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connie_hopeful said:
Hi all, my menses become heavier for today. I know its a gone case as i only transferrred 1. No possibility of can have hope since its not 2 embries transferred. Will wait for this friday bt for a complete closure. It has been nice knowing pp here especially hopeful13,old aunty, redvel,rac_bow,lynx_sea,chuckles,idazahs, bbfanatic, bbpony,pinkfusia, jklim, janicez and many others who have given me yr advises and support to me. I will exit from this thread for a moment and take a break from ivf.

Good luck to you gals on your trying. Nice knowing u all here :)
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Connie_hopeful, i am so sorry to hear this. You have been so encouraging and helpful in this thread.
Be strong and rest well while waiting for the bt this friday. Hugs hugs
 
connie_hopeful said:
Pinkfusia,at least u see a bfp. Me didnt get any bfp in my 7 years of marriage life ;)

chloe,resting now for me.
Last time private doc comment hubb quality is bad. This time kkh embryologist commented my eggs are old and hubby quantity is limited. 2nd time we both r on tsb tcm 6 mths and mutlivits and i pick up e courage to do polyp removal. 1st time i on multivits only. 2nd time though on tcm results are worse with fertilisation also got problem . Hahaha. Ivf..wat a ride :)

Hopeful 13,must really thank you for yr prompt hysteroscopy advise n positive encouragement!!appreciate it so much all this while. Jiayou!! U stand a chance too cos u make it at least to bfp stage!!
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I really hope we all can bfp together & carry our little one but this journey is so difficult for us. Just know that u are not alone in this journey, there's us here who will share your ttc & ivf frustration and emotional roller coaster ride. If this cycle really doesn't work out, it's fine to feel sad & cry. Afterall we are still humans with feelings.

I will still pray for u that things be positive for u this cycle! :)
 
hopeful13 said:
I really hope we all can bfp together & carry our little one but this journey is so difficult for us. Just know that u are not alone in this journey, there's us here who will share your ttc & ivf frustration and emotional roller coaster ride. If this cycle really doesn't work out, it's fine to feel sad & cry. Afterall we are still humans with feelings.

I will still pray for u that things be positive for u this cycle! :)
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Hopeful13, thks uh. But think can save e prayers as i just done with my insert n my finger coome out smear with blood. Will continue tis till bloodtest though i find its a bit silly ;)

i actually hope for natural ttc. And for yrself too. Think we will be most happy to cocive naturally and escape e ivf jabbing :)
 
queenie122009 said:
Thanks, jas249..
Wonder wat ll I get Tmr.. **fingers & toes crossed".. After ur 3rd scan, u were ready for trigger shot?
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I onli managed to get trigger on my 5th scan...3rd scan was on a friday, 4th n 5th scan was on a following mon n tue...in fact, i was told that they might freeze my egg n postpone my ET to my nxt menses cycle during my 4th scan...

Stimulation stage was reali like a roller coaster ride to me...initially was told that eggs r not growing as expected n later was told that they might postpone my ET to nxt menses cycle...but luckily both ER & ET went on quite smoothly!!! Now juz hope for a bfp!!!
 
connie..... :( This stupid IVF journey is really exhausting ..lots of hugs for you connie, you have been an incredible forum sister, always giving positive vibes and support . i really hope u can cope well with the disappointments of IVF, take some time to rest ,rediscover your inner courage and come back stronger ,and as cheerful as ever ok? poor girl, i know u are very disappointed yet have to try to 'sound' cheerful in this forum..jiayou connie!
 
old aunty said:
connie..... :( This stupid IVF journey is really exhausting ..lots of hugs for you connie, you have been an incredible forum sister, always giving positive vibes and support . i really hope u can cope well with the disappointments of IVF, take some time to rest ,rediscover your inner courage and come back stronger ,and as cheerful as ever ok? poor girl, i know u are very disappointed yet have to try to 'sound' cheerful in this forum..jiayou connie!
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Thanks old aunty. Previously it didnt hurt. It only hurts today. I think its e pain of facing e failure yet a 2nd time. All jabbing ,tcm, Careful on diet n money put in gone. But nonetheless,life has to go on..i went to bloodtest today as advise by some sisters. for a complete closure for this cycle,its time to face to reality.
 
