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TTC - Trying to Conceive 2017

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by ACB, Mar 14, 2017.

  1. STJ2017

    STJ2017 New Member

    Here's her number
    Auntie Samsiah hp 83171094
    She goes to your place about 1 week after period for 5 consecutive days.
    Full body massage, with more attention on the tummy area.
     
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  2. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    Hello ladies
    TTC since 3 years back, didn't know it will be such an tough and emotional journey.
    In 2WW NOW ... hopefully will get a BFP.
    lol, i know the lingo by now... and all the abbreviations. i have to keep quiet abt it.

    Good luck and baby dust to all. oh ya...Any relaxation techniques to share?
     
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  3. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    Baby dust to u!!
     
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  4. memy

    memy Member

    married for 3 yrs, actual Ttc 1.5 yrs still trying....
    seen 2 tcm drs, both said along the lines of need to get my womb warmer, increase blood count etc...
    took tcm for 5 mths, stop edi now, too stressful
     
  5. adlina

    adlina Active Member

    What are her charges like? And does she do massage at night since we need to massage for 5 days.
     
  6. MOJOJO

    MOJOJO Member

    I am new here. I still dont unds what does the lingo means except TTC :oops:
     
  7. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

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  8. ACB

    ACB Member

    Hi ladies... Anyone in their 2ww?
     
  9. Sansan_8

    Sansan_8 Member

    Hi all..tdy is my CD32 liao then i come regular menses of 28days all this while but last mth it goes hay wire become 31days..i just use clearblue easy and test and it got two faint lines so i not sure if im preggie...how??
     
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  10. JTH

    JTH Member

    Hi ladies. I am new to this thread. Married late and been TCC for 1 year plus. Failed one soiui, one ivf and approaching big 40 in a mth time. Seen TCM for 6 mths and doesn't help. Taking Blackmore conceive well. Doc classified me as unexplainable case. Haiz. That the worst. Dunno what is wrong and thus dunno where to work on :( just hope miracle will happen!
     
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  11. ACB

    ACB Member

    Got faint lines means cfm preg le... Just that hcg may not be that high yet to get a dark line. If you want confirmed can use clearblue advanced digital
     
  12. ACB

    ACB Member

    There are tests you can take to find out reasons behind for infertility... You may want to do that?
     
  13. Sansan_8

    Sansan_8 Member

    Yea babe! I use the digital ones and it shown 1-2 weeks preggie...thanks!!
     
  14. Sansan_8

    Sansan_8 Member

    Jth..dont give up..u can keep trying for the ivf! Im sure miracles will worked out for a person who dont gives up!
     
  15. lady_chris

    lady_chris Member

    No 2ww for me as this month my chance of ovulating is low (went to doc and my follicles not growing!!! :( Anyway I will be doing my first so-iui next month!! Excited and scared!!!

    Good luck to those on 2ww!! Baby dust to ur!!
     
  16. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    in 2ww, this is really killing me ... im gonna test first thing tmr morning. should be 12 or 13 DPO, altho not getting my hopes up. my previous experience, i didn't get a positive when i missed my menses. but positive more than a week later. sadly i had early pregnancy losses.

    for one of it, i actually went to polyclinic to get it confirmed.

    Is the ClearBlue digital sensitive and is it re-usable?
     
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  17. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    Hi JTH

    i am ard yr age, married late as well but my doc thinks 40 is still ok wheni told him i feel like we are running out of time.

    u prob have gone thru some tests for Dr to give u that diagnosis.

    Don't give up! Just want to share i recently read this book...
    "Making Babies, A proven 3 month prog for max fertility" something like that. by Dr Sami and Jill Blakeway.

    They give some possible case studies on unexplained fertility.
    I found it an interesting read. could be infection, temperature of bath, etc.
    not sure if that will be helpful to u.
     
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  18. JTH

    JTH Member

    Hi. Are you referring to the tests that need to do before ivf? Cos I have done that. Or is there any tests beside these?
     
  19. JTH

    JTH Member

    Thanks Sansan for the encouragement! Ya. I will give myself another two tries at most. Just wondering what I can do now to improve my chances. I've totally stop cold drink, eat healthy food,eat supplement, exercise, TCM,etc. Haiz....
     
