Hi Charsiew! Long time no see. How's YH doing? Is he eating better?
RE: Sleeping
I think our babies have the habit of wanting to be carried to sleep. That's why when they wake up at night, they can't get back to sleep themselves
Caelen will ek ek ek no matter how we pat him... until we carry him up then he will quieten.
To add to my woes, recently it got worse as he became very very sticky to his grandma who is his main caregiver. Think it is the separation anxiety thingy. So he will 1) insist on his grandma to carry to sleep. 2) And in the middle of the night 2am, he will cry until his grandma come out from her room to pat him
In the end, there are 3 persons who cannot sleep at night. It's ridiculous!
For problem 1), I managed to solve it by asking my MIL to 'hide' in the toilet whenever he needs to sleep. I will then carry him around the house and tell him "Grandma not here". Surprisingly, he seems to understand that his grandma not around and he will relent to let me pat him to sleep.
For problem 2), I wanted to try the cry-it-out method but hubby and grandma not keen
They think he is too stubborn for it and they also quite soft-hearted with regard to my boy. Any mummies tried that? Caelen is a stubborn boy so not sure if it would work also. Scared will kena complain by neighbours if he have a crying episode at 2am for consecutive nights
Or if any mummies have other sleep training methods, please advise! Thanks!