IUI/SO-IUI: Anyone?


Ladies please get this thread going! Iui or ivf it doesn't matter... What matter most is the support that we get here...

I so understand what you ladies mean by the challenge in producing the troop... My supposedly first iui was postponed because of that... Dh forgot about the 1st freezing and release troops the day before... And for the second freezing, he couldn't get a cab in time due to morning rush... Haiz...

Hopefully all is good this time round
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Yes yes yes I still prefer this thread cos everyone can support each other as we have the same aim and we understand what one another have undergo . Keep the happy spirit going high !!
 
Dream: thks for sharing the acupuncture experience.

Have a long morning doing couselling for IVF in clinic , dunno y feeling a bit emo when signing the consent form
 
Good morning ladies!
I'm sitting outside Raffles TCM waiting for it to open. Will update all of you later.

Thanks Ladies for letting us stay on this thread
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we appreciate it and will always support one another.
 
Dian Tang: Hugz.. Dun think so much.. Just think about how you are going to have your own baby very soon. So whatever you have to do to achieve the aim doesnt matter. Is still your own baby...
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I think both IUI or IVF will still need troops right? okie...something to share..not sure whether it is helpful...during the first IUI, DH abstain for abt 3 days...but for 2 second trial, we BD on Thurs night and IUI on sat morning..so maybe only abstain for 2 days? somehow, the troops results for the second trial arent as good as the first trial... so we suspect abstaining for 3 nights seem to be better..

also, some slight difference...we did the IUI under Dr Loh. but the nurse says to bring the troops in within an hr.. so not sure if it makes any diff...maybe e fresher it is, the better bah..


just for my own understadning, what's e diff between long and short protocol for ivf?
 
Ladies, i just talked to my boss that im gg for ivf n she told me recently ther a lady hving some kind of fertility medication n she got pregnant w 4 babies. Is a local new. Any1 know of d news?

Dream, short protocol will skip suppression n go straight to stimulation and it takes only about 4 wks for d entire process. Long protocol will b about 6 wks. Correct me if im wrong.
 
Laki_gal,

Was your boss referring to this?

http://www.divaasia.com/article/17712

The article did not mention about the fertility medication though, but i would think it's clomid?

Dian_tang,

Ya, i understand it can be a little overwhelming at the ivf counselling session.. I had felt the same way too.. Hugzz.. I guess it's very normal to have some emotional ups and downs during this period.. Just don't let the down part stay too long k
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We'll all jia you and help support one another
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Thks min81 & selvi. Hmm coz she was talking to me regarding sme fertility medication n i was thinkin if it work, i will like to try.

D lady is lucky to have 4 babies, guess she can close shop liao =b
 
Hi I felt especially emo when I sign the part where it said "in case of death and divorce, the embryos cannot belong to either party "
 
Hope everyone of u is starting to count down to weekend...i am knocking off soon before going for TCM accupuncture and then meeting up with my close frens for steamboat dinner.

Have a good weekend ahead! Stay relax & happy!
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Hi Ladies, sorry that I have been MIA all day. As soon as I got back to the office, I was swarmed with work.

Here is my Raffles TCM experience today that I would like to share with you:

I had a 8.30am appointment with Dr Zou (which was very early!). I told her that I am starting IVF next week. As it was my first time seeing her, she asked me a lot of questions to get to know my condition. Questions such as how long my cycle is, how many days is my AF, do I get cramps and backache during AF, do I bloat, am I regular, do I sleep well, how is DH's health and troops, what fertility test have I done, what did my western doctor say, etc. After that she checked my eyes/iris, my tongue and read my pulse on both hands. She commented that my overall health and body is fine. The only thing is that my liver seems to be lacking good blood circulation. She also said that she will straight away do acupuncture for me.

When she started the acupuncture session, I joked that luckily I'm not afraid of needles. She replied, "oh good, in that case, I will put more needles and use some medium ones!" Oh gosh, I never knew that acupuncture needles come in different sizes! All in all, I think I ended up with at least 20 needles in me. One at the top of my head, 10 on my tummy and chest, 2 on each hand, and maybe 7-8 on each leg and foot. It was my first time having a needle at the top of my head, so that was certainly a new experience for me. Overall, I didn't feel any pain. She worked very fast and the only time I feel anything was a little numbness which she tells me is normal. After she is done, she told me to rest or sleep for 30mins and placed a heat lamp directed at my tummy. In summary, it was good experience. The only down side for me is that my Chinese is not that good and her English is not fluent. I told her that my Mandarin is no good and she was patience with my questions everytime she uses a Chinese word that is too advance for my level. ha ha! She also prescribed some medicine for 5 days that will nourish my liver. So since it is only for 5 days, I will just take it.

