i have a story to share on this...
somewhere in nov'06, i discovered my husband having a sms with another girl which they are calling each other lao gong and lao po... i have never check his sms thus didn't know how long this has been going on...
in Jan'07, thru some mean, i managed to get the address of the bitch and happen that i saw another sms from her to tell my hb tat she is on mc that day so i start to spy at her hse from 8pm to 3am! and i caught them. i didn't confront them but confront my hb after tat... he told me tat they are only dating for 3mth and nothing happen between them but i refuse to forgive them. but after sometime, i decided to give him a chance but he hesitated, telling me he can't bear to leave her... i was veri sad.
i called tat slut and she told me tat she has been with him for 2 years and ask if she need to tell me how many times of sex the have done!!!
despite all these, i was still veri soft hearted, i wan my family, i love him, i beg him to come back but he didn't and we also have a 14 months son. his attitude changed completely, ignoring me and wanted a divorce. he bring his son back almost every week and that slut tell me she also follow them. he also moved to that slut house to stay with her family, replacing her husband... in fact, she has not divorce with her husband. well they are really bitch and bastard.
very deeply hurt, i applied for the divorce and at the last minute, he beg for my forgiveness and i gave him the chance.
the first 3 months was bad for us, cos memories of all the slut and him alway came into my mind. so we alway quarelled.
suddenyl one day, his sttitude changed agagin.
he told me he need 2 wife to settle his mind not to flirt outside. so it mean that he stil wan to flirt outside. i was really hurt again.. why alway me who can hurt... so i wait for him to speak up his mind but he never... it has been a month already... things did not improve. and worst of all i realised that i am preganant again... but he still did not want to have a good talk with me...
Should i be hard hearted and leave this bastard with my son and another on the way child?