<font color="0077aa">dolly, not supposed to be the small coconuts... altho I guess no harm having those. But for the "cooling cleansing properties" supposed to be the big ones. Don't have to stock fridge up cos don't have to have tt many. So maybe just one a week!
Tubbym~, for me, we understood that they were proud of our union and wanted to share the good news with all their friends and relatives, so we decided to let them have their banquet and treat ourselves as the 'guests-of-honour', rather than have it be OUR wedding and they play by 'our rules'. My mum is one of 13 siblings.. all a loud and boisterous bunch. *keke*
> Sis' ILs are apparently a large extended family too. So the big bash is a biggie. Mum's offered to host Justus Jr.'s first month at her place and I'm thinking we'll prob just let her take it up cos it's her way of showing off her grandson. We'll have our own for friends and brethren at our place perhaps a little later down the road.
caramelle, don't be too hard on yourself. We all resort to emotional blackmail now and then. It's part and parcel of being a woman - preggers or otherwise. It irks me when Justus doesn't 'complain' abt work when unfair things happen. It seems to be tt he is ok with things. But at the end of the day, he's the one who's slaving his life away and his point is: YES I AM UPSET, but what's the point of harping on about it? He just has to 'suck it up'. So might as well just do it without all the grumbling.
> You've got a lovely man and he's got a lovely wife. One day down! 27 to go! Use this time to rest up and write him a little note every day telling him how you feel and thinking up a one-liner on bb's behalf. As you pat yourself on the back for every added note to the pile, the day is also drawing closer when you'll see him again! *hug* </font>
