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[Actaian]

An illiterate PR woman, who is my neighbour, is married to a Singaporean & have 2 Singaporean children in their teens. Husband is timid, quiet. For the past 6 yrs, she has been seeing a divorcee behind her husband's back and is so bold as to bring him home when husband is at work long hours at a coffeeshop. Boyfriend would send her to work, fr work using company truck, visits everyday or every few days. Children are close to mother, too afraid to say much. She works as hawker asst or rest helper, usually working late nights or overnight jobs to avoid husband. This marriage of convenience should be exposed before she benefit from obtaining Singapore Citizenship. Pls share your view.
Let's stand up against cheating foreign spouses.

 

[Shakespeare]

An illiterate PR woman, who is my neighbour, is married to a Singaporean & have 2 Singaporean children in their teens. Husband is timid, quiet. For the past 6 yrs, she has been seeing a divorcee behind her husband's back and is so bold as to bring him home when husband is at work long hours at a coffeeshop. Boyfriend would send her to work, fr work using company truck, visits everyday or every few days. Children are close to mother, too afraid to say much. She works as hawker asst or rest helper, usually working late nights or overnight jobs to avoid husband. This marriage of convenience should be exposed before she benefit from obtaining Singapore Citizenship. Pls share your view.
Let's stand up against cheating foreign spouses.

You sure?

 

[Actaian]

This woman built friendship w d boyfriend for many yrs, her children told neighbours he sends their mother to & fr work and through the yrs visit their house few times a week. This foreign spouse dislikes her local husband cos he's too timid, quiet & works at his father's coffee shop day & night everyday and also he doesn't own a car. She seeks out men who drives so she gets lifts to save money. This family is rather poor and has electricity cut off at times when can't pay PUB bill. She 'hunted' til she found a suitable 'mountain' she could lean, as a standby so when she gets citizenship, she can divorce her 1st husband(who gave her PR & 2 S'pore children)and marry her boyfriend. A couple yrs back she told neighbours she applying for citizenship. Neighbours not happy to see diff men go in & out of her house, especially when there are young children in the house. We heard of murder cases happened due to boyfriends in newspapers before isn't it? How we sense what's happening? Neighbours advised her not to let so many men come into her house, she became aggressive and told neighbours off ' why so many other people u don't watch, why must watch us?!' For few yrs, she boldly walked w her boyfriend into lift to their house but after neighbours hint that if she behaves like that, she may not get citizenship, she answered aggressively 'I don't hv citizenship also never mind!'
But since last yr, she dare not be seen walking w boyfriend to his truck but tell bf come to house, stay 1-2hrs, then he goes down and wait in truck for her to go down by herself. Scared others see them together nowadays right?? She has too many secrets to hide!

 

[karoosel]

IMHO, this is more of a domestic case than a civil case.

If the husband is a friend of yours and you believe is in his best interest to advise him about his wife's whereabouts, then perhaps you can talk to him about it as a concerned friend.

 

[Actaian]

He doesn't know me personally. Thought of that for past many yrs but worried husband / bf of wife may do rash things, either kill wife, children or we who blow whistle may get harmed. Feels terrible and angry when u hv neighbours like that who resort to anything to survive in S'pore. Sigh...
Singapore Citizenship is priceless!

 

[karoosel]

Citizenship issue aside, having your spouse cheat on you can happen to anyone from anywhere.

Sorry, i have no advice for you since, if it were me, id probably mind my own business.

 

[liciachai]

maybe you want to take pics of them secretly and tell the husband, at least you can proof your stand

 

[Actaian]

Thanks liciachai for d advise.