Ladies, I think my iui cycle is burst!!! No more symptoms felt, Can feel abdominal cramp like AF coming.. Test upt: -ve.
Feeling so depressed now!!! Dunno when AF come Shld I go ahead w 2nd iui or jus call them to arrange IVF for me... Then take a break while waiting for ivf. Feeling so lost now!!!
Can anyone of u advise me if I wan to proceed with IVF in KKH what shld I do now?
 
Hello gals, kkivf just called to update e bloodtest results. Its negative as i expected. Bye bye gals. I wont be stepping into this forum for quite a while tomorrow onwards.

Wish u all all e best.
 
PreciousBeanie said:
Ladies, I think my iui cycle is burst!!! No more symptoms felt, Can feel abdominal cramp like AF coming.. Test upt: -ve.
Feeling so depressed now!!! Dunno when AF come Shld I go ahead w 2nd iui or jus call them to arrange IVF for me... Then take a break while waiting for ivf. Feeling so lost now!!!
Can anyone of u advise me if I wan to proceed with IVF in KKH what shld I do now?
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Hi, U can visit your doctor for further discussion. Choice of IUI or IVF is really up to you. Ivf definately has higher chances compared to iui. But u may want to give iui another try if u r still young and have time. Ivf is invasive...
 
tsf0205 said:
Hi, U can visit your doctor for further discussion. Choice of IUI or IVF is really up to you. Ivf definately has higher chances compared to iui. But u may want to give iui another try if u r still young and have time. Ivf is invasive...
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Any ideal kkivf next available mth for ivf is when?
 
connie_hopeful said:
Hello gals, kkivf just called to update e bloodtest results. Its negative as i expected. Bye bye gals. I wont be stepping into this forum for quite a while tomorrow onwards.

Wish u all all e best.
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Connie, I know it's very hard to face failures... I faced them before as well.... Take time off... Relax... And prepare for the next step. Most importantly, never give up!
 
connie_hopeful said:
Hello gals, kkivf just called to update e bloodtest results. Its negative as i expected. Bye bye gals. I wont be stepping into this forum for quite a while tomorrow onwards.

Wish u all all e best.
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Hugs Connie.. Cry it out & u will feel better. Take care! I hope that the next time u pop in here is to share gd news.
 
connie_hopeful said:
Hello gals, kkivf just called to update e bloodtest results. Its negative as i expected. Bye bye gals. I wont be stepping into this forum for quite a while tomorrow onwards.

Wish u all all e best.
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Hi Connie, take care n hv a gd holiday break wif ur hb...let ur body hv a gd rest b4 coming back again..dun gv up...we r all here to jia you tog!!! Hope to see u back soon..
 
Hi ladies.

went for u/s yesterday.
Right: 12, 11.5, 11, 11.5, 7.5, 8, 6.5 - total 7
Left: 14, 12, 10.5, 10, 10.5, 8, 7.5, 10, 9, 8.5, 7. - total 11
Lining 9+++mm.

Supposed to be ok for day 7 stimulation, right?
Doctor said continue stimulation and come for u/s tomorrow. If tmrw size is ok, then trigger on Saturday and ER on Monday. But I suspect tmrw they are not gonna be big enough, maybe need to extend stimulation till next week.
How big should they be before the trigger shot? I've read that should be close to 20mm and more to consider mature.
 
Lititia said:
Hi ladies.

went for u/s yesterday.
Right: 12, 11.5, 11, 11.5, 7.5, 8, 6.5 - total 7
Left: 14, 12, 10.5, 10, 10.5, 8, 7.5, 10, 9, 8.5, 7. - total 11
Lining 9+++mm.

