ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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wati
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Pinky... the answer to your sakit pinggang is YES !
I pun dulu tot it was not normal cos i tot nak kena tunggu perut besar then baru sakit pinggang.. but i was wrong..! I punyer sakit pinggang start early too.. sampai sekarang..mcm nak mampos.. so the doctor told me to carry small pillow. Kalau kat kerja, letak bantal to support back.. pergi mana2 mesti bawak small pillow. I kalau dah baring terlentang..i ca't get up. Orang nk kena tolong support..cos pinggang mcm kena slip disc.. sakit dia..tuhan saja yg tahu...
Kaypo mode : So dah berapa lama you got married ? You must be so excited to be expecting your 1st child kan..
I pun dulu tot it was not normal cos i tot nak kena tunggu perut besar then baru sakit pinggang.. but i was wrong..! I punyer sakit pinggang start early too.. sampai sekarang..mcm nak mampos.. so the doctor told me to carry small pillow. Kalau kat kerja, letak bantal to support back.. pergi mana2 mesti bawak small pillow. I kalau dah baring terlentang..i ca't get up. Orang nk kena tolong support..cos pinggang mcm kena slip disc.. sakit dia..tuhan saja yg tahu...
Kaypo mode : So dah berapa lama you got married ? You must be so excited to be expecting your 1st child kan..
i've been married for 1 year 3 months...yes...very excited!!
pasal kita been trying for a baby for a few months..pastu bila uzur,sedih...then now bila i tell myself and hubby lets not be stress.....BINGO!!hit bullseye..ahahha
so betullah org kata jgn stress,nanti tk menjadi
pasal kita been trying for a baby for a few months..pastu bila uzur,sedih...then now bila i tell myself and hubby lets not be stress.....BINGO!!hit bullseye..ahahha
so betullah org kata jgn stress,nanti tk menjadi
wati
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Pinky.. good lah you berjaya.. hehehe...
So you belum jumpa doc pun ker.. Better go Poly first then mintak referral to SGH. Like that you get subsidy cos by now you dah boleh makan FOLIC Acid.
My 1st dotter is a 3 yr old gal. Now expecting my 2nd boy... me and HB both excited too. Maklumlah..my 4 cats are all female..so it's about time to have a boy for my HB as a fren.
So you belum jumpa doc pun ker.. Better go Poly first then mintak referral to SGH. Like that you get subsidy cos by now you dah boleh makan FOLIC Acid.
My 1st dotter is a 3 yr old gal. Now expecting my 2nd boy... me and HB both excited too. Maklumlah..my 4 cats are all female..so it's about time to have a boy for my HB as a fren.
ahahha.....
i da ada referral letter from GP..and i intend to go as private patient..company bayar...so make full use of it...
ahahah
first child...i tak kisah lah girl ke boy,asal sihat...even though i love girls...*imagine pink,pakai reben*
ok i pun nak siap2 balik...selamat aidil adha semua!!
mbbeekkkkkk
i da ada referral letter from GP..and i intend to go as private patient..company bayar...so make full use of it...
ahahah
first child...i tak kisah lah girl ke boy,asal sihat...even though i love girls...*imagine pink,pakai reben*
ok i pun nak siap2 balik...selamat aidil adha semua!!
mbbeekkkkkk
wati
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Ckp pasal AL.. besok and next Monday i cuti ok. Cos my mum not in Singapore.. So dun miss me..
Anyway, for the past 2 days the maid was down with flu. Tu kata dia. Aku tak nampak pun dia pegang tissue or sneezing all the way. She said she got flu and headache. Haiz..Bingit.. mcm alasan pun ada.
