Mummies,
sometime I find it unfair to push all responsibilities to mother . In this modern world, we cannot rely on 1 person to bring $$ home so WE have to go earn $$ too. When come to child bearing , WE already suffer 10 mth of physical toture some even mental so do after child birth ( no freedom , no rest).
What do MAN do ?? After implanting their stupid "worm" and have pleasure, they just wash their hand off and leave US alone to suffer.
When u call for HELP .. their reply will be I AM TIRED, CAN"T U SEE I AM BUSY ? SIMPLY IGNORE or worst DO IT UNWILLINGLY.
When u complain , they will bring their MCP attitude out. Some turn violent & some just being fierce.
The above is the typical Singaporean attitude. I, ME & MYSELF ( Self Centered). Of course, there still very rare species of HB who is both capable of earning more than enough and caring. They are most willing to sacrifice to just make your life better and will always put U and FAMILY inside their BUSY agenda.
Which category do your HB belong to ?
1. Family Man who mostly is the sole-bread winner
2.Just want a woman that can FOC have release
3.Want BB but run away from responsibility
Conclusion, that is why MOST Singapore Women so reluctant to give birth. ( Just a comment )