She says BKK can do chromosome test n do IVF thr is better. But the issue was that I am seeing her to make me feel better n not feel even more shitty abt my situation. And to be honest I felt my body was doing fine aft my 1st delivery. Even my other TCM doc thinks so. But she says my body is worst than b4 my 1st delivery..
i think dr zou is a nice lady. much much better as a person as compared TSB. TSB scolds, give sacarstic remarks and abit too full of herself.
some times i also feel down and angry over doctors' comments , feel that they cannot empathize wif ple lik us we are suffering so much to have a child.
however, sometimes what they say is also true . she may not be good in diagnosing your condition and say things that disappoints u ,but it is true that going overseas to do ivf has much much higher success rate. i think she is just trying to give advice to her patients so they will not waste too much time and heartache on ivf failures and miscarrriages .
even my Dr urged me to consider overseas ivf. ivf overseas wil raise your chances as much as up to 50% more . reason being the possibility of doing genetic tests that wil eliminate all bad embryos . in singapore, we wouldnt know if the embryos for transfer have any chromosomes issues. these are not visible to naked eye. non implantantation, miscarriages r mostly due to chromosome issues .
of course doing ivf overseas has its own set of problems. apart from lots of preparation research and homework to b done, financial burden and time constraint, one also has to consider one very important thing- tests of chromosome can only be ideally done on a day 5 blastocyst , and minimal a day 3 embryo . doing it on day 3 embryo has higher possibility of damaging the embryo. thus if one cannot have blastocyst or have very low number of eggs ,overseas ivf may not be a good option too.
since u are so blessed to have one child liao, maybe you will not be so desperate to do ivf overseas and maybe also no necessity to do so. dun bother about wat she said that might hurt u or disappoint u, Drs can nevr always be a good listener to all her patients or nice all the time .i told myself i am seeing a dr , get best treatment , i shd not expect them to be aunty agony. that is y i still sees tsb after being badly treated by her hahaha..
Maybe change tcm dr if u feel her diagnosis is not accurate as compare to otr tcm?
cheerup and i hope you get your second precious soon.