Anyway, for the past 2 days the maid was down with flu. Tu kata dia. Aku tak nampak pun dia pegang tissue or sneezing all the way. She said she got flu and headache. Haiz..Bingit.. mcm alasan pun ada.
wati
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These few days asyik EMO jer dia. That was on Tuesday when she was to help my mum cook.. dia ckp dia sakit. So i send her home to rest from 7pm. So told her to come over to my mum place early morning to help out. So on Hari Raya itself, she die die tak nak ikut jalan.. To me it's ok lah kalau dia tk nak ikut. Tapi bila kita keluar rumah, dia pakai baju cantik and follow us. Aku pun hairan tapi aku diam. At the 1st house she refuse to eat or drink. Then her face like not happy and looking sick. Aku suruh buat benda semua salah..so blur. So i got pissed off and told my sis to send her home. Abih dia became so emotional tau. Aku balik kul 6pm. She was in the room.. i assume she was sleeping. Then dah maghrib sampai nk isyak dia tak keluar bilik and her room is dark. So i tot she was still sleeping. Then aku went for dinner at my mum place at 8 plus, i knocked on her door. Dia tak tido.. i told her kenapa duduk dlm gelap.. then i tgk muka dia betul2, dia mcm baru habis nangis.. haiz.. aku boring seh. Cos i told her, kenapa... sakit apa... dia jawab "Takder apa-apa".. aku tanyer nak makan, dia ckp tak nak.. haiz.. menyampah aku dgn orang yg step merajuk.. Aku terus keluar rumah. This morning tgk muka dia, masih sakit. So called my mum to ask her to go home and eat medicine and rest. Cos if she is there at my mum place, kang jangkit si Maya plak.. haiz.
wati
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Hi Pinky..
Athlete, Maya dah baik tapi i rasa she did got it from either Maya or my sis. Tapi dia nie aku perasan dah selalu sakit. Selama dia kerja dah nak masuk 6 months, dah banyak habis kan panadol aku.. Asyik not feeling well.. abih dia ckp dia dah biasa makan jamu..so when my dad went to JKT, i kirim jamu yg selalu the maid minum.. haiz.. takder effect pun. Tetap lemah. Tetap layu. Naik menyampah tau i tgk muka dia. Ckp sikit nangis.
Athlete, Maya dah baik tapi i rasa she did got it from either Maya or my sis. Tapi dia nie aku perasan dah selalu sakit. Selama dia kerja dah nak masuk 6 months, dah banyak habis kan panadol aku.. Asyik not feeling well.. abih dia ckp dia dah biasa makan jamu..so when my dad went to JKT, i kirim jamu yg selalu the maid minum.. haiz.. takder effect pun. Tetap lemah. Tetap layu. Naik menyampah tau i tgk muka dia. Ckp sikit nangis.
wati
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And the best part was.. on Tuesday, my mum suruh i belikan the maid NITE LITE. Selama dia tido my house.. dia tak ckp pun dia takut gelap. Suddenly she complain to my mum and told my mum my house haunted. Cos she hear voices and terus tak boleh tido. Aku ckp, rumah aku even i can hear the neighbours talking..or washing.. I told my mum off.. sorry..to have nite lite, means i have to on the switch overnite for her. Not in my financial state now, i can't afford additional cost for electricity. Aku marah tau orang ckp rumah aku ada hantu.. dah berapa lama aku duduk rumah tu.. nothing per.
So, if the next time she brainwashed my mum and say that she need music to sleep, does it mean i have to buy a player and play those SPA music to make her relax ?! Siao kan.. so upset you know.
So, if the next time she brainwashed my mum and say that she need music to sleep, does it mean i have to buy a player and play those SPA music to make her relax ?! Siao kan.. so upset you know.
selamat pagi mbak mbak sekalian
aku keje la tapi busy this two days
cip
aku pantang bibik yg suker sakit sakit
pls la dorang sakit pi rest
then yg buat keje kau and mak kau
she is excused
kau monitor jer
this 3 days
kalau masih lembab layu
perangai mcm suar
consider counsellign with agent
tapi for me aku hantar balik agant ajer
u pay her salary u pay her levy
for her to rest is it?
aku keje la tapi busy this two days
cip
aku pantang bibik yg suker sakit sakit
pls la dorang sakit pi rest
then yg buat keje kau and mak kau
she is excused
kau monitor jer
this 3 days
kalau masih lembab layu
perangai mcm suar
consider counsellign with agent
tapi for me aku hantar balik agant ajer
u pay her salary u pay her levy
for her to rest is it?
wati
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Tapi ladies, am i over-reacting ? I mean dia nie i tgk suka 'peng' story jugak kadang2...
