Tiring motherhood - Monday blues [emoji12]

[tweetie76]

Anyone feeling same as me ?
Feeling v routine and tiring as a mother ?
Everyday rushing to fetch, feed, shower kids, make them study , sleep?

I guess that’s part of motherhood- sometime feel like taking a break

 

[lovely0315]

Hmmm...

can’t imagine how if I’m full time mummy, housework.. kids... cook... How will my life be

But one day I will be full time mummy once my side biz stable..

 

[godaddygo]

Actually everyone is the same. Life is very routine in Singapore.
It is pretty much the same for everyone.

 

[bretrayed]

Its better to be rountine then can plan what to do during these break time

 

[tweetie76]

I m part time employee & “full time “Mum” .. taking a break today haha

 

[tweetie76]

Actually everyone is the same. Life is very routine in Singapore.
It is pretty much the same for everyone.

Agreed., every one “operating “the same way

 

[godaddygo]

Agreed., every one “operating “the same way

Go out for a coffee or two, do some people watching. Do some emotional healing. =)

 

[tweetie76]

Its better to be rountine then can plan what to do during these break time

I really salute those sahm , i was a sahm for 11 mth .. routined yes and no .. cos bb tend to fall sick or cranky when u have other plans

 

[tweetie76]

Go out for a coffee or two, do some people watching. Do some emotional healing. =)

I go retail therapy
Hb complain pocket burn

 

[godaddygo]

I go retail therapy
Hb complain pocket burn

Tell your hubby, pocket pain better than head pain.

Later you cranky= he ki siao because few man can take care of kids unlike me, a nanny man haha

 

[tweetie76]

U stay at home daddy?

 

[godaddygo]

U stay at home daddy?

Nope. My mum was a nanny for 20 over years so I have experience. So what did u buy today?

 

[lovely0315]

Can go for yoga when kids go to school..

 

[tweetie76]

Nope. My mum was a nanny for 20 over years so I have experience. So what did u buy today?

Oh I see.. retail therapy wo buying my stuff Lo
, bot kids stuff .. Just go Window shopping for myself

 

[tweetie76]

Am back to work mode today .. mid week is here !! Yay!

 

[godaddygo]

Good luck lol

 

[nur]

So lucky those of u who can go retail therapy for kids stuff and hubby pays for them..

 

[eruyps]

I am a working mum, don't have a maid at home, basically I am the maid, everyday only get to sleep 4- 5 hours, morning do house work and prepare my 10 months old bb and 3 year old boy to my in law house. By 9.45am got to reach their house then by 11am got to reach my work place. End work at 9.30pm and got to rush back to in law place to fetch them by 11pm. Reach home at 11.30pm. After settle them down then I get to settle myself, then start house work again til 2am. Sometimes my dinner is at 1am, But I never complain to my hubby or anyone cos is my duty to do it.

 

[happywifey22]

I am a working mum, don't have a maid at home, basically I am the maid, everyday only get to sleep 4- 5 hours, morning do house work and prepare my 10 months old bb and 3 year old boy to my in law house. By 9.45am got to reach their house then by 11am got to reach my work place. End work at 9.30pm and got to rush back to in law place to fetch them by 11pm. Reach home at 11.30pm. After settle them down then I get to settle myself, then start house work again til 2am. Sometimes my dinner is at 1am, But I never complain to my hubby or anyone cos is my duty to do it.

wah.. you a robot? I'm a working mum also. Love my little girl, she is going to be 4 months old. But the process of taking care of her, night feeds etc is really tiring.

 

[eruyps]

Lucky for me, my baby sleep thru the night after last feeding around 12 plus or 1 am til next morning 8plus, she dun disturb me, but too bad I got to do housework so no rest.

 

[happywifey22]

Lucky for me, my baby sleep thru the night after last feeding around 12 plus or 1 am til next morning 8plus, she dun disturb me, but too bad I got to do housework so no rest.

I have got nanny to help me to look after her. housework wise she helps with washing of clothes n hanging.

 

[eruyps]

Good for you. I rather do all house work myself than to invite a stranger to stay in my house to do housework.

 

[lovely0315]

I am a working mum, don't have a maid at home, basically I am the maid, everyday only get to sleep 4- 5 hours, morning do house work and prepare my 10 months old bb and 3 year old boy to my in law house. By 9.45am got to reach their house then by 11am got to reach my work place. End work at 9.30pm and got to rush back to in law place to fetch them by 11pm. Reach home at 11.30pm. After settle them down then I get to settle myself, then start house work again til 2am. Sometimes my dinner is at 1am, But I never complain to my hubby or anyone cos is my duty to do it.

Wa!! Your husband never share any housework or help to take care kids so that you can do some housework?? Or help to bring kids to you in law place??

