oh my gosh megalai, reading the way u describe the procedure.. it's really so heart wrenching! oh gosh.. so painful..even to read abt it. yur hb & u muz hv gone true even greater pain to hear abt it..n to think abt it!!!!
especially nw dat u already heard all the 4 heartbeats! oh God..
but megalai... since ur already doing yur best to get 2nd/3rd opinion...... if *touch wood* cm to worse, it's more advisable to go through the procedure, u hfta be strong to accept it ya.. yes, it's unfair n very painful to hv to choose to 'take away' two.. but, u hfta be strong n keep your spirits high to continue to carry the other two babies okie.
my very best wishes to u... n will keep prayers for u & the four little ones.
meanwhile.. u take good care.. *hugz*