ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

"experts say pindah rumah is one of the biggest stress in life tau"

thankfully, moving house hasn't affected me so much.
for me its always work / family (esp in-laws) side.

SD,
maybe you need a break from work.
cos you tengah pindah, then still need to go to work, kan?
think you're just overwhelmed by it all.
 


cos you tengah pindah, then still need to go to work, kan?
think you're just overwhelmed by it all.

agree agree *pass peah one cup quarter sugar koi bubble tea*
 
Nora
flying kebab sedap! Yes Bonda it's halal.
Tapi a bit ex tho.

Thanks, tapi susah eh nak rest. I just istighfar aje lah. And think, ada orang lagi rabak drp aku, masih waras jugak.


Notty
Euwww...tu ah beng seh. haha red jeans are gross.
Yr BIL is a bit strange. hahahahaha... apa hal dgn that stupid FB wall? (hehehe sorry, tak pasal2 mengamok sendiri).

Athlete
Yeah I think so too. This move took place in the middle of a very busy october for me. I guess you're right. I'm Very overwhelmed. I told my colleague I wondered if my work would be lessened if I saw a shrink. And he replied, work won't be cut down, but my performance bonuses might. LOL. kelakar lah dorang ni. Dry humour.
 
Nora
Yeah, i still have to go to work.
It's maddening.
Tues morning pindah, Tues morning kena work
to submit reports.

I was a bit drama lah dgn my sis when
I had the worst reflux attack last Tues night.
I told her if I died, take care of my 2 kids well. (background : My baby tengah happily main2 tepi kita on the same bed). My sis was quite freaked out - she said, OMG kakak!!!

Entah lah, silap hari bulan, jangan aku masok imh sudah. Mintak lima posen dgn other visitors yang pergi course kat sana.
 
Notty... gua bukan Ah Lian oi.. gua budak grunch leh..pakai seluar cross colours, pakai T-Shirt baggy... Hehehe... Aku tak main lah "yo ah yo!"..
Tak sangka kakak notty boleh jogek cucuk-cucuk langit eh.. *lagu techno*
 
peah
mmg strange..konon dia head of the famili..now nak jadi planner pulak..aku tak nak comment ape2..dia sanggup sms me nie..suroh comment on his wall.
 
SD, kau jgn fikir bukan2.. tapikan.. i sometime say that to my HB. To ask him to pass my kids to my parents to take care.. nvr to his parents. Kalau dia hantar jugak to his parents, i will come back as pontianak and haunt him..hehehe
(Gila kan... astargfirullah)
 
cip
jgn ckp cucuk langit, zapin dan ronggeng pon aku lantak terus..hhaaha..

lu budak criss cross..yishun punya kapa??? hehehe..
 
"apa hal dgn that stupid FB wall?"

hah, i've never regretted deleting my Fb accnt.
although how can i get more pple to follow me on twitter eh?

SD,
Drastic measure, you can go to dr and get referral to psychologist.
That's what my mum did.
But honestly, I think you tak seteruk gitu.
*ahem like as if i'm a dr*
 
Notty.. kira kau nie mcm all-rounder ah..
Budak yishun? Tak lah..gua kira budak Jurong ah..

Athlete, actually during i preggy, i kena depression, so doc gave me surat to see psychiatrist. Tapi i prayed hard lah to HIM so that my mind will be at ease lah.. alhamdullilah, i tak payah pergi jumpa pun. I managed on my own.
 
cip
suma aku campur..ada bdk2 criss cross lepak pat northpoint..

cip, peah,
aku pon penah kena depression..kalau aku bilang ape aku nak buat..cfm aku kena dgn korang kat sini..hahaha..baik aku diam..hehehe
 
Notty and wati,
korang reminisce zaman lampau per?
Keke... Mana pegi nye brands tu.
Dun forget chantal thomass bag and hunting world belt!

Wati,
smlm sarah gi dentist, dia tgk adam then ade sikit kecut.
But the dentist quite nice so after a while,
she managed to coax her to bukak mulut.
So far gigi ok, takde prob.
But gigi dorang takde gap,
dentist ckp in future mayb ade overcrowding.
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so kalo anak2 korang gigi ade gap its a good thing!

Peah,
u are the last person i expect to be having stress.
Not that u r inhuman la but kau kan motivational speaker pat sini.
Anyway, try to take things easy.
Having a schedule and small goals mite help.
Take care... Dun sweat the small stuff.
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speaking of time remaja (well, notty & wati were).
tomorrow i'm going to retrolicious concert.
leaving my boy with HB (not so bad cos he sleeps early).
thought of meeting up with my friends for dinner 1st.
but siang2 my hb dah cakap "eh, you mandikan baby dulu baru you pergi."
 
Notty... biasalah.. aku rasa aku tahu apa kau fikir.. aku pun fikir merepek meraban..yg diluar dugaan dan kepercayaan dgn agama kita. I manage to overcome it.. syukur.

Zu, alamak.. aku rasa anak aku sure kecut. Maybe i wait till she is 4 lah. For now, i will make sure she practice good hygiene. Nampak sangat Zu Ah Lian seh..

Eh, i nak tanyer.. do you gurau with HB ? I mean really gurau sampai dorang ketawa terbahak-bahak ? or is it the other way round ?
 
athlete
so lucky ur boy tido early
at least u da siapkan all then u keluar with peace of mind

hunting world .. heheh .. errmm sungguh bukan zaman aku
 
LOL. (laughing with tears rolling down. tak tau lah tears of happiness ke tears of despair)

Thanks for making me feel better, y'all.


