IVF/ICSI Support Group


haiz.. I have typed a lot and internet connection lost.

Rostrum, to us Prof is ok. During the 1st few consultation he talked to us friendly and all. I told him about what we have gone through and what i expected from ivf, and he agreed and also with hubby sperm quality i told him i want ICSI and he agreed too. Only during gonalf scan then we don't talk much but later stage then he will tell me on the follicles sizes and etc. So i'm ok with him.

Monica, I think we have the same measurement for the lining 9mm.
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Jia you ..

Gloria, I also will be there at 8.30am. Alone, chubby, shoulder length hair. Try to spot me ok.
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Ya tomorrow scan will be done by that dr and according to the nurse will need to wait because this dr has a lot of patients.
 
hi fancy,
my hubby is super scared of needles and hates bitter medicine, he don't even dare to watch me inject lucrin jabs. I had to use threats and force to make him go for Dr Zou first visit. He was so stressful at 1st visit, cold sweat, fear, etc. Lucky he didn't scream out in pain when the first accupuncture needle went in, if not i will not know where to hide my face. He complained of pain on the accu place after the session. But subsequent visits, he began to relax and with Dr Zou advice, he told her which part is pain and need to re-adjust the strength of electricity. Eventually, he could even fall deep asleep during the sessions. For daily herbs, i also had to nag at him before he takes it. So fear can be overcome and rest assured that the accu needles are very fine, not painful. Do give a try.
 
Hazel,

Last I know is just go 9 times to attend novena, no matter spread over how long.. cannot go 9 days in a row lah.. have to work.. after work already half dead no energy to travel all the way to novena...Can ask your hub to ask? I think Helen here went 9 consectuive Sats and got twins
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Ladies,

I am not doing IVF. I am trying natural. Had enough of emotional set backs from the ivf experience after 3 tries.

Fancy,

Maybe your case a bit special so Dr loh really look into it.. for us it is like a regular unsuccessful case of ivf to him so he did not care much. Nothing comforting or encouraging came out from his mouth. I had a very bad experience from him. Anyway, it is good you are comfortable with him all the best to you.

Die,

We jia you together. I got mine today hehehe ;; hope it works *wink*
 
meow,
Its true tt we must hv fate wif the doc...esp on IVF procedure which is so complicated....I will go ahead to c him next Sat and c hw...I m also considering now...might or might not go to him...I must c the "chemistry" first...

Lyn,
So cheap? $30+???? I was told over the fone it is $115 before GST wor...mabbe u go straight to him for IVF?
My company got a lot of gossipers..so I dun tink i will let them noe..I tink let my boss noe will do...There is no need to let the whole co. noe..I also dun wan ppl to keep asking wat stage I m in now and blah blah blah..I prefer to keep a low profile...

Fancy,
Red dates are good? U mean those we bought at the medical hall without the seeds? Thanks for the tip yeah! Thanks a lot!

Vi4n,
Thanks...ok...yr words give me more confidence to go to prof...
 
Hi Libby,

Can you share with me your experience in your previous IVF cycle? You can pm me if you wish to. That's if if you are ok with it. If not, i will understand.
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Hi Fancy,

Very sorry to hear what happened.

I can fractionally endear with what you went through as I'm going thru a supposedly "MC" currently. This cycle was a roller coaster for me too.

But I'm glad you pulled through the whole ordeal and came out a much stronger person!

Meanwhile, you can try to do a mini-confinement and go Dr. Zou there to "tiao" your body. Don worry. When you see her for the first time, tell her you are scared of needles so that she will know your fear and will reassure you while she's doing the accupuncture. I have heard her reassuring a lot of ladies and guys who seem afraid of the needles or the procedure.

We Jia You and one day our dream will come true!!!

Hi Fond,

For FET, we will not be given progesterone supports like when are in fresh cycle?
 
Hi Humbug,

The Novena session starts from 9am and the last session is at 7pm. 3pm session is mandarin session and the rest is in English.

It's only half an hour session. If you are driving, try to reach there 15min to the next hour so that you can easily get parking lots when people starts to leave.

I didn't managed to complete the 9 novena before my IVF but hubby and me continue to go even till now.
 
Gloria, Linaang
Oho ok so no websites . I thought I will reassure my hubby by showing online. Anyway I will convince him and pull him to Dr Zou.

Humbug,
Ya might be he looked into my case because of lot of uncertainties happened. I heard lot of bad experiences that he is just not encouraging or comforting. I really admire your emotional strength.

Dec,
Which week you are in? I know it Is very stressful. Lets hope for the best.

Ladies,
Can anyone tell me the address of Dr Zou and the procedure for taking a appointment. What is the likely cost that we incur for the treatment?? Any specific timings to see her??

