soontobemumof3
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Am a fulltime housewife and a mother of 3(youngest turning 3 next mth) just found out the my dearest hubby of 14 years for actually forged cert of annulment to denied kids and my existence and fool around with girls out there. He finally admitted to extra marital affair only upon confronted w/o a single word of apology and also refuse to talk to me since the day of confrontation. Prior to the confrontation, he always denied everything and even accused me for not trusting him... am a housewife for the past 12 yrs with Not a single helper, dealing everythings by myself 24/7 365days/years, Zero income, $50/week allowance fr hubby(for myself +3kids expenses) with NO saving. While I doing all the housechores from diaper changing, cooking, laundry, changelleing schoolworks etc.... He is busy working, partying, clubbing, socializing and hv affair in my back. No sign of remorseful, no change in his usual routine, where he left home at around 8am and back home only 2-3am daily. Previously, he keep claiming that he is busy at work with lot and lot of conference call liaise with U.S( due to time diff - which require him to stay so late) and sometime client dinners/function etc....... Now he SMS me and want me to let him stay away from home for a indefinite period of time.... What am I going to do? What if out of sight out of mind and out he go ....then where the $$ for kids and me?? I am unable to go out and work as my youngest only 2 and is not attending any childcare/playgroup coz my hubby claimed that he can't afford..and also my 2 primary school kids need supervise/ help with their changelleing homework - no tuition since day one of school coz again their father say Money not Enough!!!! At home lot of o/s bills, reminder letters, lawyer letter etc... And now facts shown that he mishandled his family relationship and finance all in the "wrong way/wrong person" but still he got no gut to face the music .... by asking to stay away from problems....... Now, am just worry due tonhis current financial status, if I file a divorce, will I be able to obtain any child and spouse support.....