I use to be nice to her. But everytime i come home from werk she will show this kind of 'menyampah' face to me whenever i get home. So bila aku tegur, member baru mcm selamba senyum kambing ckp aku always thinking negative. Nanti at times, baik tau.. tanyer aku nak air apa.. nanti mood dia dtg, langsung tk tanyer..
I use to be nice to her. But everytime i come home from werk she will show this kind of 'menyampah' face to me whenever i get home. So bila aku tegur, member baru mcm selamba senyum kambing ckp aku always thinking negative. Nanti at times, baik tau.. tanyer aku nak air apa.. nanti mood dia dtg, langsung tk tanyer..
Tapi ladies, am i over-reacting ? I mean dia nie i tgk suka 'peng' story jugak kadang2...
no u not overreacting
dorang suker peng story
mintak belas kasihan pade yg sudi layan
ni my own personal experiance
bec of maid
me and my mum bad relations
walau ape pun dia org luar
dia sengaja depan aku lain story depan mak aku lain story
then i look like the bad guy
thats why i think cannot diamkan bec u dun know behind u ape story
haiz... lapar pulak perot
teringat lauk lauk semalam
no u not overreacting
dorang suker peng story
mintak belas kasihan pade yg sudi layan
ni my own personal experiance
bec of maid
me and my mum bad relations
walau ape pun dia org luar
dia sengaja depan aku lain story depan mak aku lain story
then i look like the bad guy
thats why i think cannot diamkan bec u dun know behind u ape story
haiz... lapar pulak perot
teringat lauk lauk semalam
In my opinion, maid is supposed to lessen our "workload", whatever that is.
If it comes to a point where ada helper, tapi "kerja" makin bertambah for whatever reason, then there's no point having one.
Plus, our homes are our sanctuary kan?
We should be happy to be home, instead of having to face a "muka menyampah" kat rumah.
But of cos, they're human too, sometime must give chances also.
But kena ada limit.
If it comes to a point where ada helper, tapi "kerja" makin bertambah for whatever reason, then there's no point having one.
Plus, our homes are our sanctuary kan?
We should be happy to be home, instead of having to face a "muka menyampah" kat rumah.
But of cos, they're human too, sometime must give chances also.
But kena ada limit.
ah aku sokong nora...
gd morning ladies...
cip...maid aku yg 1st suke main tu story --> sakit.....
aku balik rumah...mentang aku suruh baring...macam mayat dia baring pat hall...
kalau betul sakit tak cam gitulah....
kawan aku nie baru ambik maid dari IMH antar balik...
yg lagik satu....nak terjun...sebab employer rampas HP n ade 'affair'....
gd morning ladies...
cip...maid aku yg 1st suke main tu story --> sakit.....
aku balik rumah...mentang aku suruh baring...macam mayat dia baring pat hall...
kalau betul sakit tak cam gitulah....
kawan aku nie baru ambik maid dari IMH antar balik...
yg lagik satu....nak terjun...sebab employer rampas HP n ade 'affair'....
wati
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Hi Lina.. maid come back from IMH ? Aiyoh..
"bec of maid
me and my mum bad relations "
Nora, yes..pasal nite lite tu aku gaduh dgn my mum.
And now, aku dah nk beranak next year. Maya pun dia tak pandai jaga. Barang dia simpan, dia tak ingat mana dia letak. Aku really takut aku jadi giler.. Dia tanyer aku, nanti aku beranak, baby letak bilik dia.. Aik?! Aku ckp, no! Anak aku i will jaga and put in my room. You just focus on housework.
"maid is supposed to lessen our "workload", whatever that is."
