IVF/ICSI Support Group

Hi Babyluck, am sure each guy are concerned and worried about their mrs but each of us work in different way. maybe i am kaypoh hahahaha.
Sometimes is not better to knwo than to know because it will lead to more findings and anxiety which my mrs told me today thus well i guess 2nd day i kinda of cool down

Does anyone of you get "warm" and irritable because i was not very keen to have aircon on for her last nite but gave in eventually as she was have so much difficulty in sleep due to keep warm with socks and warming the tummy? Food wise i leave it to my MIL and her entirely dun wan to give too much pressure as long as she eats and sleep and no bouncing activities i am very happy

We are with KKH and Dr Tan.


Its ok.to hav the aircon on.. as long its not directly on her.

All the best !!
 


Its ok.to hav the aircon on.. as long its not directly on her.

All the best !!

Thank you Baby L, is reassuring to know this, we live like penguins and me a polar bear when it comes to sleeping time thus am pretty worried as need to have aircon and fan on.
Will continue to ensure she is warmly covered up especially at the feet and tummy.

Thank you ladies for helping a guy out here
 
Hi ladies in 2Ww, jiayou n gud luck yeah! May u gals get Bfp! Just wanna clear my doubts, i went for ER last Thursday but I couldn't do my fresh transfer on Sat due to Ohss. So Dr Tan recommended to do medicated FeT after my Dec menses come. Questions are :

-This time, Dr Tan didn't prescribed aspirin, does aspirin really help?

-if day 1 of menses fall on Sat/Sun, can just call KKH on the following Monday, right?

- usually what's the timeline for med FeT cuz I want to try to see if can squeeze in short getaway in between. Thks ladies!
 
Hi ladies in 2Ww, jiayou n gud luck yeah! May u gals get Bfp! Just wanna clear my doubts, i went for ER last Thursday but I couldn't do my fresh transfer on Sat due to Ohss. So Dr Tan recommended to do medicated FeT after my Dec menses come. Questions are :

-This time, Dr Tan didn't prescribed aspirin, does aspirin really help?

-if day 1 of menses fall on Sat/Sun, can just call KKH on the following Monday, right?

- usually what's the timeline for med FeT cuz I want to try to see if can squeeze in short getaway in between. Thks ladies!

Hi sueann,

M not sure how dr tan works.. will wait for other sistas who r under him to advise..

N yes if menses fall on sat/sun proceed to call kkh on mon. Cos u may need to do a bt n start on the med.

Medicated FET is abt 3 weeks dat u can safely go for a trip.. after which recommended u rest during yr ovulation period..
 
hi Claire, assume u are on the injections phase for the ER? If yes, it it be bloated and your temper might change. It varies from person to person, my mrs was on quite ok till the last few pen where her temper got abit out of control one moment and the next she is happy her loving self. Just remember to refer to the instructions on what to do when you are feeling bloated, it does help a bit.
 
Dear ladies, has anyone been thru Ivf with egg donor? Ive been diagnosed with premature menopause and would want to consider egg donor.. Is there a way to still have the procedure done in sg?
 
Hi,

I'm planning to go for IVF in 2016. My age is 28 & my husband's age is 36. My husband's sperm count is low. Can anyone guide me about best hospital & best doctor for ICSI?
 
Dear ladies, has anyone been thru Ivf with egg donor? Ive been diagnosed with premature menopause and would want to consider egg donor.. Is there a way to still have the procedure done in sg?

You are allowed to do donor egg in spore if U are using your frens or sister eggs. Both of U must go for counselling. Commercial donor are not allowed and it is illegal to pay the donor. You can only do donor in malaysia now because thailand is ban after surrogacy case.
 
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Hi ladies in 2Ww, jiayou n gud luck yeah! May u gals get Bfp! Just wanna clear my doubts, i went for ER last Thursday but I couldn't do my fresh transfer on Sat due to Ohss. So Dr Tan recommended to do medicated FeT after my Dec menses come. Questions are :

-This time, Dr Tan didn't prescribed aspirin, does aspirin really help?

-if day 1 of menses fall on Sat/Sun, can just call KKH on the following Monday, right?


- usually what's the timeline for med FeT cuz I want to try to see if can squeeze in short getaway in between. Thks ladies!

@SueAnna18 pm ed u sometime back. Pls check
 
Hi,

I'm planning to go for IVF in 2016. My age is 28 & my husband's age is 36. My husband's sperm count is low. Can anyone guide me about best hospital & best doctor for ICSI?

There are no best hospital or doctor. Every dr and hospital have their pros and cons. The popular and good ones in public hospital are Prof Tan Heng Hao, dr Sadhana in kkh, prof pc Wong in NUH and dr yu suling or dr Yong in SGH. Private hospital are Dr SF Loh in thomson fertility, dr LC Foong in glenegales, Dr LC cheng in thomson, Dr Yeong in tow Yung, dr Roland in Parkway East, dr paul Tseng in Thomson and many more. You may want to google on their profile before deciding.
 
Hello Wan, i as a hubby was allowed to be in the "room" during the session, was informed by a fellow lady who is doing during the ER. It was quite an eye opener and pain i believe is yes just have to relax to let the doc do its work and it takes less than 10 mins. Before the T you will be ask to verified your details and your doc will let you know the results of the ER in brief and how many will be ET, after the session the embryologist will tell you more details. Also you will get a picture of the transfer embro.

