For us, we do as per what the medical counsellor told us to do, i.e. have a clear plan on what to do next regardless of result. Me and Hubby oredi planned ahead, if negative, what do we do next. step 1, step 2, step 3.. so in a way, we were very prepared (afterall its only 40% success rate!). Now we just follow our plan. In addition, i am going to try something new, i.e. ACU, so now i am hopeful again to look forward to the FET cycle. So, rather than to stay behind and keep wondering why why why... it just becomes much easier to accept the result... and move on forward and go according to plan...
Sure, there will be disappointment and sadness initially, i was reluctant to call KKIVF centre to confirm on my result initially. I told myself that i have tried all I can to succeed, and all it remains is luck and fate. So if it is not to be now, it will be sooner or later...
well, this is how we did it.. Now i am looking forward to the weekend, then back to work, then go for ACU, then see Dr next Fri, then plan for holiday, then set a month for FET... so life pretty back to normal, and I am hopeful again.
DUN GIVE UP!