Rostrum,
Yes that’s what the KKH Nurse said. No harm in trying it out.

Ladies ,
Anyone going for FET now ?? Can anyone explain me the procedure for FET with KKH ? And likely cost involved?And what should be the grade of embryo for successful FET?? Sorry for too many questions.
 
Lyn (lady 1978)

Hello !!!! i didn't go japan... i love to...but must do work... so in Singapore all the time. Infact, i always tell people nurse is a good job cos no need to tabao work home... but i must also acknowledge that nurse is a demanding job : )

Fancy,
I am going to do FET in november... but a lot of uncertainity cos dunno whether AF will report on time at mid november. Otherwise, i will miss the boat ( ET with DR loh) cos he is clearing leaves from 13 dec....

Sister from NUH .... Prof Wong also not available from mid december right?

As you see, I am a teacher... the best time to steer clear of gossipy colleague is to do IVF in june or dec..... These are golden time for me but what to do... doc is not in.....

The max tries i will do IVF ( Fresh Cycle) is 3x. Failed 1X in August 2009..i have 2 more tries

When will we all graduate and progress to MTB thread?
 
Fancy,
A big hug from me. I have not been here for the last 1 month too. Something just prompted me to come in to take a look. Hope you are moving on fine. After my BFN, i rarely come in as i do not know wat to type here. U have any frozen eggs?
 
Hi rostrum, on the spot i cant remember the stat. But his result is something called terrazoospermia sound like that. When i google it, it said this type of quality will have very little success to penetrate to the follicles so it is best to do icsi. In fact i wasted money on iui. Should jus ivf from the first if i have done a better research.
 
fond - I'm not promoting Doctor Yong but she is really nice. Doc Yu heads IVF

lyn - The doctors are nice and the nurses are excellent as they motivates ...

dec - sory to hear about ur case ... rest well
 
Ladies, i have 22 follicles in total. 17 are cramping on the right.
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sizes are ranging from 15 to 21mm. So dr said er on wed. Will need to come back today at 2.30. Lining i cant remember. Haiz but def more than 9mm now. Monica, how about u? Elle?
 
Hi Ladies,

today is my D6 after ER. I ussualy never eat breakfast but always feel hungry after ER. After dinner yesterday, my stomach was so bloated and very uncomfortable even until now. its might be over eat or just too bloated to take anything in. I only have 11 Follicles retrieved and dont think its OHSS right?? Is anyone always similar case as me??

Thanks for sharing..
 
For all been thrue 2WW,

I was wondering, do we need always lying down? can lying down side way to turning right side or left side? can we walk or sitting down more than lyaing down?

sorry so many question..cheers..thank you in advance for sharing again.
 
Hi Vi4n,

you have a good number of follicles. Jia You! drink more water and rest well.

Hi Fancy,

Doc Zhou add is blk 505 AMK ave 8. phone:64560833
 
judebabe,
NUH Prof Wong is on leave from 9-13Dec. But the CHR lab will still be open. as long as CHR is open, IVF can stil be done by other doc provided you don't mind is nt done by Prof Wong personally. CHR lab will only be close in Feb10 during CNY for washing...that is the time when IVF cannot be done.
 
vi4n,

hi same...my huby's SA also terrazoospermia +the word "SEVERE"...but prof Wong refuse to let me do ivf until i tried out iui at least once...so as expected, it failed..other than yr DH spem proble, do you have any problem?

will be proceeding to my first ivf using Nov menses
 
bunny,
i went to visit prof Wong in sep..telling him i wan to do ivf using nov menses..he say ok..because chr lab will be open in dec...

but he wil lbe on conf from 9-13dec. so if your ET is during that period, then prob u might wan to consider that...or if u dun mind it is done by other doc..so have u decide wich mth menses u wan to use for ivf?u have any frozen one?
 
hi hope, I hav not decided which mth of AF to use. I consulted him last mth and he wants me to redo my all BT ( which is about 1yr old) . So I foresee my BT will be in Oct but he wants to see me as well.. so I am not sure if my visit will clash with his vacation dates.
 
bunny,
Prof will not be in 17oct for a week.

Vi4n,
Were u in maroon colour top? I think i was waiting at emerald only from 9am. I was in blue blouse, with dh. U have a good numbers and sizes r very encouraging too. U 're doing really good. Jia you.

Meow,
My first scan today. Gnf should start today or tomo night. Nurses will call after BT RESULT this afternoon.
 
Hi ladies,

Today will be my 7th day of Lucrin jab. I've been feeling nausea and vomiting out whateve i eat almost everyday. I thank god injection hasnt been much of a prob except for d initial ant bite feel but Im feeling tired easily.

