I like ur new avatar....!!! Hee
About ur spotting etc, I think it's normal...the TCM in chinatown said...after D&C is considered menses come...so I would assume that's ur menses as well.
But again u monitor ...if more than 2 wks better to see ur gynae....
Thanks for ur advise ah............will get what u and Hopeful mum went on recurrent test and will bring it to KKH doc to say on Dec 6th.
Sigh.............hopefully the price tag is not that great there....................
if they dont have....i will go get referral letter from poly clinic then................hee...............
Hi all, This is my first post here. Had my evacuation of uterus at week 11 on 7 Nov. Report to my agent which I am covered under Prushield. But in the end I wasnt able to claim anything as they only cover etopic pregnancy and late pregnancy. Anyone here that is under Prushield and had to do missed abortion but manage to claim anything?
Thanks all!
Hi all, This is my first post here. Had my evacuation of uterus at week 11 on 7 Nov. Report to my agent which I am covered under Prushield. But in the end I wasnt able to claim anything as they only cover etopic pregnancy and late pregnancy. Anyone here that is under Prushield and had to do missed abortion but manage to claim anything?
Thanks all!
That day nothing to do, so went to search for a good avatar that will bring positive thought for me. Glad u like it too. *^^*
This coming Sat will be my 2nd week... But I be at Korea, so will see lor... If come back Sg still heavy spotting then I will go back my gynea. So far I checked with my gynea, he say it normal. As it takes a few stage to expel those unwanted stuff. Maybe my body wasn't that strong enough to expel at once... So takes longer time... I can only wait for my TCM appt... Sianz! Must wait for so long...
I duno if KKH have any recurrent miscarriage dept... But I know nuh have it lor. So if u wan a better review from doc, nuh will be better. Since u paying for the tests, must as well get the best doc.... *^^*... Are u under subsidize in KKH? Duno if u can referrer from KKH to Nuh? Try to call KKH n NUH G clinic for enquire, since u are under gov hospital ma.... Then u dun have to go polyclinic n refer again, save time n money. *^^*
Hee.....nice one!
You take good care in korea ................you gg for holiday? Or work? Maybe is your menses...........hard to say bah................
Yah that TCM is very long wait. I also waited for long........................
I called NUH le..........they say can get referral letter from KKH................hee..............
I hoped KKH can do also lah............then no need to go so many places....................
Miracle No 2,
Thanks for the reply! I cant find much information from the clause. Maybe I should check with my agent? But Mt A had reported my day surgery to prudential when i check in for surgery thus they might have reported my condition to the insurance company.
Let me know if you appealed successfully......
Haze02,
Nope i did not stay over. Is jus a day surgery. Can claim under medishield? how should i go about doing it? thanks in advance!
Yes I'm going there with my inlaws for holiday. Before I realize I'm pregnant my tour already been book. Then less then a mth, everything is gone... So consider lucky that I didn't cancel the trip.... Now I can go there n relax abit... *^^*
Hm... I also hope it menses but seem too early... Only less then 2 week, the flow isn't that much compare to menses. I even could see small tissue dropping out... So could be the dirty blood etc... Anyway my Gan Chiong husband arrange an appt with NUH tomolo, go there for a properly checkup to ensure my D&C is done properly... He doesn't wan anything happen in Korea.... Duno where to search for help...
Waaaa, need referral letter too wor... So mafan... If KKH can do the tests, then u can save trouble.
Yes lor.... Let me relax abit.... But somehow going with my inlaws n with sil child too. Look at those kid will make me upset too... Will try my best to stay happy n dun think so much... Hehehe!
The recurrent MC result wouldn't be out that early.... Plus the recurrent MC dept only open once per mth. Meaning u have to wait til the next recurrent MC dept for ur result... So on the day of ur draw blood etc, u wouldn't receive anything lor.. Only the super sweet drink that have consume n wait for another 2 hrs for another blood draw... No idea why needed but I just listen to them lor... Hehehe! My next result will be on next mth... So right now I couldn't advise u on that....
Hahaha! Dun panic.... Yes I heard the doc that attend to me mention.