Athlete
tak lah, insya-Allah i tak lah sampai gitu sekali. Anyway in my line of work, i selalu ada contact dgn psychologists. I know what to say to goreng them also. I studied psychology too. Macam merepek jugak if I were to see one, lol. Tapi kalau terpaksa, apa nak buat eh. But still,
I think I'll end up being their worse client. Maybe a psychiatrist would be better. Dorang boleh kasi i makan drugs (must make sure safe for breastfeeding tho)

Think our kawan2 tak suka sangat twitter lah. FB lagi happening.

Notty
Hugs. Great, you came out alright!
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Bonda
Bagus eh, at least you have such conversations with yr hubby. There was once, I told HB that adam wanted a new mother and dia marah i seh. But i pernah bilang dia, kalau you ada wife baru, for sure, dia takkan treat you as well as wife #1. Even if wife #1 garang giler pun, it will just be different - the garangness got purpose and was done with interest of the family at heart (hahaha alasann)

ZU
Apa nak buat. Motivational speaker pon sometimes have down days. Macam pensyarah tentang rumah tangga tu - akhirnya dia pun curang sendiri (hahaha cerita rahsia perkahwinan).

I agree with you - DON't sweat the small stuff.
kalau aku mati pun, apa orang kisah.

Clever sarah! Did you baring together with her on the dentist chair and get her to be propped on top of you?


Nora
Thanks. (strikes amateur yoga pose)
 
cip
laki aku takot nak gurau dgn aku, aku kan harimau..psl tu rumah aku dekat dgn ESSO!

biler aku gurau dia ingat aku serius, biler aku serius dia ingat aku gurau..begitulah kisah nye..
 
cip

kalau ketawa mesti dua dua ketawa lah
kalau satu ketawa terbahak bahak and the other one tak .. then....strange lei
 
Athlete, Retrolicious seh.. heheh.. have fun babe. your HB tak pandai mandikan boy you ker ?

Notty.. Hunting World wak lu.. gua budak hippies lah..i anti ah beng ah lian ah seng ah hui.
 
"Macam pensyarah tentang rumah tangga tu - akhirnya dia pun curang sendiri (hahaha cerita rahsia perkahwinan)."

WHOA!!! there goes sifat ingin tau yer lampu blink blink blink..


"biler aku gurau dia ingat aku serius, biler aku serius dia ingat aku gurau..begitulah kisah nye.."

asisehmannn...
 
Ehem... Ah lian plak. Jauh tu.
Aku decent innocence. Ingat lagu the return to innocence?
Hahaha...

Kalo kau dun mind the distance can bring her to HPB also.
Nora rossi yg recommend aku tmpt tu.
Its cheap also, only $9!
Kalo tmpt luar $40 tau.
Kasi experience kalo da big takut plak nak go dentist.

Gurau2-
we both does that. But aku rasa apek more humorous la.
He has to... Kalo tak mcmne muka dia nak maintain muda
and rambut nak maintain hitam! Wakakaka...
 
Peah,
yes, had to.. Dia baring but melorot...
So just propped her on my body.
After tat she puji diri sendiri. "im not scared rite!"

oh tat citer...
Ya lah. So contradicting.
Guess tats life!
 
Nora.
si richard gere ni makin tua makin hansem!
walopun rambut da putih.
Apek aku plak opposite. Rambut da putih,
hari2 dia diri dpn cermin gi gunting.
 
u mean my hub dah ada rambot cam richard gere..? amacam kau leh nampak???? aku tak nampak pon?? jeng jeng jeng..


whopppsiiii .. aku refer to my hb .. hehehh

note to self:
malam ni kunci gate and pasang those chains around gate
takott notty datang serang
 
seafood gathering kena tengok cip

aging gracefully is the best thing that can happen to a person u know
u seen recent pictures of kelly mcgilis
u remember how hawt she was in top gun
 
"aging gracefully is the best thing that can happen to a person u know"

and men seem to age better then women, i think.
 
zu

ye ler
cite tom cruise,
nail kapatebang naik moto
kelly mcgilis heroine la
with sexily touseled hair

sekarang kau compare tom crusie ngan kelly macgilis
jaaaauuuuuuh berbeza ....

i think for guys as long as perot tak jalan dulu they are ok already

kite pompan, with gravity and all.. hard to say ler...
 
you know ron howard and renee russo?
i read somewhere that they were both classmates.
(don't ask me how i can remember this!)
but renee looks sooo much better and younger than him.
 
ron howard bec dia young dah look run down
thinning hair and kurus
good thing he decided to work behind the camera

renee russo - oh sexayyy
think thomas crown affair
 
I baru kena appraisal..
So far no bad comment from my manager. I asked for pay increment, he said very hard to get. Told him aku kerja dah 3 tahun pun tak bleh naik ker ? Dia ckp very hard. So i said, ok. After maternity i will quit. Manager aku terus stunned.
 
After maternity i will quit. Manager aku terus stunned.

clap clap clap

now they cant terminate u bec u preggy senang kau pi MOM report
 


Nora.. aku sebenarnya bukan nak threaten.. this manager is nice. Cos aku punyer supervisor dah ckp dgn dia siang2 yg kalau gaji kita tak naik we might consider quiting.. so he ketawa.. dia ckp rubbish. So bila aku ckp sendiri dat i might quit to find better prospect, dia diam.. Between me and manager no secret.. cos he asked me berapa aku earn and HB earn.. then he kira2.. then he was shocked. He asked me "How you survived?!" I told him. Sebab aku hidup simple lah aku boleh survive. Aku dun buy things for myself. Only buy necessary. To me, movie and taxi rides are considered luxury. So dia said "I will try to talk to the director" Kalau takder then he is sorry.. aku ckp, dun be sorry. I will be fine. Maybe this company will act as a stepping stone for me to get better pay.
 
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