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koalabearsss said:
I had a change of doctors cuz Dr Chua left to private sector and most recent one is Prof Jerry. He’s very experienced but not much follow ups or true vested interest. After we were positive he didn’t see us anymore after 6 weeks, Dr Chua followed through until we transfer to private.

My friend got her first born via 2+ so we decided to try but didn’t have any good news. We tried SO-IUI once but failed.

We were lucky to get our first born on our first day via fet, then subsequent 3 fet failed, started a new cycle failed 2 fresh and this is our 6th frozen.

I really think it’s a numbers game… our first few failed ones I did tcm etc but failed. This one we stopped everything and got lucky. So try to keep positive and jia you!
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oh wow. u also been through alot..

u jia you too!!!

i didnt change doc as i am under subsidy route.. so just stick to it. .

lets all hope for the best.
 
Hopeful87 said:
oh wow. u also been through alot..

u jia you too!!!

i didnt change doc as i am under subsidy route.. so just stick to it. .

lets all hope for the best.
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And I have elevated tsh that doctors over medicated and cause a super dip to almost neg plus I’m 41 this year so don’t feel down okay! It will come!

We are also under subsidy route, the change of doctors were not by choice. Haha if can I will prefer to keep with Dr Chua.

Yep! This embaby might just be the one! It’s not easy but we motivate each other!
 
koalabearsss said:
And I have elevated tsh that doctors over medicated and cause a super dip to almost neg plus I’m 41 this year so don’t feel down okay! It will come!

We are also under subsidy route, the change of doctors were not by choice. Haha if can I will prefer to keep with Dr Chua.

Yep! This embaby might just be the one! It’s not easy but we motivate each other!
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ohhh same!! i am eating med for the thyroid also .. initially also over dose.. after that they cut my dosage .. so now taking 25mg a day ..

still need to take vit d , and calcium pills..

fingers crossed.

i also went tcm for 6 months..
 
Hopeful87 said:
ohhh same!! i am eating med for the thyroid also .. initially also over dose.. after that they cut my dosage .. so now taking 25mg a day ..

still need to take vit d , and calcium pills..

fingers crossed.

i also went tcm for 6 months.
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The doctor don’t even remember he gave me medicine for my tsh, so bad hor.

when are u doing ur next transfer?

Baby dust!!
 
Hopeful87 said:
har.. how come like tt..
mine got follow up .. so i feel she's ok ..

should be in nov since october one they say better to cancel .. will hit the long weekend.,

thank u!!!
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The kk doctor don’t quite care.. haha but now I’m seeing a specialist.

Good luck and lots of baby dust and sparkles!
 
koalabearsss said:
The kk doctor don’t quite care.. haha but now I’m seeing a specialist.

Good luck and lots of baby dust and sparkles!
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ohhh.. so u changed to specialist le ?

hmmm.. i feel they just doing their job.. maybe cos i thinking aiya subsidised.. so dont hiam so much ., hahaha

i also age catching .. so abit sian le. .
 
Hopeful87 said:
ohhh.. so u changed to specialist le ?

hmmm.. i feel they just doing their job.. maybe cos i thinking aiya subsidised.. so dont hiam so much ., hahaha

i also age catching .. so abit sian le. .
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Yea.. when kk overtreated me the doctor asked me to find my own specialist and call back when my tsh is managed. Quite frustrated that time with this cuz I already did 2 endoscratch and ready to transfer and had to push to one year later. But my co does cover panel specialist so might as well..

I have a friend 43, and husband in the 50s and they failed a few cycles and decided to do private, succeeded on first try with twins! So there’s always hope regardless of age!
 
koalabearsss said:
Yea.. when kk overtreated me the doctor asked me to find my own specialist and call back when my tsh is managed. Quite frustrated that time with this cuz I already did 2 endoscratch and ready to transfer and had to push to one year later. But my co does cover panel specialist so might as well..

I have a friend 43, and husband in the 50s and they failed a few cycles and decided to do private, succeeded on first try with twins! So there’s always hope regardless of age!
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wow..
my company doesnt cover anything women's related.. so nah..

aiyo ..

wow !! ur friend is lucky too!!!
fingers cross with whatever resources i have liao ..
finances also an issue..
 