I’m lucky as most of the housework are done by husband , when i reach home, is 7plus where he already fetched kids from childcare and settled them (shower and dinner).. he then continue to do housework..

Then I will shower, take my dinner, fold shirts and keep kids’ bag at the same time accompany kids till they go to bed.. then I continue to do office work or side biz.. or accompany hub to watch tv..

Not I don wan to help but every time after I sweep the floor, he will do it again cox i can’t meet his standard (sweat).. laundry and ironing, he said I’m too slow (sweat).. he rather do housework than take care kids.. so.. I don do anymore

 

[tweetie76]

My # 2 hasn’t sleep through.. sometimes I do ironing till 1am

 

[tweetie76]

I am a working mum, don't have a maid at home, basically I am the maid, everyday only get to sleep 4- 5 hours, morning do house work and prepare my 10 months old bb and 3 year old boy to my in law house. By 9.45am got to reach their house then by 11am got to reach my work place. End work at 9.30pm and got to rush back to in law place to fetch them by 11pm. Reach home at 11.30pm. After settle them down then I get to settle myself, then start house work again til 2am. Sometimes my dinner is at 1am, But I never complain to my hubby or anyone cos is my duty to do it.

Salute you

 

[tweetie76]

Seem like mama does most of the things and no grumbling allowed

 

[eruyps]

Ya, he will help me when he is not working.

 

[lovely0315]

Seem like mama does most of the things and no grumbling allowed

Cannot say so ba....

Mummy also need to rest one le..

 

[eruyps]

Want to do it then don't complaint

 

[tweetie76]

Cannot say so ba....

Mummy also need to rest one le..

Mama need some sanity and me time .. everyday just kids and housework can go crazy

 

[lovely0315]

Want to do it then don't complaint

agree..

 

[lovely0315]

Mama need some sanity and me time .. everyday just kids and housework can go crazy

Yes.. take one day leave from work n rest!

 

[eruyps]

I can mop 3 times a day, I enjoyed mopping.

 

[lovely0315]

I can mop 3 times a day, I enjoyed mopping.

I see.. good exercise too

 

[eruyps]

No, I can't stand even a strand of hair on the floor. Especially with little children at home, I just want it to be clean.

 

[tweetie76]

Yes.. take one day leave from work n rest!

One day leave come back 2x housework chores..double the laundry, dishes and rubbish

 

[tweetie76]

Wa!! Your husband never share any housework or help to take care kids so that you can do some housework?? Or help to bring kids to you in law place??

I’m lucky as most of the housework are done by husband , when i reach home, is 7plus where he already fetched kids from childcare and settled them (shower and dinner).. he then continue to do housework..

Then I will shower, take my dinner, fold shirts and keep kids’ bag at the same time accompany kids till they go to bed.. then I continue to do office work or side biz.. or accompany hub to watch tv..

Not I don wan to help but every time after I sweep the floor, he will do it again cox i can’t meet his standard (sweat).. laundry and ironing, he said I’m too slow (sweat).. he rather do housework than take care kids.. so.. I don do anymore

My hb always tell me ironing don’t need to do weekly if Tiring but I see the clothes piling up ..I cannot stand la

 

[lovely0315]

No, I can't stand even a strand of hair on the floor. Especially with little children at home, I just want it to be clean.

Wa! Same as my husband... he told me that my eye must be looking on the floor while walking so that I can pick up the hairs on floor... I’m gonna crazy...

 

[lovely0315]

One day leave come back 2x housework chores..double the laundry, dishes and rubbish

Then just throw all shirts into washing machine
Dishes ur hub can wash and rubbish he can throw ba

Mm.. ironing one week once.. still ok.. try to buy those no need to iron one

Cannot imagine if I have to do all these plus work... how u get the energy to all these huh..

 

[tweetie76]

It’s Monday mad rush again. N me n my kids are sick

 

[tweetie76]

Then just throw all shirts into washing machine
Dishes ur hub can wash and rubbish he can throw ba

Mm.. ironing one week once.. still ok.. try to buy those no need to iron one

Cannot imagine if I have to do all these plus work... how u get the energy to all these huh..

Hb work clothes all need iron le.. those business shirt

Hb only throw rubbish that he can “see “ , sometimes after I make kids sleep , I go check . Still got leftover in the pot he nvr “see”‍

 

[tweetie76]

Hb work clothes all need iron le.. those business shirt

Hb only throw rubbish that he can “see “ , sometimes after I make kids sleep , I go check . Still got leftover in the pot he nvr “see”‍

Reason been : in the pot so he nvr sees

 

[lovely0315]

It’s Monday mad rush again. N me n my kids are sick

U should have take good care of yourself...

U r not robot..

 

[JL8118]

That why we mummy have to have some personal time also...

 

[tweetie76]

Yes.. everything mummies do

 

[HuayWen]

I also have to do everything.Hubby does help out when he is free and at home as well.