Hi mummies. I want to jump in with the main issue here that happened yesterday .
I had a baby ds he is a year and a half old. Me, My husband and the child live in a house that far from my husband-ex only three miles .
Our relationship is naturally very formal , though she came to me twice , once in my son birth and second time for her son he is four ss to collect his tools and things because obviously he lives only weekend or so with us and I fine about it , once i heard by the chance arguing with my husband about how he gave much care to our son compare to stepson ss which is untrue he love her son like mine despite screaming he told her he is ababy and that need more care.
So yesterday she came to take her child ss . He came and goes to her car while she and me have just normally chat about my baby boy update, then she demands to my husband about some issues she wants to discuss with him, I right away leave to my husband. at that time I saw my son walk towards to my husband-ex and I saw her smile and childish talk with my son.
I didn't thought about it and woke up my husband that I heard my baby cried out in pain and being to cry , I run to them to saw my son crying and hold his arm ( wrist) I told her what happened to him she replied he knocked the ground !! When I saw his injured arm i looked at angry red welt which I swear it looks like pinch bruise.
I immediately told her it doesn't look like he knocked himself she said I saw him I told her it looked pinch bruise to me then my husband came and wonder what's wrong I told him what happened and she continued with her damn story he knocked himself. I took my baby to my room so I console him he still too young to complain and can't talk yet.
My husband came and said she left angry I told him I don't give a s##t she won't go a step to this house and certainly never see my child or be around him she hurts him. He insisted I might accused her wrong I said look at his arm .
I send photos of his arm to my deer mum and a friend of mine they all informed its pinch someone pinched him hard there is adult fingertips.
I don't know what to do I have terrible feelings that I failed my innocent child I was not awareness about how some people become so cruel and spiteful just because he is her ex partner child, i know that it's not fair to point all husbands-ex that picture of mean and spiteful but mine is . I'm so angry with her I still blame myself to not took the right action when it happened but us you can imagine I was totally confused not thinking only about my son.
Did I do the right thing? am I being unreasonable, should I blame myself for not being more careful . Sorry it that long but right now i toally with tearsfull blaming myself for what happened he still has bruise on his arm .
I had a baby ds he is a year and a half old. Me, My husband and the child live in a house that far from my husband-ex only three miles .
Our relationship is naturally very formal , though she came to me twice , once in my son birth and second time for her son he is four ss to collect his tools and things because obviously he lives only weekend or so with us and I fine about it , once i heard by the chance arguing with my husband about how he gave much care to our son compare to stepson ss which is untrue he love her son like mine despite screaming he told her he is ababy and that need more care.
So yesterday she came to take her child ss . He came and goes to her car while she and me have just normally chat about my baby boy update, then she demands to my husband about some issues she wants to discuss with him, I right away leave to my husband. at that time I saw my son walk towards to my husband-ex and I saw her smile and childish talk with my son.
I didn't thought about it and woke up my husband that I heard my baby cried out in pain and being to cry , I run to them to saw my son crying and hold his arm ( wrist) I told her what happened to him she replied he knocked the ground !! When I saw his injured arm i looked at angry red welt which I swear it looks like pinch bruise.
I immediately told her it doesn't look like he knocked himself she said I saw him I told her it looked pinch bruise to me then my husband came and wonder what's wrong I told him what happened and she continued with her damn story he knocked himself. I took my baby to my room so I console him he still too young to complain and can't talk yet.
My husband came and said she left angry I told him I don't give a s##t she won't go a step to this house and certainly never see my child or be around him she hurts him. He insisted I might accused her wrong I said look at his arm .
I send photos of his arm to my deer mum and a friend of mine they all informed its pinch someone pinched him hard there is adult fingertips.
I don't know what to do I have terrible feelings that I failed my innocent child I was not awareness about how some people become so cruel and spiteful just because he is her ex partner child, i know that it's not fair to point all husbands-ex that picture of mean and spiteful but mine is . I'm so angry with her I still blame myself to not took the right action when it happened but us you can imagine I was totally confused not thinking only about my son.
Did I do the right thing? am I being unreasonable, should I blame myself for not being more careful . Sorry it that long but right now i toally with tearsfull blaming myself for what happened he still has bruise on his arm .