Laki: same here, I did that during my IUI - come up all sorts of excuses to tell my boss, but I try to minimize mc as he can tell or guess something, in case he thought I have some sort of female illness on seeing the mc, haha. Lucky you that your boss understands. For my case, is a he and also, I think he is not one who can keep secret. I don't want my whole office to know.
Girl: Jia you!!

You are so dedicated to your work yet your boss is not even supportive of you going for your visits, very inconsiderate.
Serene: lucky you. I won't cry in front of him la but I will not tell the truth, the gossipy news in my office travel way too fast, sometimes news of someone in my company travel from other company back to my company, not the other way round, imagine!! If he spread, one person enough to make almost whole industry (in exaggerated way).
Lin: I agree that he must have his reason for recommending IVF. He did ask me to try for 2 months after my ops, failing which to consider IUI. I guess he is also testing my body response to all methods along the way. Well, I have noted down to ask him why in my next visit. Maybe my problem is worse off than what he initially thought to be.
Sunstillshines: you remind me of Dr Loh, the statement he made on success rate on TFC website, like spokesperson, haha. But that's very true, coming from statistical angle.
Slightly different is, he said some hospital success rate high could mean most patients going to them could be younger with milder problems so success rate alone not good indicator, something to that meaning.
Oh by the way, ladies who have gone through IVF, are you girls doing long protocol or short? Which one is better? Sorry to ask so much as I could find this on the net.
i1BB: my wish list is also for grant to be extended to pte clinic. dr Loh did tell me why (not sure if it's his speculation only). It's about charges of pte clinic (something like what serene said).
Serene: you are right. Many people has the misconception that IVF is guaranteed (including myself before I did the researches online and in this forum). My sis told me to try IVF for that reason, just because all her friend who tried has given birth.