Recurrent MC only open once per mth.... But the tests can be done at G clinic... No worries...
Btw, they are not testing one blood alone.... More then 10 blood will be tested... So time will be needed bah... Then by the time, recurrent MC dept will take over ur result....
Hmmm...okay then....I see how KKH says next week when I visit them..........have listed out what both u and hopeful mum shared...will ask if I can do all as well..........sigh....
heee..................
Today u reply rather fast............u not working ? Or sian? I am sian so I reply and work at the same time........LOL
Yes lor... No mood to work... Keep went up n down the toilet to see my bleeding condition. Hahaha!
Damm piss... Shd have select natural way instead of D&C.... Hate those none stop bleeding... Super irritating
It has been 10 days since i m/c. i thought i can get over this soon, but seems like it hard to put down, even thou at that point of m/c, there is no fetus formed. I am still spotting, everytime when i visit the toilet, it reminded me of the loss. It havent been a good week as well, as i m also down with hfmd after i m/c. Can't sleep well, and all these affected my daily life so much. I even lost controlling my temper this morning to my boy, felt so gulity after that. I just can't help but to keep tearing today...
yvet, jia you. just cry all out like what miracle 2 has said. All of us can feel u, and we understand. if I can survive 3 mcs without a child at all, u will be able to and grow stronger from this. Ur boy needs u, so after crying slowly recover mentally and try againYvet,
I feel you..honestly.........it's like all things come at one goal....you have no time to even settle your mind then another issue arise.
It's okay to feel sad.......but don't let it affect your drive to move on with life..........you have a little boy....look at him........you are still very fortunate.........
We will think about this for a period of time........until something good happens to us again..........but again............dont let this affect your life and desire to have another baby............What you should do now...is to rest well.........eat some bu......to build up your body constitutes.......let ur HFMD ease....with all the blisters etc....(My son also got HFMD this week..., I understand the pain and irritation) .....
Talk to us if needed.......I really will not say those its okay...dont cry words...cos I know it's of no use....I will tell u to just cry all you want...at the end of the day...think about your son....you still have a son whom you love.........let him be your focus of energy to move out of sadness.............
Be strong!!!
Things will get better but it all takes time!
Jia you!!
Hmm...then maybe it's good to check on the D&C mayb it's some reaction to that....But tmr u gg...so also good..to check...
Dont angry lah.........gg to holiday liao....think happy things...........
By the way, if I got my own report...I can go to the NUH recurrent clinic and show the doctor what the report is about right?
Hi all, This is my first post here. Had my evacuation of uterus at week 11 on 7 Nov. Report to my agent which I am covered under Prushield. But in the end I wasnt able to claim anything as they only cover etopic pregnancy and late pregnancy. Anyone here that is under Prushield and had to do missed abortion but manage to claim anything?
Thanks all!
haze02, u took the drink bcoz u were tested for glucose - diabetics. OTCG or something like that, that time I saw on ur list. so that will check if you have any high glucose. ur family has history of diabetics?
Princess & hopeful mum,
I'm going on the 30th... Another 2 day to go...
Notice my blood got some tissue too... Could be flushing out those unwanted stuff now.
Now it seem turning from red brown to very dark brown.. Just had to endure this period.. Trying my best to stay calm n ignore it... Hehe!
Agree fully... I prefer natural or pills to flush out... Somehow the doc afraid it might not able to flush out fully n cause some infection... That scare my hubby to max... So everyone keep encourage me to go for another D&C. In fact I'm totally against the idea but my gynea saying it will stop bleeding aft 2 week, so I bite my teeth n go for it... Haiz!! Now I can only hope it stop ASAP...
It has been 10 days since i m/c. i thought i can get over this soon, but seems like it hard to put down, even thou at that point of m/c, there is no fetus formed. I am still spotting, everytime when i visit the toilet, it reminded me of the loss. It havent been a good week as well, as i m also down with hfmd after i m/c. Can't sleep well, and all these affected my daily life so much. I even lost controlling my temper this morning to my boy, felt so gulity after that. I just can't help but to keep tearing today...
