I hate to be a wet blanket.
After some research and non-feedback from our local authorities, I have to tell you that there are just too much temptations outside your home.
You cannot do anything about your husbands' addictions or infidelity anymore. It's either stay or go.
You mentioned about your suspected HB addiction to porn. You cannot stop him, no point talking also, cuz you are not trained to deal with such symptoms nor people. Unless your HB wanna see a psychiatrist, don't waste your time talking, cuz in d end you two will end up arguing or in order for you to stop pestering him, your HB will just patronise you by telling you he will stop, but will continue behind your back.
I feel that the women in Singapore are very ignorant, they are unaware what is going on around them, only when something happen to them then they will sit up and lament, complain.
Go take a look at the other online sex website .... all these are happening in Singapore, right in our own backyard.
Married men visiting online sex forums. My god! Look at the buffet of gals offering their services to the men here.
Best of all, men can even post their reviews and encourage others to go visit all these PRCs women they have visited.
Don't you all find it YUCKS. Yet, under the blatant eyes of law, our authorities do nothing about them.
Yet you see men getting prosecuted for having sex with underage prostitutes, and in the end their families suffer, especially the wife.
All the hurt and embarrassment.
Enough said.