Dear all, thanks for your concern. Sorry didn't update ytd. It's been confirmed that bb is no longer there. Doc couldn't find the sac, just an empty womb. I've seen this coming, so I'm quite prepared. I knew now that what i scooped up from the bottom of the toilet bowl that night was truly my bb.
I'm blessed that God made it a physically painless one for me, for I only felt menstrual-like cramps during the process. I chose to go natural instead of d&c since the sac was already out. Now I'm just waiting for the bleeding to stop and uterus to be cleared, waiting for the next period and start trying for a healthy child.
From missing the period, testing positive on the pregnancy kit, seeing the gynae and seeing bb's hb, preparing for motherhood to losing my bb, these 3 wks have been very eventful. Thank you all for accompanying me through this journey, though albeit short, but full of highs and lows. My bb came unexpected, and unexpectedly, it went. But I knew bb tried very hard to stay alive, 3 times I saw its heartbeat flickering on the screen during these few days. I was fortunate, and bb is safely in heaven now, so i have nothing to worry. To all you mummies here, I sincerely wish you a smooth sailing pregnancy. Enjoy this moment, even the ms and all, for with each ms comes the news that bb is safe and growing.
Btw anyone has any tcm to recommend to 'tiao' the body after mc? My gynae said don't need to do any mini confinement, but back home n tcm says tt mc is more harmful to the body than childbirth. So don't know which cult to follow.
Ps to housewife: When I was at mt a, the reno was only for the lobby and according to staff, will end in may. Of cos we can't rule out delays but since it's just the lobby, don't think it will drag until nov ba. Parking is ok bcos we always use the free valet. Very convenient.