Hopeful87 said:
oh wow. u also been through alot..

u jia you too!!!

i didnt change doc as i am under subsidy route.. so just stick to it. .

lets all hope for the best.
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Hello Hopeful, in the event if you decided to go to private route, do look out for Dr Liu Shu Ling. I would think a good and dedicated doc plays a part in the successful of the IVF journey. Cheers
 
Hi everyone!
I’ve just started my first IVF cycle with Dr Tan HH this month. During retrieval, we got 22 eggs — 12 matured and all 12 fertilised. We now have 8 frozen blastocysts (5 good quality and 3 average quality).
I’ll be doing my frozen embryo transfer in December, and I was wondering if anyone could share tips on what to take note of and what to eat or avoid before the transfer?
I’m currently doing acupuncture twice a week and taking TCM powder.
Thank you so much!
 
moonstones said:
Jiayou, hope all will be good! Do something nice for yourself today, you have done your best already
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i dunno what can be done leh .. i didnt check this time cos doc gave me gonasi .. so they say dont ownself test .. cos apparently it contains hcg .,

i am having cramps on one side..
breast tenderness is real ..

but i am currently on crinone gel, and aspirin .
gonasi jab last on 28th nov..,
i panicking the hell out of myself.. :(
 
Hopeful87 said:
i dunno what can be done leh .. i didnt check this time cos doc gave me gonasi .. so they say dont ownself test .. cos apparently it contains hcg .,

i am having cramps on one side..
breast tenderness is real ..

but i am currently on crinone gel, and aspirin .
gonasi jab last on 28th nov..,
i panicking the hell out of myself.. :(
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Focus on today and worry tomorrow, I know it's easier said than done.

Anything that you like to do? Maybe can try to do? E.g. read a book, mindfulness, watch netflix. Calm mood is important too!
 
moonstones said:
Focus on today and worry tomorrow, I know it's easier said than done.

Anything that you like to do? Maybe can try to do? E.g. read a book, mindfulness, watch netflix. Calm mood is important too!
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LOL.. nothing leh .. going bonkers though at work .. lol.. suddenly having cramps .. den keep having the wet wet feeling like menses want to come.. lol..
last week still not so panic and anxious.,,
doesnt help when i have driving lessons tml before beta. hahahahah .. im a mess..
 
moonstones said:
Oopss woah you even scheduled driving lesson.. hopefully all's good tomorrow!
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smart ass me .. i didnt estimate the beta date. den i happily book the driving lesson .. ,

too late to cancel also.

i hope all good too..
the only positive now is the breast tenderness.,

which i dunno is it from the meds.. :(
 
Hopeful87 said:
smart ass me .. i didnt estimate the beta date. den i happily book the driving lesson .. ,

too late to cancel also.

i hope all good too..
the only positive now is the breast tenderness.,

which i dunno is it from the meds.. :(
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Maybe want you to focus on driving and not panicking for the result
 
moonstones said:
I'm sure, the result will be out tomorrow, will be fast!
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One more hour to my beta ... im so so so nervous ...
didnt want to test cos gonasi might still be in the system. Dun wan to make ownself upset...

Am wondering if i should stay at the hospital to wait or go home first...
 
Hopeful87 said:
One more hour to my beta ... im so so so nervous ...
didnt want to test cos gonasi might still be in the system. Dun wan to make ownself upset...

Am wondering if i should stay at the hospital to wait or go home first...
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See your gut feels?

Jiayou! About time for your beta already
 
moonstones said:
See your gut feels?

Jiayou! About time for your beta already
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Beta is done .. she said results around 11..: if i go home like very far.:: now is 50 mins to 11. If i go home . I need to travel all the way to kkh again later ..:
She said heng didnt test. Cos will have left over gonasi ...
 
Hi everyone, I’m new here. Firstly, thank you everyone for sharing your personal stories, really helps to know that I’m not alone in this journey. I’m currently going through my first FET but I have a feeling it’s not gonna succeed :( I’m now 10dp5dt and I’ve been seeing spotting in the last 5 days that keeps increasing. I think the only thing holding back my full period is the crinone :( I don’t wanna test before my blood test end of this week cause I’m afraid to see the disappointing results.
 
