divorce

[Linwong]

Hi,


I am thinking if one day i were to get a divorce, how high are the chances of me gaining care and control of my little girl? My child is now 19 months old and i am looking after her as a SAHM. I really hope my daughter can be by my side. I feel that my husband will fight for custody cos everytime we fought, he talked as though he going to take my girl away from me. I love my child no lesser than him and since he already had custody of his son from the previous marriage, i sincerely hope he can let my child be with me if ever one day should we spilt.

 

[jacobmum]

Hi Linwong, what happened ? Maybe u can have a good talk with hubby ? I don't think divorce is a good idea as your kid is still young.

 

[Linwong]

Hi jacobmum,

Thks for your advice.......i tend to think too far ahead and was a bit emotional yesterday night but it also set me thinking what if really things get out of hand and if the worst happens? I also do not want my girl to grow up in a broken family and i believe my husband loves this child as much as i do. Even though as we fight,i do admit i still love him as before though sometimes our emotions can get out of control.......

 

[juzsharing]

Hi Linwong, it will be better not to think too far ahead with the issue Divorce. Better to pull out the root of this thought and work towards a happy family for your child as well as the child from your spouse previous marriage. It is easier say than done but if you have thw will, nothing cannot come true. All the best.

 

[your_attorney]

Why don't you try counseling first.

Sometimes couples fight and etc. My husband and I also squabble sometimes.
I just got used to it and sometimes ignore him (silent and no eye contact treatment) till he learn to talk to me properly. Hee hee
Men sometimes take us for granted. We are working to earn bread and butter for the family too on top of bearing and caring for children!!!
We need them to learn to treat us well, like their wife, not their maid or servant.

Think positive for your child! You choose this man for a good reason, look at the good reason!

 

[Linwong]

On top of that, i also have two children from my first marriage under joint custody but care and control under my ex spouse. Today, i met my ex brother in law and managed to get hold of my children's handphone no. Tried to send them a text but didnt get any reply...........i think in this world only my children would reject me..........i feel really lousy as a mother........but i tried hard to give this child i have with my current hubby the best i could.......to make up for what i had not been able to provide for them..........

 

[Mandy Meister]

Does divorce affects children, how children grow up to be? custody is 50/50, both parents are professional.