hi Felicia, my prev gynae examined me and hubby and said it's my hubby's sperm morphology not good... and i've a tight hymen so that made penetration painful. But my hymen was broken by her thank goodness so penetration is not so painful.
She told us we can try naturally but may take some time cos my hubby's sperms are too weak to travel far... that's why we went 1 round IUI...
After that failed, we self medicate through TCM for 3 months then sought a 2nd opinion from LC Cheng.
He said the sperm report from the prev gynae is A+ grade, he didn't rely on the report since only 1 sperm is needed out of millions.
He told us main reason why i'm not preg is due to timing diff... we kept missing the ovulation day. So we BD on CD8 right after AF ends, then on CD12, 14, 16, 18 on that fruitful month
We did other things to conceive too... hubby popped cordeyceps pills from EYS, tried to have minimal stress, he wore boxer shorts instead of underwear, after BD i lifted my legs high enough to allow his sperms to swim deeper in me...
2 years of TTC, have you sought help from gynae? maybe it's a medical reason. LC Cheng told us even perfectly healthy couples... chance of conceiving naturally is only around 20% per cycle so don't be stressed. Jiayou in your TTC journey