Matchaalatte said:
Hi everyone, I’m new here. Firstly, thank you everyone for sharing your personal stories, really helps to know that I’m not alone in this journey. I’m currently going through my first FET but I have a feeling it’s not gonna succeed :( I’m now 10dp5dt and I’ve been seeing spotting in the last 5 days that keeps increasing. I think the only thing holding back my full period is the crinone :( I don’t wanna test before my blood test end of this week cause I’m afraid to see the disappointing results.
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Actually test would be a good thing so that you would be more mentally prepared. who knows it could be good news and if you are bleeding now, you might need additional support like the jab?
 
I have some balance medicines from my frozen ivf cycle with a private clinic. If any one needs, can send me a message. Used tube of oestrogel, Ural Effervescent, Duphaston and Progynova. Not for fussy as they are all opened. Thanks!


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Hi everyone. I'm new here. Just sharing my first fresh IVF cycle experience at KKH. Unfortunately a neg cycle. 37 years old. Been TTC for close to 3 years. Had an SO-IUI in 2025 but failed. Finally moved to IVF in Jan 2026. Final scan with 8 follicles. 5 eggs extracted. Husband insisted to do 50% ivf 50% icsi. 4 matured. 2 from ivf didn't fertilise. 2 from icsi, both fertilised. Transfered 1 blastocyst on day 5. :(
 
hi Dear all, i just got our PTG-A result we have 1 euploid and 2 low mosaic. embryos, so now we are indecisive on doing one embryo FET or Two embryo at a time? anyone face the same issue? we are at IVF Bridge. anyone can give some advice on your precious experience?
 
SunshineDad said:
hi Dear all, i just got our PTG-A result we have 1 euploid and 2 low mosaic. embryos, so now we are indecisive on doing one embryo FET or Two embryo at a time? anyone face the same issue? we are at IVF Bridge. anyone can give some advice on your precious experience?
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I would recommend 2 embryo transfer at one go
 
tanfel91 said:
Hi everyone!
I’ve just started my first IVF cycle with Dr Tan HH this month. During retrieval, we got 22 eggs — 12 matured and all 12 fertilised. We now have 8 frozen blastocysts (5 good quality and 3 average quality).
I’ll be doing my frozen embryo transfer in December, and I was wondering if anyone could share tips on what to take note of and what to eat or avoid before the transfer?
I’m currently doing acupuncture twice a week and taking TCM powder.
Thank you so much!
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Hi, How's your journey with Dr Tan HH so far? I'm considering switching to him after a failed and traumatized cycle with KK. Any advice is highly appreciated!
 
wish88 said:
I have some balance medicines from my frozen ivf cycle with a private clinic. If any one needs, can send me a message. Used tube of oestrogel, Ural Effervescent, Duphaston and Progynova. Not for fussy as they are all opened. Thanks!


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Hello is the PROGYNOVA still available?
 
May I ask is it true that clomid cannot be used for more than six cycles due to cancer risks? I don’t know why but my gynecologist did not tell me this and she issued me so many cycles for the past two years.
Anyone also issued clomid for many cycles and gynae never say anything?
 
remembeRainbow said:
May I ask is it true that clomid cannot be used for more than six cycles due to cancer risks? I don’t know why but my gynecologist did not tell me this and she issued me so many cycles for the past two years.
Anyone also issued clomid for many cycles and gynae never say anything?
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yes, there will be an elevated risk of cancer if taken more than 12-24 months. to be honest, if you dont see results, shouldnt you be looking out for a better gynae? else it would be a waste of time and time and tide waits for no woman, when it comes to childbearing
 
towkayneo said:
yes, there will be an elevated risk of cancer if taken more than 12-24 months. to be honest, if you dont see results, shouldnt you be looking out for a better gynae? else it would be a waste of time and time and tide waits for no woman, when it comes to childbearing
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Thanks for your reply.
I’m under subsidized so I see a different gynae each visit.
My issue is male factor. So I consistently took clomid to get more follicles to
Increase my chances. I ovulate normally even without clomid.
 


I joined this forum more than ten years ago when I first started IUI/ivf. I’m coming back in here to try for # but realize that it’s no longer as active in here.
May I ask if there’s another channel (telegram?) where it’s more active?
 
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