SAHM - yup totally agree its a damn tough job to be sahm. yest i on half day. ideally wanted to feed bbies and sing to them. ehhh, i only sang for 1 hour. then i tired. took nap. its v tiring to entertain them whole day. and my helpers at home so capable. so i let them be. today supposed to be on half day, but since i'm not much help at home, i'm gg to cancel, or use the half day to go shopping. now that i'm more mentally stable (was a bit crazy few weeks back), i actually think i SHOULD be working, cos i'm not expert at feeding, carrying, basically being a mum. its better for me to earn $$ so that can teach my kids to be independent. plus, i'm thinking of moving out of MIL house, i need $$ to buy new house.
lamagier - you'll get over the 1st few crazy weeks at work, then when you are more sane, you can make a better, more informed decision whether to cont working or not.