I paid:
$40 for consultation
$11 for medicine
$389 for IVF booster package which consists of 5 acupuncture sessions.
Including gst, I paid $470 in the end.

dian_tang, all the best in your session with her tomorrow. Hope that you are feeling better now. Don't feel blue about IVF. Think of it as your best chance to have your beautiful bundle of joy on your arms. Hugs!

Okay, ladies...goodnight and have a wonderful weekend!
 
Hi Lil , thanks for sharing the experience with us . I am going with mine later ha ha . She sound like a nice doc .
Thks I feel better and always remind myself that I have to be brave for this program. Hugs hugs to u !!
 
Hi we consulted Dr Zhao today . I shared my experience here , actually sound alike of what Lil Ponyo describe . She started with many questions like cramps , how long is the menses,how well the sleep, she also take the pluses for my 2 left and right wrists. She also read the lab report do by hosp . She encouraged us to stay relax and positive and happy and our body would be better for IVF . She asked me to wear socks or slippers at home to keep my feet warm. She asked me to avoid cold drinks and fruits like watermelon which is 涼.
After which she checked on my DH too .next we proceed on the acupuncture. Like what Lil Ponyo said, I was poked with 20 needles and I slept for 30 mins . My DH also did . But Dr said it maybe late for him to do cos he shd do 3 months ago.
Both of us took up a 5 sessions acupuncture which also include consultation .

Anyway, stay happy !!
 
hi which gynae u all see for IUI. I did my 1st IUI with Prof Charfles and failed. He did not send my hubby sperm and inserted all in the clinic... My hubby thought of changing any Dr- can recommend?
 
Hi serene,

How did you know that the gynea did not insert all of ypur hubby sperm??

I did my first SO-IUI at KKH.... Now is my 2WW
Btw, is it normal to be bloated while under progesterone tablets??? Hubby juz remarked that I'm growing fatter and bloated???
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Hi serene,

Sorry, i didn't really understand.. Do you mean your hubby's sperm was not sent to the lab to be 'washed' before the iui procedure was done?

Mine was done by Prof P C Wong at NUH..

Hi duffy bear,

I did not feel bloated that time but i think everybody has slightly different symptoms so don't worry too much k?
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Hi Ladies, how is your Monday so far?
I think my IVF journey started earlier than expected.
I got my AF yesterday, it is 3 days early so today being my Day 2, I called up the doctor first thing in the morning and went for my blood test. The tests are for MEP and AMH. I don't know what they are for so will need to google that later tonight. Does anyone know what they are for?

Then the nurse told me that doctor will only see me on Day 21 to start my injections and suppression. I am surprise that it is so long away because all along I thought my injections will start immediately. So it turns out that I still have 3 weeks of normal life to go. Ha ha! Nurse said I can even keep trying in the next 3 weeks. Wow, fingers crossed!
 
Wow Lil, u fast. Sorry I dont know bout d needs for these 2 tests. So will they inform u d results for dis 2 tests or only to review during ur visit on 21 days?

Prehaps u will bingo during dis 3 ww
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Anw keep us updated ya. Guess d next b Min81?

Status:
Lil ponyo - MEP & AMH test on 30 jul, D21 to start injections (long protocol)
min81 - est 30 jul-2 aug (short protocol)
Dian_tang - est 8 aug ( short protocol)
Saralyn - 9 aug (long protocol)
Laki gal - est 17 aug (short protocol)
 
Lil_ponyo,

Wow your AF came earlier than expected.. Mine not in sight yet but pimples popping out everywhere so should be here soon.. Haha.. Hate the pimply phase! Sometimes gotta tell myself i'm.still young that's why i have 'qing chun dou'.. Haha..

The AMH is your anti-mullerian hormone, i.e. Ovarian reserve.. I don't know about the MEP..

Good luck during this 3 weeks!
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Ya, last cycle is only 25 days! I have never had a cycle that short. Maybe it's because I was on clomid for my 2 cycles before that and those cycles were 30-31 days. Usually, my cycle is 28 days. Or maybe it's acupuncture that I did. Another strange thing is that I did not bloat or have water retention before my AF.

Laki gal, thank you but I try not to think about it. But since I suddenly have this 3 weeks 'free', I'm going to plan a short trip during the National Day long week to relax. I have not had a holiday with my DH alone in almost 2 years! It has always been with friends and/or family.

Min81, thanks! Ha ha, yes you are still qing chun! I only have wrinkles and dark spots :p Thanks for explaining AMH, I will go google MEP later. Hopefully, my ovarian reserve is still good...

Dian_tang, given that my AF is here, I cancelled my 2nd acupuncture which is for tomorrow because it was supposed to be for 1 day before AF. The nurse told me to call and make appointment again after AF finish. I also did not end up taking her medicine.

Serene, if you are thinking of going to private hospital, I'm with Dr L C Foong at Gleneagles. Did all my 3 IUI under him and now doing IVF. Another sister here got a BFP with him earlier this month on her 2nd IUI. He is a very kind and patient doctor. Not much waiting time.