Supposed to be ok for day 7 stimulation, right?
Doctor said continue stimulation and come for u/s tomorrow. If tmrw size is ok, then trigger on Saturday and ER on Monday. But I suspect tmrw they are not gonna be big enough, maybe need to extend stimulation till next week.
How big should they be before the trigger shot? I've read that should be close to 20mm and more to consider mature.
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Triple lining? Looks really good!
Minimum I guess it's 16mm..
 
Lititia said:
Hi ladies.

went for u/s yesterday.
Right: 12, 11.5, 11, 11.5, 7.5, 8, 6.5 - total 7
Left: 14, 12, 10.5, 10, 10.5, 8, 7.5, 10, 9, 8.5, 7. - total 11
Lining 9+++mm.

Supposed to be ok for day 7 stimulation, right?
Doctor said continue stimulation and come for u/s tomorrow. If tmrw size is ok, then trigger on Saturday and ER on Monday. But I suspect tmrw they are not gonna be big enough, maybe need to extend stimulation till next week.
How big should they be before the trigger shot? I've read that should be close to 20mm and more to consider mature.
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My D7 max is 13.5 then D10 max 18.5 then they asked me go trigger shot that night. My lining only 7mm but they said can go ahead le.
 
Lititia said:
sorry, I don't know what's triple lining... :) The lining was 9.something. I forgot how much exactly. 9.2? or something like that, that's why I write 9+++. Sorry for confusion.
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Oic, triple lining is the most ideal else at least 8mm is good to proceed. U still hv some time away so your lining will still build up... Very nice...
 
miracle_happens said:
My period is 4days late & it's usually very punctual. This mornin I test again, still negative.
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Perhaps it is late implanation. I heard of someone who got a negative on BT but subsequently became positive. U did your ER on 4 Mar too? Are you on natural or medicated FET? Any symptoms?
 
Hi ladies, may I check if anyone aware if Ban Choon Chan at Marine Parade is opened on Sunday? Any appointment required?
I tried calling but line is engaged.

Thanks in advance.
 
tansss said:
Hi ladies, may I check if anyone aware if Ban Choon Chan at Marine Parade is opened on Sunday? Any appointment required?
I tried calling but line is engaged.

Thanks in advance.
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Yes they are open on wkends. No apptment. It's FCFS.. Queue can start as early as 6am..
 
Connie! I was rooting for you. So sorry to hear that it didn't work out. Really hope that your dreams will come true one day. Big hugs, sweetie!
 
Does anyone know if it is better to have bedrest or no bedrest after ET? TFC doesn't recommend bedrest. At my last failed cycle, I was asked to get up 5 mins after the procedure but I went home, becoming a couch potato, worrying about moving around. Does any of your clinics prescribe bed-rest after ET?
 
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bbpony said:
Perhaps it is late implanation. I heard of someone who got a negative on BT but subsequently became positive. U did your ER on 4 Mar too? Are you on natural or medicated FET? Any symptoms?
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My et is on 04 mar, mine is medicated FET. Not much symptoms these few days... Only slight cramps since et.
 
chuckles said:
Connie! I was rooting for you. So sorry to hear that it didn't work out. Really hope that your dreams will come true one day. Big hugs, sweetie!
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Chuckles,thanks uh. But think my case jialat la,old eggs and poor sperms. 2 fresh try with 10 to 14 eggs injected but fail till jialat jialat as in no frozen embries. Dunno if roland can save me or not. But to see roland,i need to save lots lots
 
connie_hopeful said:
Chuckles,thanks uh. But think my case jialat la,old eggs and poor sperms. 2 fresh try with 10 to 14 eggs injected but fail till jialat jialat as in no frozen embries. Dunno if roland can save me or not. But to see roland,i need to save lots lots
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Connie, lots of hugs... thanks for all that you have contributed to this thread, sharing of info, providing support and spreading yr positivism. hope that yr hope will be fulfilled soon. Take care .
 

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