hi, I'm a full time working mom and my 8 month old baby is taken care mainly by my father who is retired during weekdays. I have a helper at home as well. I noticed my baby is often smiling at my helper and does not even bother smiling much or looking at me! It upsets me a lot. There are certain days where my baby would look for the helper when she senses her around even though I'm carrying her.
My helper used to bathe my baby and carry her a lot when she was in her first few months. We have now limited the interaction between my helper and baby to just a few tasks such as bathing around twice a week and changing her pooped diapers on behalf of my father. What frustrates me and my parents more is that the helper tries to find every opportunity to make eye contact with the baby, calls her name and to make her smile.
I know people would tell me this is a good thing that it shows my helper would not harm the baby etc but I cannot help feel the jealousy and concern the baby would look for her.
What should I do?
- upset mom who feels baby does not like smiling or looking at her
My helper used to bathe my baby and carry her a lot when she was in her first few months. We have now limited the interaction between my helper and baby to just a few tasks such as bathing around twice a week and changing her pooped diapers on behalf of my father. What frustrates me and my parents more is that the helper tries to find every opportunity to make eye contact with the baby, calls her name and to make her smile.
I know people would tell me this is a good thing that it shows my helper would not harm the baby etc but I cannot help feel the jealousy and concern the baby would look for her.
What should I do?
- upset mom who feels baby does not like smiling or looking at her