Duffy Bear, all the very best in your 2ww! How many DPO are you now?

Jia you everybody and Stay happy and relax
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Lil : you are on long protocol so start inject on day 21. For me , I may start on day 2 as I am on short protocol . Oic .. My second acupuncture is next sat . She also ask me to go before period as she said that it can improve the lining .Btw what medicine she gave u? Mine was 消摇善, I googled a bit and it was for me to stay relax. She read my pulses and said my heart beat too fast . Ha ha
 
Lil, oops... Wat does DPO stand for??? Today is my 11 days since my IUI.... Just feel bloated with swollen breast
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also, I eat alot nowadays ... Hahaa... Hb say I look like 3 mths pregnant ...
 
Laki_gal, actually I feel v stress... Hb is the one who is positive... Keep asking me am I pregnant, when can know the result, told me to eat well and take care these few days, say his bb inside my stomach... I nearly wants to faint Liao....

But I will to feel relax till the day i know the result... *Keeping my finger cross*
 
Duffy bear,

It's good to be positive, join your hubby in that!
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Best of luck! When do you plan to test?
 
Min81, u mean the pregnancy test??? Can I test it myself??? KKH ask me to go bk on this sat for a blood test to check but I dunno the test is for what purposes?

Maybe I will test it on this weekend ba...

Btw, u gg for ivf soon??? Hopefully u and the others strike it this time round... Keep us posted of the latest news, oki??
 
Duffy bear,

Yup i meant the home pregnancy test.. I guess every doctor has different set of protocol.. For mine, doctor told me to do a home pregnancy test if my menses still not here after 3 weeks.. So i waited till around day 20 past iui to test.. When i tested positive, i made an appt to see doc immediately.. Even when i went to the hospital, they only did urine test to confirm.. Think no need blood test cos my hcg was already high enough to confirm the pregnancy..

I'll be starting on ivf very soon.. Thanks for your good wishes!
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All the best for your blood test too.. Keep us updated!
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Hi Duffybear, depending on your cycle, you can try HPT if your period is still no here after 14 days from IUI. Either that or you can 'tahan' and wait for your blood test at KK. That would be the most accurate of course. Baby dusts!!!

Ladies, I googles last night. Both my blood test MEP and AMH are for ovarian reserve and estrogen level. Basically, they are all to do with how many eggs I have left. Ha ha!

Dian_tang, my medicine seems slightly different. It's 逍遙散, I hope I wrote it correctly and honestly I'm not sure what it's for (besides being good for liver). So I changed my mind about taking it.
 
Lil, 14 days from my IUI fall on this coming thursday ...

Hmm..... v anxious.. dunno if i should try the home test kit or not.... I'm afraid of disappointment
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Anyway, all the best to all ladies out there... Let jia you and hope to hear more good news soon
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Lil_ponyo, saralyn, dian_tang, laki_gal,

My AF just started.. So i guess tmr morning i'll have to go for my day 2 scan and learn how to do self-injections.. **GULP**
 
Jiayou min81. Keep us posted 2ml ya. Share w us hw d injection for short protocol. Geez I'm feeling nervous now

Status:
Lil ponyo - MEP & AMH test on 30 jul, D21 to start injections (long protocol)
min81 - 31 jul (short protocol)
Dian_tang - est 8 aug ( short protocol)
Saralyn - 9 aug (long protocol)
Laki gal - est 17 aug (short protocol)
 
Laki_gal,

Thanks for updating the list
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Was telling my hubby.. Imagine i'm there holding the syringe to my tummy.. And the nurse and him holding poms poms going 'jia you jia you!!'.. All in slow motion.. Oops sorry.. I'm so ally mcbeal.. Haha..
 

Hi ladies,

Thank you all so much for your well wishes.. So sorry but i don't have very good news to share.. Went to hospital very early.this morning.. Since my doctor would only be in at 8.30, the nurses did the necessary blood test for me first.. When the doc came, he did the scan and saw 2 cysts, 1 each on left and right ovary.. They were not there during the scan about 2 mths ago.. So doc says not to proceed with ivf today.. Said to wait for next cycle go in day 2 again to scan and check if the cysts are still there.. If they have been passed out naturally, then can straightaway start on injections.. If still there, i have to go thru a laparoscopy to remove, rest 3 mths then do ivf..

I'm a little disappointed but feeling ok.. Had asked the doc if there's anything i should take note of during this period, he said no, the cysts are not affected by my diet.. He said to go ahead and do watever i like and enjoy eating what i like.. Relax and just wait for next scan.. My hubbytold me to just take things easy and that maybe it's just my body's way of telling me 1 mth rest from wk is not enough and i need to rest a little more..

Surprised to see that i wasn't charged for the blood tests..
 

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