  20. JTH

    JTH Member

    Hi grumpet, first time heard Dr said 40 is still ok. So happy to hear that. Give us some hope. May i know where can I get the book you mentioned? Yes I know about avoiding hot bath during 2ww so I have avoided that at well in my last cycle. But.... haiz.... Anyway, clearblue digital is consider one of the best brand but cannot be reusable. Hope you can have a bfp this cycle!
     
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  21. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    yea, but he shld know what he is saying. A/ Prof and high risk preg specialist. i guess he meant it is still possible, which it definitely is.

    i bought the book at Page One, book sale at The Cathay ... it was only $1, that's why i bought it. i might have taken the last copy there. that shop looks temp, on 3rd floor i think in front of escalator.

    maybe try the bigger bookstores or u can order online amazon / kindle. link below:
    https://www.amazon.com/Making-Babies-3-Month-Program-Fertility/dp/0316024503

    oh ive not heard abt hot bath for 2ww ? Do u mean need to take cold shower?
    in the book, they were referring more for the men, how hot baths can kill sperms. w specific temp mentioned.

    I thought for 2ww, some warmth is good like putting warm water bottle (not hot) i have not tried this cos worried too warm is not good.
    i just put my palms on the belly for few minutes.
     
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  22. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    Hi ladies, I think I'm in 2ww already 1dpo. Although my app say I will ovulate tml but had positive okp on fri and sat. Today will test again. If positive will make one last "dash"

    Baby dust to everyone! For me is last dash for rooster baby!
     
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  23. Adeline chan

    Adeline chan New Member

    Hello! You means your Menses

    Hello! I feel you ;( Been trying near to 1.5 years but still no result. Menses was irregular but I had blood test and all even my husb got his checkup too and everything was fine. I'm on medication now for my Menses to come and just have to keep trying! Been feeling so discourage :( Hope we are receive a positive result soon!

    Good luck!
     
  24. xqxhx_

    xqxhx_ New Member

    Hi all, im been TTC for around atleast 5 cycles now. Was stressed and had anxiety attack for my last two cycle,thought i was pregnant cause AF came super late, then i get BFN. :'(

    Anyway, i am trying again now. Any tips?

    Also what's okp? Isit ovulation test kit? i tried the clearblue and i got a smiley face before. i read somewhere that even if u got smiley face they detect ur LH surge but u may still not ovulate(egg not release).. hmmm
     
  25. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    opk is ovulation preg test kit. not sure if u mean that. okp ive not heard before.

    doctors don't seem to think they are accurate ... but it has worked for me.
    im not using it this round.
     
  26. MOJOJO

    MOJOJO Member

    I using the test kit for many days, twice a day from 14th till 18th. still negative. I wonder is it becos i buy it from Qoo10...
     
  27. xqxhx_

    xqxhx_ New Member

    HAHAHA! Ya I meant OPK! thanks!

    So u did tried opk first time round for how many times? so glad that it works for u :)
     
  28. xqxhx_

    xqxhx_ New Member

    Maybe u can try from cycle day 10 and see if it's positive? :)
     
  29. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    i saw blood :((( aunty came . sigh

    i have had 2 MCs unfortunately ... i cant remember, but with both pregnancy i pee on opk from ard CD10. there are 10 strips.

    I bought from a TCM shop, i think this was the only useful thing from my consultation. lol . i didn't know abt opk back then.

    after a while, 1 or 2 rounds i know my ovulation time, so no need to pee on opk for 10 days. did it abt 5 to 6 days.

    I didn't do opk or bbt this round, only CM. i think I'll try opk again.
     
  30. xqxhx_

    xqxhx_ New Member

    I am sorry for your 2 MC. :( I know someone early 30s, she had a MC once and got pregnant a few months after.

    Try again after this AF! I have yet to monitor my BBT and CM though. like too much work liao for me lol.
     
  31. ACB

    ACB Member

    Jiayou!! Eat more egg whites for eggs quality and drink more red date longan for good lining!
     
