Hi Cindy how do you occupy your time so you won't feel bored? Care to share?
Haha that's what people suggest to me. My life get a toy boy.
What can u offer to tai tais who you want them to spend on you? Besides the obvious and your time. Any other things u can offer? If not forget it haha
A tai tai will say get a toy boy instead of find/ search for a toy boy. She roam the streets, set her eyes on her targets, display her more than obvious universal sexual signals and/ or just picks him up. Online flirting for experience tai tai is her 2nd platform. Will she wants to bring it offline? Is entirely up to her. These behaviors is in line with the modern thinking boys.
A newbie/ laid back tai tai dresses up well, tags along with her friends, hits the bar with it's surrounding slightly dim. She scan for her targets and if her target did not notice her eyes... she shoots a glass of drink over to his table. An experience tai tai will even make her steps closer to her target and lay her fingers or hands on him.
Isn't it a toyboy is able to fulfill a tai tai like an open book? A boy reads a book because the author is enriching him. A toyboy reads and following the tai tai because she is taking the leads. Time to dump that secret diary she has been holding onto it tightly for years and for more years to come.
Emotional: A toyboy instills his tai tai with a zest for life. Tai tai will finds herself to be the object of envy of certain younger women. Her overall appearance stood still in time because of how she is/ was being treated and look/ looked upon.
Psychology: A toyboy knows any baggage is a baggage too heavy to carry. A toy-boy's problem is his own problem and nothing to do with his tai tai. No grumpy face, no set of egoistic and arrogant behaviors, soft-spoken and behaves well. He will needs to know how to be himself before stepping out of his house. Oh... and the forever sickening mindF*** languages like 'she is too rich for me', 'she is too capable for me', 'she is too beautiful for me', etc... shouldn't be present and being felt.
Physical: A toyboy knows how to treat a woman right. He respects her, finds her infinitely more attractive, genuinely enjoys her company and his ears are all hers.
Behind closed doors: With or without is entirely the tai tai's call. Need I elaborate more?
**A tai tai who is ignorant to the line drawn between herself and her toyboy, and for the personal interest of her family, shouldn't even be who she wanted to become in the first place.
Hello~ Wah so good life.
I think most of them go for the usual. facial, massage shopping etc. Or not pick up a hobby like exercise classes, or pick up a skill for fun? Baking , beauty classes , sports etc. When u go for classes during weekdays , sure will meet many other tai tai w common interest and plenty of free time
Hi! Why u say most of them? U a working mom or SAHM? My kid 8 months so I m full time caring for kid at home. Like 24 hours so can't leave house. I do facial myself, massage I have massage chair at my function hall, shopping I do ALOT of online shopping haha I also exercise and dance at home, im learning language too. I bake too. Weekends for my Husband & baby coz that's the only day he's free for family. Haha basically do everything liao
Haha thanks for Info. Indeed very interesting life of old tai tais. However I must say if I am, I'm a young one at that. Only close to 30. And my Husband is younger than me hence, I already have younger guy who ALSO, being home the money for me to spend and extremely "energetic" due to his age. Heard from my friends older man less energetic
Definitely at this point not lack in Husband attention as I keep myself very attractive. I'm just bored during the day that's all. Not looking for anything sexual coz very fulfilled Liao.
I think you're looking for old tai tais. Wait out, the title might attract one. But I don't think old tai tais will come online..... u should join like those muscle man competition, there got alot of old rich man/woman looking for companions haha not joking
Actually from the way u put it, u not sure what's a tai tai and a sugar mummy.
For man, that's sugar daddy
I guess is more towards whether "i know what I want in life" tai tai and "clueless housefly aka 無頭蒼蠅" tai tai ba...
yeah most taitai i know are actually not that free. they commit a lot of time to their family, and what spare time they socialise for their husband's business or work for charities or NGO.
its kinda of a myth that taitai too bored and need toys
Errmm... most of the tai tai i know is artistic tai tai... morning bring children to school, go art studio paint then fetch children from school, lunch then bring them home... my art studio (used to paint there) got ang mo tai tai, chinese tai tai, Indian tai tai...
Even the richest tai tai i know, the house swimming pool is bigger than my 5 rm hdb also not so free like what u all say though....
I guess is more towards whether "i know what I want in life" tai tai and "clueless housefly aka 無頭蒼蠅" tai tai ba...
err... no need older generation to understand headless fly.. is more towards whether you are well verse in chinese...haha...What's "headless fly"? Sorry I'm not from older generation hence don't understand this word haha
Anyway I just feel that sometimes Singaporeans women take life too hard. Doesnt mean got free time means have to busy oneself and means no purpose in life. If some elite few of us are privileged enough to be given a free life by our husbands, we don't have to busy ourselves like crazy anymore as a choice in life.
From busy life, we chose to marry richer husbands, got it already, got free time and free life, free money, why need to be busy again? Haha then what's the point. And doesn't mean free people don't have purpose and doesn't mean they're not smart either, if not how to achieve this kind of life? Think before speaking my dear
And I see from your reply u have a lot of assumptions and you're not a tai tai. Guess your reply only reflects what u see, not knowing how tai tais actually feel becoz you're not. Maybe this thread not for u haha