Ladies
For me, I am living in denial, rather choose to do so. Cause seriously if I really go and "dig" the truth out, I don't know what shall I do, what can I do.
It's easy to say divorce, kick up a big fuss etc etc. But ultimately, what do you want to achieve?
To be honest, this is what a counsellor once told me, ladies always use the "excuse" to turn a blind eye on their HB infidelity by saying its for the child's sake. Truth is, there is toooooo much fear inside them, they are torn, and in doubt, nobody to turn to etc, that they chose the more painful route in staying put.
Honestly, you will not be happy, and the child sense it. Father and mother bu lian xin, the child will still suffer.
So, the intention of me starting a thread on SBF and LBF is to see what can be done to stop these website to be so blatantly accessible, maybe a support group for women who are in pain/hurt when their HB are f**** around.
Yes, it may sound ambitious to so-call ban such unhealthy forums, we can never eliminate pornography on the website, its all about demand and supply, but if something of such nature is happening in our backyard, shouldn't we do something about it instead of ranting, whining, felt unjustified, resentment, anger, all the emotions you can come up with.
It's true that IDA has no control over these forums as they are registered overseas, but I am sure, that if such forums have local numbers link to pimps and prostitutes shouting "come call me, use my service" does this not constitute, pimping and sexual service by unlicenced prostitutes?
Think about it. I think most of you may think I am crazy trying to act heroic, save the world, BS ...
But that's my take. If not, just live with it in misery, and continue to let the men f*** around.