Caramel candy
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Hi all
am in a very difficult situation now
i am married to a husband and he can never turn me on, despite discussed, he just goes with lubricant and penetrate. he thought through penetration i will be aroused but i wasnt, maybe because his penis was short to me. tbh i have no idea.
my concern is, lubricant has side effect and potential chemical in the body or might be causing cercival cancer, and sometimes i do have sexual frustration,
other concerns, he has oral odor, bad hygiene, this has been communicated, unable to improve, it's inbuilt, he doesnt brush teeth and shower in the morning. he finds it very troublesome
he has anxiety issues and had been on medication before we got married, and this resulted he has excessive sleep.. and if he doesnt sleep, his body wont be able to take it. which makes me feel disconnected and neglected. he requires to take 2-3hrs of nap daily.
i want second child so badly, i kinda have resentment towards him, but he doesnt want, we r financially very stable and more than sufficient to have second child.
other than that, he is a gentle man, and definitely wont cheat on me, family man, but neglect me and my child. i have been the caregvier to my child. he is living in the mindset that women shuld care more for kids, while he works outside.
statement:
i have a man who has been pursuing me lately, i see a chance to have a second child, he had bad temper. but not violent, he is also financially stable. he is willing to give up a lot of thgs and change for me of which he already done for me, he made some sacrficies for me, he gives me a hope to pursue and work on my dreams, he is also very active, unlike my spouse he prefers to nua/ rest the whole time, am someone who likes to travel and outdoors, he dotes on my child alot.
question:
should i divorce?
am in a very difficult situation now
i am married to a husband and he can never turn me on, despite discussed, he just goes with lubricant and penetrate. he thought through penetration i will be aroused but i wasnt, maybe because his penis was short to me. tbh i have no idea.
my concern is, lubricant has side effect and potential chemical in the body or might be causing cercival cancer, and sometimes i do have sexual frustration,
other concerns, he has oral odor, bad hygiene, this has been communicated, unable to improve, it's inbuilt, he doesnt brush teeth and shower in the morning. he finds it very troublesome
he has anxiety issues and had been on medication before we got married, and this resulted he has excessive sleep.. and if he doesnt sleep, his body wont be able to take it. which makes me feel disconnected and neglected. he requires to take 2-3hrs of nap daily.
i want second child so badly, i kinda have resentment towards him, but he doesnt want, we r financially very stable and more than sufficient to have second child.
other than that, he is a gentle man, and definitely wont cheat on me, family man, but neglect me and my child. i have been the caregvier to my child. he is living in the mindset that women shuld care more for kids, while he works outside.
statement:
i have a man who has been pursuing me lately, i see a chance to have a second child, he had bad temper. but not violent, he is also financially stable. he is willing to give up a lot of thgs and change for me of which he already done for me, he made some sacrficies for me, he gives me a hope to pursue and work on my dreams, he is also very active, unlike my spouse he prefers to nua/ rest the whole time, am someone who likes to travel and outdoors, he dotes on my child alot.
question:
should i divorce?