Regretted,
That decision lies between the husband and wife doesn't it? Won't it be kind of personal to answer a yes to your question? LOL.. But then again, not every man goes for SM and anal.. Actually, I kinda like SM.. LOL.. Being the damsel is distress! LOL.. It would be nice to be all open mind between a husband and wife is my opinion.. xD
If u don't like what your hubby is doing, talk to him instead of condemning him for wanting a different kind of "roleplay" from yours.. Not every man likes it slow and romantic and not every man goes for harsher fantasies.. He is your husband after all, right? ^.^
But, well, of course if u prefer your hubby to "experiment" outside instead of "being daring & totally open" with your hubby once in a while, then I guess u wouldn't have anything to complain about.. ^.^ We still need to put in effort to keep our men faithful.. Can't expect them to stay leashed when we don't give them treats once in a while..
Sorry if I sound "too open" or offend anyone.. But I don't have a virgin-like mind.. =X I'm not saying it works for everyone, just for me.. It's only my opinion..