wishy_baby
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Soon after i found out that im preggy, i've started considering who can help me for confinement. I know some ppl may say that i worried too early but i felt that start planning early better cos I'll hv other thing to prepare at later stage of my pregnancy.
Here is my situation:
I'm currently staying with in-laws cos our BTO flat still under construction. So, first question came in - who to cook my confinement meal?
My MIL dun cook lunch on weekdays and dun cook at all on weekends. Asking her to change her routine then u prepare to hear a lot of complaint, banging table and slamming door... Like the whole world owe her money... And she is kind of stubborn, do thing on her weird way.... On the first dinner after I announced my preggy news, she cooked bak kut teh with lot of peppers. I didnt want to drink bcos I scared later body get heaty... So, she not happy saying dat bak kut teh with pepper not heaty... Faint!!! I can't imagine wat will she cook for my confinement later with such kind of sense...and not to mention about taking care of bb... It was 30 yrs ago story for her...
I ever tot of going back to my parent home in malaysia during confinement. At least my mom was an experience babysitter before. She helped neighbor during confinement and even shaved bb during fullmonth. but hb dun allow cos he can't see me and bb everyday and it will be too tired for him to travel every weekend. My mom can't come over to help me since I got no place for her to stay.
So, I'm considering getting part-time confinement lady who can cook my meals everyday and help me with bb during daytime. But another concern comes in-the house is my MIL one like she always claim so if another auntie come and mess with her kitchen? Oh no, she will sure make a big fuss to everyone in the house... Then the whole world owe her money again...
Another less intrusive option is to cater for confinement food but then who to help me with bb? Cos I not suppose to touch water at least on my first week of confinement....
It seems like no option is working..... How?
Here is my situation:
I'm currently staying with in-laws cos our BTO flat still under construction. So, first question came in - who to cook my confinement meal?
My MIL dun cook lunch on weekdays and dun cook at all on weekends. Asking her to change her routine then u prepare to hear a lot of complaint, banging table and slamming door... Like the whole world owe her money... And she is kind of stubborn, do thing on her weird way.... On the first dinner after I announced my preggy news, she cooked bak kut teh with lot of peppers. I didnt want to drink bcos I scared later body get heaty... So, she not happy saying dat bak kut teh with pepper not heaty... Faint!!! I can't imagine wat will she cook for my confinement later with such kind of sense...and not to mention about taking care of bb... It was 30 yrs ago story for her...
I ever tot of going back to my parent home in malaysia during confinement. At least my mom was an experience babysitter before. She helped neighbor during confinement and even shaved bb during fullmonth. but hb dun allow cos he can't see me and bb everyday and it will be too tired for him to travel every weekend. My mom can't come over to help me since I got no place for her to stay.
So, I'm considering getting part-time confinement lady who can cook my meals everyday and help me with bb during daytime. But another concern comes in-the house is my MIL one like she always claim so if another auntie come and mess with her kitchen? Oh no, she will sure make a big fuss to everyone in the house... Then the whole world owe her money again...
Another less intrusive option is to cater for confinement food but then who to help me with bb? Cos I not suppose to touch water at least on my first week of confinement....
It seems like no option is working..... How?
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