Past 2 days, I've been having a very painful sensation in my lower abdomen area(like those menses cramp feel). Is this normal?
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ladies
my AF still missing after 2 months since I failed my IVF.. Arghhhh!!!! Sorry. I haven't been login in recently.. very busy with work now..
 
Greenie,

Thanks for the info. I have been feeling realy tired lately, I donno if its the jabs or just my work pilling up with deadlines or Hari Raya visiting..
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Either way, im stressed about the amt of work i have to finish(not only at workplace but must ta pao home) and d fact that Im goin thru IVF.
Cried bucket loads of tears last nite for the slightest reason - havnt set exam papers.

Im not sure if im doin all this at the right time. *sigh*
 
Hi Spiddey
Relax.. you need to have a very relax mind to create positive energy for IVF. I was also v stressed up during my failed cycle. So u must learn the lesson from me. I know it is hard to do but try to find sometime to calm your mind, reinforce your goal to have baby..

All the best for your coming stage 2.
 
hi spidey,
lucrin jab make us feel fatigue .. is normal cos it suppress our body to release hormone. try to rest well and drink alot water.very fast u will move to stage 2 then ER and ET already... be positive..
 
Hi Ladies,

I tried the Blackmores conceive well gold for 3 days and have constipation..... couple with UTI... arrgh...

Is it ok to continue with the Blackmores CWG?
 
Hi Vi4n, good number of follicles and sizes. I am also scheduled on wed. But was wondering none of them reached to 20mm so asked the african dr but she said to take pregnyl jab tonite. I really wanted to have puregon one more day.

My follicle scan results with lining 11mm:
RT:18, 17.5, 17.5, 14, 14, 13.5, 13, 11.5, 11
LT:17, 16.5, 16.5, 16, 15.5, 15, 14.5, 14, 8.5

Shiny wld like to ask you how many eggs where fertilised out of the 11. As mine also 11 are promising is what the Dr said.
 
Hi ladies,

1st time one this thread. Spoke to the gyna on my missing menses since end Jul and now giving medication to induce it. Will be going for scanning to check out the tube 1st, before proceeding with SO-IUI (semi-IVF as told). I read that some of you are on lucrin for a few weeks 1st before puregon. May I know why is it required, as my gynae did not mentioned to me this.

Also what's the chicken essene about and when does one takes it?

Sorry so many questions posted for the 1st timer.
 
monica - ur lining is gr8 as it is btw 8-12mm ... as the follicles would grow by another 2mm thus it shld be just nice for your ER on wednesday ...

ohohjazz- chicken essence helps with the quality of egg and u can start a bottle a day once u start ur lucrin
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monica,
if u dun feel comfy wif taking the jab tonite, try to contact ur ivf doc to double chk. maybe he/she goy other opinions
 
Gloria, at 9am i was already done and sitting at the level 3 sofa already. Now back at nuh for 230appt.
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monica, how come u can know so detail on your follicles sizes? Here dr or prof only measures those big in size. I think i have 3 or 4 in 20 and 21mm. Then 1 or 2 from 17 to 19mm. Thats all i know. hope, i did 3 times iui before starting this ivf. Actually if hubby sa is terrazoospermia can go for icsi already. Dont understand why prof doesnt allow that.
 
hi ladies,
just to clarify about novena,
I heard that going for 9 sessions will do.I am a catholic, but I went for my very first novena only couple of months back, intending to do 9 sessions straight, but after 3 sessions, I realised that novena must be done 9 weeks ( novena is only on sat at novena church) as every week, encompasses different lessons. For those who wish to, I strongly encourage you to drop in a prayer request in the request box as the priest at novena will pray for you and all other letters for 9 weeks. As whether or not your prayers for a successful ivf will be granted, I am in no position to say, but y not, just try praying for a healthy baby and maybe Mother Mary will intercede for you to God and your wishes might be answered. When she as answered your prayers, please drop and thanks giving letter into the same request box to thank Mother Mary for her blessing.
 
Thanks Lina.

Was hoping that things get back to normal soon so that I can try naturally or prepare better for the FET.. haiz...Sianz...
 
hi monica, mine have 4 fertilizer. but you don't worry too much as everyone have different result. maybe all yours will fertile. jia you on your coming ET..
 
Zaza,

thanks for answering, but I am not sure if I will be starting on lucrin or not. This is not mentioned to me.

So chicken essence is to take for how long?
 
juju78, thank you for the advice, just emailed Dr.Sad will wait 4 her reply.

Shiny, thanks for the info and encouragement. take good rest and eat good.

Zaza, thanks
 


monica, turn out my lining same with yours. I jus asked the nurse again. She explained to me on er detail. Confirmed er on 30 sept 1230. And also im on pretty high risk of ohss. Hormone at 20overk today. Up by double. So reduce gonalf dosage again for tonight.
 

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