Athlete, betul per.. nie dia suka citer to my mum, rumah dia kat kampong kecik lah, then dia kadang makan nasi sama kicap lah.. citer sedih. I think she know mak aku nie pemurah hati. Then that time, dia sedih..nangis2.. aku tanyer kenapa.. dia ckp makcik dia sakit and asked her to send money home.. aku dgr and ignore her. Tak kan aku nk offer advance money to her.
"bec of maid
me and my mum bad relations "
Nora, yes..pasal nite lite tu aku gaduh dgn my mum.
And now, aku dah nk beranak next year. Maya pun dia tak pandai jaga. Barang dia simpan, dia tak ingat mana dia letak. Aku really takut aku jadi giler.. Dia tanyer aku, nanti aku beranak, baby letak bilik dia.. Aik?! Aku ckp, no! Anak aku i will jaga and put in my room. You just focus on housework.
"maid is supposed to lessen our "workload", whatever that is."
Athlete, betul per.. nie dia suka citer to my mum, rumah dia kat kampong kecik lah, then dia kadang makan nasi sama kicap lah.. citer sedih. I think she know mak aku nie pemurah hati. Then that time, dia sedih..nangis2.. aku tanyer kenapa.. dia ckp makcik dia sakit and asked her to send money home.. aku dgr and ignore her. Tak kan aku nk offer advance money to her.
wati
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Aku really feel that this maid dah a few times brainwashed my mum. Just a few mths ago, mak aku punyer 'kelakar' tell me that she wants to give maid HP. Mana aku tak sakit jantung ? Aku tanyer kenapa.. mak aku ckp "The maid will buy her own prepaid card..just that she need hp.." I told my mum off.. aku ckp 'NO !!!!!'.
Aku really feel that this maid dah a few times brainwashed my mum. Just a few mths ago, mak aku punyer 'kelakar' tell me that she wants to give maid HP. Mana aku tak sakit jantung ? Aku tanyer kenapa.. mak aku ckp "The maid will buy her own prepaid card..just that she need hp.." I told my mum off.. aku ckp 'NO !!!!!'.
wow she has worked her charms to your mom ...
wow she has worked her charms to your mom ...
wati
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"wow she has worked her charms to your mom ..."
Yes Nora.. that was exactly how i feel ! Well.. i feel sorry for her.. aku tak akan termakan lah permainan dia nie...
"mimpi mimpi ni semuer tanda nak balik lah...
kagaen banget..." - Nie pun aku rasa betul.. sebab i think she think too much about her family tu sebab dia kerja pun EMO and affected.
Now, im not on talking terms with the maid.
Kalau suruh buat benda, aku boleh..kalau nak small talks.. i think boleh kirim salam..
Aku ckp sikit. madang nak nangis jer. Aku nie garang sangat ker.. baru tanyer dah kecut. Nie belum aku pekik mcm Lina tau..confirm terkencing.. (LOL)
Abih cerewet tau sekarang.. tak nak makan ayam. Dia ckp kalau dia makan ayam, badan dia gatal2.. dah kena ada ikan for her. Cos daging pun dia tak makan.. boleh gitu kengkawan...
Yes Nora.. that was exactly how i feel ! Well.. i feel sorry for her.. aku tak akan termakan lah permainan dia nie...
"mimpi mimpi ni semuer tanda nak balik lah...
kagaen banget..." - Nie pun aku rasa betul.. sebab i think she think too much about her family tu sebab dia kerja pun EMO and affected.
Now, im not on talking terms with the maid.
Kalau suruh buat benda, aku boleh..kalau nak small talks.. i think boleh kirim salam..
Aku ckp sikit. madang nak nangis jer. Aku nie garang sangat ker.. baru tanyer dah kecut. Nie belum aku pekik mcm Lina tau..confirm terkencing.. (LOL)
Abih cerewet tau sekarang.. tak nak makan ayam. Dia ckp kalau dia makan ayam, badan dia gatal2.. dah kena ada ikan for her. Cos daging pun dia tak makan.. boleh gitu kengkawan...