As my mrs and me come from iui cycle, it was again an emotional coaster ride for us as we only get to TTF 1 out of 14 retrieval, of which only 5 made the batch and 1 got arrested and 3 in observation. So this one is very very precious to us now espically when u look at the picture is like "hey small one, let's work togther this 18 days ok be strong"

Thanks for motivation sir. Don't worry too you Wil see your junior soon
 
Hi everyone I'm officially in my 1st tww. Had ET done yesterday. Yup painless. Saw my little beans. Talking to them to be safe n grow inside me. I'm not hving any appetite to eat. Hubby ensures I eat 4 egg white in d morning. Chicken essence by lunch. N red dates drink through out day. At least 2-3 cups.

Is it common to hve cramps n bit of bloatness?
 
Hi sueann,

M not sure how dr tan works.. will wait for other sistas who r under him to advise..

N yes if menses fall on sat/sun proceed to call kkh on mon. Cos u may need to do a bt n start on the med.

Medicated FET is abt 3 weeks dat u can safely go for a trip.. after which recommended u rest during yr ovulation period..

Thks so much babyluck! U r in 2ww or stimming?
 
Hi everyone I'm officially in my 1st tww. Had ET done yesterday. Yup painless. Saw my little beans. Talking to them to be safe n grow inside me. I'm not hving any appetite to eat. Hubby ensures I eat 4 egg white in d morning. Chicken essence by lunch. N red dates drink through out day. At least 2-3 cups.

Is it common to hve cramps n bit of bloatness?

Hi Wanbaby, I did my retrieval on Saturday. Waiting for the embryo dept to call when to carryout the ET. Notice u did in NUH too. Who was was ur doc?
Been having bloatedness since, quite uncomfortable.:( n current waiting for phone call. Can't wait to be on the journey with u.
 
Hi, sisters on crinone or have used crinone,

Yesterday, 4 days after using crinone, I saw a small lump of deposit on my panties when I went loo... Is that common?

I tot I rem reading tt 1 of the inserts do give this but I wasn't paying much attention then Coz I was on utrogestan all previous cycles..
 
Hi, sisters on crinone or have used crinone,

Yesterday, 4 days after using crinone, I saw a small lump of deposit on my panties when I went loo... Is that common?

I tot I rem reading tt 1 of the inserts do give this but I wasn't paying much attention then Coz I was on utrogestan all previous cycles..

Queenie122009,
Its ok to have crinone chunkie discharge.
 
Hi, sisters on crinone or have used crinone,

Yesterday, 4 days after using crinone, I saw a small lump of deposit on my panties when I went loo... Is that common?

I tot I rem reading tt 1 of the inserts do give this but I wasn't paying much attention then Coz I was on utrogestan all previous cycles..

Hi queenie.. i m on day 5.. i think it shld be ok... just that i m used to have an panty liner on always is it ok?

All the best to you!!
 
Hi everyone I'm officially in my 1st tww. Had ET done yesterday. Yup painless. Saw my little beans. Talking to them to be safe n grow inside me. I'm not hving any appetite to eat. Hubby ensures I eat 4 egg white in d morning. Chicken essence by lunch. N red dates drink through out day. At least 2-3 cups.

Is it common to hve cramps n bit of bloatness?

Hmm my mrs cramps is gone but bloatness have since gone down n 3rd day. suddenly she like shrink ... but still have abit of indiesgtion and feeling like a whale espically during meal times but she is not taking in alot. Hmm wanted her to take Chiken essence but mil say cannot.
 
Hello dearie. I'm in 2ww le post FET. Just take it easy and hope for the best loh.
Hope all's well since ER? Try not to stress too much now as it won't be good for you.
Do sleep earlier, rest well and have faith in your embies. Jia you k!
hey great to know that you are in 2WW. When did you do the transfer & BT so that we can root for you!
 
where do you ordered the confinement tingkat? do they also have menu which we can choose?

I ordered thru a malay lady from FB - Sizzling Dyyana. There's no menu to choose but her food everyday is different and comes with healthy brown rice. She use healthy things and no msg. There's dessert too. One thing i like is that the portion is quite huge so most days, my husband also ate the meal with me. Lol. If you look thru her fb, you can have an idea of what she serves daily. :)
 
I ordered thru a malay lady from FB - Sizzling Dyyana. There's no menu to choose but her food everyday is different and comes with healthy brown rice. She use healthy things and no msg. There's dessert too. One thing i like is that the portion is quite huge so most days, my husband also ate the meal with me. Lol. If you look thru her fb, you can have an idea of what she serves daily. :)

thanks dear. will check out her FB. :)
 
Hi sister, sorry but can i know wat kind of red date logan tea? Self boil or those packet drink also can? Wat does it help in??
Hello! self-boil might be better - helps in keeping your womb warm cos red dates and longan belong to the "heaty" type of food.

Drop 2-3 pieces of longan meat (can buy from medical halls) and 4-6 red dates into hot boiling water and tada! Some sister choose to boil the ingredients over medium flame for a few mins.
 



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