It has been 10 days since i m/c. i thought i can get over this soon, but seems like it hard to put down, even thou at that point of m/c, there is no fetus formed. I am still spotting, everytime when i visit the toilet, it reminded me of the loss. It havent been a good week as well, as i m also down with hfmd after i m/c. Can't sleep well, and all these affected my daily life so much. I even lost controlling my temper this morning to my boy, felt so gulity after that. I just can't help but to keep tearing today...
Should be ending soon ba, since already saw dark blood. *Crossing fingers
Enjoy your trip! Dun think too much
so weird hor?! my hubby also, his parents both suffer from SERIOUS diabetics. but not us test us for what?? hmm but I wasn't tested. I did read somewhere before it can have an impact on the troops that's why I control my hubby's diet. and his blood sugar level already high leh.Nope, my family doesn't have diabetic history wor. Nurses also wonder why dr order it for me too... But my husband family suffer from diabetic... Duno will that affect my bb anot... Since the troop is his ma... Got raise this question during my next review...
u quite strong already, cry 3 days only. during my first mc very scary, I was crying and driving home luckily nvr got into accident. just cannot control. then at home cry and cry, got mc just stay at home cry. eventually got buy jig saw to distract myself. also cry at the clinic, sigh. so embarrassing, then all the ladies so happy waiting for their turn to see their babies. sigh somemore my hubby not with me, he was away for one mth.yvet,
Sorry for your loss. Big hugs
Feel free to talk and rant here. Everyone is nice and understanding here, as we all been through the same path. It takes quite a while for you to get over this. Its normal to feel sad and frustrated over things now. I cried for 3 whole days after my first mc. I found it helps, to let everything out, rather then keep it in you. Its not healthy.
Take care!
No wor..., in the afternoon become reddish brown again. That why I'm so frustrated...
Im trying brainwash myself, let it flush out now is better then keep inside me... Dun think any it.... Jiayou!! Haha! Abit crazy today.. Mood goes up n down...
u quite strong already, cry 3 days only. during my first mc very scary, I was crying and driving home luckily nvr got into accident. just cannot control. then at home cry and cry, got mc just stay at home cry. eventually got buy jig saw to distract myself. also cry at the clinic, sigh. so embarrassing, then all the ladies so happy waiting for their turn to see their babies. sigh somemore my hubby not with me, he was away for one mth.
now I still cry on and off.
so weird hor?! my hubby also, his parents both suffer from SERIOUS diabetics. but not us test us for what?? hmm but I wasn't tested. I did read somewhere before it can have an impact on the troops that's why I control my hubby's diet. and his blood sugar level already high leh.
my dear, you keep thinking about it. Really dun think and stay relax. It will end.
Ya I know... Just couldn't help it. Haha!
Now I focus on my Korea trip... Pack luggage etc... So my mind wouldn't go everywhere.
ya loh, hmm dr shelia will ask you and ask many many qns. she asked abt family history etc.Yes lor! Best part the doc didn't even question abt my family history... Anyway let all be tested better then keep wondering... Just one more tube of blood, wouldn't kill me. Haha! My hubby didn't tests his diabetic before, so I duno how high is his sugar level... But his mother side have terrible cases lor... So alway he buy those sweet stuff, he will often get nag by me... During my next recurrent visit, I will make enquire with the dr...
i think ladies here are all strongI cry for 3 full days then slowly direct my attention elsewhere. I still cry on and off during that period but rather quietly. Cos do not want hubby to get upset too. When I keep crying non-stop those days, there is nothing he can do to stop me, the tears just keep flowing. I understand that, when I knew, tears just keep flowing, gynae have to pass me tissue, when I was outside at the counter, everyone stare at me, cos my tears just cannot stop. Perhaps its because things came too sudden, we are both too alarmed. My first mc happened on 9th week, during my first gynae check 6th week, bb still have heartbeat, so we did not expect this to happen, moreover my pregnancy symptoms very strong, I did not feel pain or spotting at all. I was actually very excited with the checkup to see how much bb had grown. That's why.
Luckily hubby is around cos he can work from home. Else, I really dunno when I will recover. You are strong, my dear, hubby not around and you can pull yourself together.
so envious i also want to go on a trip!Good good!