  32. ACB

    ACB Member

    Clearblue is very sensitive but not reusable!
     
  33. ACB

    ACB Member

    Nope, it's not those usual tests before ivf. Those tests before ivf are just to see if you are suitable and in good condition to conceive. The tests I'm referring to are tests that are specified to find out what is missing if you are missing in something to conceive. Example may be low in certain vitamins so you need to intake that
     
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  34. ACB

    ACB Member

    I'm 5dpo now... Such a long wait
     
  35. ACB

    ACB Member

    After getting a smiley, egg will be released from 12-48 hours
     
  36. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    Oh we are cycle buddies then I'm 4dpo! waiting waiting waiting.. hate the suspense.
     
  37. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    2 lines = preggy!! Congrats
     
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  38. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    jiayou! Miracles do happen! I'm ttc for 6mths already! Waiting for my miracle too. Baby dust to all of us
     
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  39. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    Once smiley face, it's good to start baby dance! See this chart on possibility on getting pregnant base on when u baby dance! [​IMG]
     
  40. ttcbaby2

    ttcbaby2 Member

    Just to share ladies The darkest bar orange bar being the ovulation date. Hence if u baby dance on ovulation date, chances of preggy is 33%. One day after ovulation no chance at all. Good to baby dance earlier prior to ovulation.. [​IMG]
     
  41. BonjourBaby

    BonjourBaby New Member

    Hi peeps, I'm ttc-ing for #1 for years already. Also like many of you here, tried many different recommendations i.e. See gynaecologist & tried IUI twice, TCM, watching bt, take supplements, stop taking cold stuff.
    I had one ectopic pregnancy & is left with one tube, many times chemical pregnancies.... that's why gynae didn't recommend IVF for me since I can get "chemical pregnant" by trying naturally.

    This cycle is crazy again, I'm on CD74 now. Sighz:(
     
  42. Daledale

    Daledale Well-Known Member

    Me bfp with dr zou on my first fresh ivf. Her charges reasonable too.
     
  43. Daledale

    Daledale Well-Known Member

    So-iui not scary. Be brave. I had 2 failed so-iui and sucessful on my first ivf cycle. Baby dust to you.
     
  44. Daledale

    Daledale Well-Known Member

    Jiayou. Try keep yr womb warm. I bought 艾灸heatpad from taobao to help to keep my womb warm. Very comfy too.
     
  45. Daledale

    Daledale Well-Known Member

    I still bath warm water during tww. Just dont soak hot water bath tub etc during tww. Dont give up hope. I know a lady 40+ successful on her first fresh cycle. Jiayou dont give up. Baby dust to all of you.
     
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  46. pluto123

    pluto123 New Member

    Hello ladies! Im new here.. and have a question. I wasnt monitoring anything (wasn't aware there were do many things to note until i found this forum!) and have only just started ttc with my dh.
    I think my last period was during the last week of March but I cant remember the exact date. My cycles are pretty regular.. off a couple of days here n there. BD was on the recent saturday so it's day 6 now? I had a little spotting (brown&light diluted red) 3 days ago and yesterday. It has stopped today.. n i dont feel the light cramps anymore.
    Is it too early to start getting excited?
     
  47. shigure1234

    shigure1234 Member

    Hi bonjourbaby,

    Can i check how to know if i am havin chemical pregnancy?

    For past 2 cycle, my Af is 2 days delay , with high bbt, usually Af is 14days after ovulation date, but that 2 cycle AF comes ard day 16 to 18 after ovulation. Is it chemical pregnancy? I tested but is BFN

    If hav Chemical pregnancy, cant do ivf?
     
  48. grumpet

    grumpet Active Member

    prob a little early , everyone's body is different... so exciting ! the wait will be torturous, maybe u can start to do the test soon. baby dust to u :)
     
  49. pluto123

    pluto123 New Member

    Thanks grumpet! That's helpful reassurance :) i'll check soon... hopefully the test is sensitive enough to tell me sth!
     
  50. Beeb33

    Beeb33 Member

    period report again...
    hoping next mth will be a miracle mth for me and all who is trying to have baby..
    Baby dust
     

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