ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

morning people... hahaha..

My company will give me 1/2 day leave on Thurs, then i amik cuti Mon and Tues.. So i be back to office of Wednesday ! Yahoo...

So far, rumah i simple jer. My roman blind langsir tukar 5 tahun sekali.. yg menyerikan suasana adalah lampu kelap-kelip dan kuih-muih di atas meja.. tu saja.. ala kadar ler.

Today my colleague tak dtg, kesian dia. Semalam she called me nangis2.. she had a big fight with the hubby and laki dia terus pack kain baju lari rumah mak.. siao kan ! Dah my colleague stress.. dgn 8 mth old baby.. Raya nk dekat, laki pulak buat hal..
 


lerrr....laki lak buat hal...
stresslah lagik ngan baby...

i find that this year my block cume 1 orang pakai lap-lip...

dulu macam disco...

duit lettrik dah naik
 
lapu lap lip

mine on since ramadhan
my beighbours oso

only this yr my lampu kurang sikit
bec satu panel tu tak hiidup
that time the hb was travelling
so before dia balik and keluar kan harta karun dia
to fix it

i amik tangga panjat and turun kan some sections
dah bis cite
 
morning peeps!

baru habis plan/apply my leave for the rest of the year.
my co. also half day on thurs, and i'm taking the morning off also.
then 7 days in oct, which will leave me with 4 days annual leave left!
childcare pun dah habis....

lina,
i was just noticing yesterday also, that nowadays, tak banyak rumah pasang lap-lip.
compared to a few years back.
i thought pasal dah tak "trendy".
tak terpikir abt bill letrik pulak.
hehe.
 
Lina, tu lah. Padahal perkara kecik.. pasal my colleague asked her hubby to carry some stuffs, terus laki dia naik loktang and talked nonsense. Keep saying "Kau nak cerai sangat kan? Kau nak cerai sangat kan? Kau suruh mak bapak kau datg jumpa mak bapak aku lah !" Hubby dia nie memang temperamental.
Poor thing you know my fren, lagi berapa hari nak raya. Siao ah..

Lampu lap lip.. I pasang time ramadhan, then on bila i kat rumah at night. Kalau nak masuk tido, i off lampu kelap-kelip.
 
wati...
ahhh perkara kecik jgn diperbesarkan
perkara besar jgn diperkecilkan

teringat si ustaz nie share story..
pasangan nie bercerai pasal langsir!

LAP-LIP..
i memang tak pasang nie lap lip..
but my father nie semangat...dia beli tu lampu basikal...dia taruk dalam bilik my anak...
dah jadik lampu lap lip... red karer u know
 
memang takder mood nak keje this week.. plak tu ni kampeni nama jer international tapi managed by local, haf day pon tarak, apa pon tarak
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my leave kena reserve for my helper nak balik kg 2nd week raya.. so i will take 2 weeks cuti 2 weeks from now. raya pon dah basi... kwang kwang


lampu lap lip
baru pasang last week, i ON from maghrib sampai subuh.. my estate i think cuma 2 rumah jer pasang lampu lap lip.. jadilah, nampak jugak rumah nak sambut raya.
 
Wati, alamak apa sey yr fren dapat laki cam tu.. macam budak budak nak involve mak-bapak, abis tu lelaki pack baju balik rumah parents pas tu suruh the wife's parents meet his parents?! takder buah ke??!! ni marah ni! pantang sey i dengar kes kes dayus cam ni.. telinga panas!
 
sabar nor...u posa...
i tak posa tak per hihiihhi

errrr...mat kental buah laici oopsss

kadang2..the root cause bukan pasal tu...maybe pasal lain tak...cume the laki gunakan itu sebagai sebab\chance yg sememangnya tak munsabah...

they say the 1st 5 years ..itulah masa 'genting'...
 
Nora/Lina,

Tu lah.. i think it's more than pasal angkat barang. I think it's pent-up anger.. Entahlah. Now pasal laki dia, she tak dtg kerja. Aku jugak kena cover.. aku lagi tgh takder mood nak kerja... dah mood holiday ler.. heheh.. mudah-mudahan, laki dia dapat cool down and realised that he over-exaggerated the whole situation..

Wah, raya nie mesti rumah my colleague drama..
 
the laki nyer parents shld 'perambat' the anak hihihihi

kalau parents\ILs yg berat sebelah lagik manyak susah worrrr

well ur fren can also pack her bags...TAPI GI RUMAH PARENTS LAKI TU hihiihih
 
me too no mood to work...
Wed da start cuti...till next wed baru back to work....
last week 1 whole week cuti...
I shud have con;t my leave
 
Lina/Nor... tu lah. I pun hairan, apa punyer jantan eh, suruh mak bapak pompan dtg jumpa parents dia.. kelakar kan.. abih mcm kedi, gie lari rumah mak. Tapi according to my collegue, dulu sebelum kahwin, he is nvr close to his mom.. tapi semenjak dah kahwin, mak dia called him everyday.. and sometimes, becos mak dia mengadu sunyi or boring, he will be so defensive of her tau.. so she suspect kuat mak dia ada teach him those stuffs like "Isteri kena dgr cakap suami.. tak boleh melawan.. blah blah.."

Lina, 1st 5 years is genting..? Hmm.. patutlah.. aku punyer own drama pun banyak.. LOL. Nasib baik gua terror tepis.
 
lina

aku pun tak posa

semalam pegi pasar. but org belum ramai
and ayam dah mahal.. kecik yer dah $8
yg big $12
daun ketupat pun takde at paris
pegi pasar bedok ade satu stall jer yg jual
 
Hi Mas.. best nyer cuti panjang.. syiok ah.

Next Monday i cuti, but sending my cat to sunat. Asyik mengigau time malam.. neighbour sampai bingits.. hehehe.

Lina/Nor, i pun tak puasa dari 1st day ramadhan.. Tak kuat lah..
 
lina, puasa puasa jugak.. hot hot jugak.. darah naik ah dgr kes gini. i mean, sebagai tunggak keluarga must be more rational lah, set good example, bimbing keluarga. ada masalah boleh bincang per, kalau gaduh biasa ah, tapi kalau babit mak bapak kira cam pompuan ah.
memang kita tak tau silap the couple, but as a man, tak gentleman ah kalau pack and go - thats more of a girl thing. k lah nuff said, i berbual pon macam kenal dorang tu..

pasar
i declare i tak yah pi pasar cos my sis amik cuti and she volunteer pi pasar ngan my mom.. i cuma tolak sen ajer and masak on malam raya pasal my sis part masak ada off sikit, part makan dia ON
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Isteri kena dgr cakap suami.. tak boleh melawan.. blah blah.."


da macam drama Gerimis Di Hati


Err..aku pun tak puasa...
Tapi Insyallah Besok aku da start balik..
 
wati...perkara sebesar mane pon..tapi if suami isteri work together ...inshaAllah...not easy but it is still possible...

tu bukan aku cakap tau...'the 5 years'...the kaunselor cakap...
 
yes lina

yes lina
lepas pasar semalam
aku zoom ntuc nak tengok ayam yer stock
haiz.. bukan setakat ayam.. BULU ayam pun takde
bersih tempat ayam tu
 
Nor/Lina/Nora/Mas,

Tapi this guy memang susah nk ajak berunding. He is very straightforward tau. Dorang nie belum dpt own house, so staying with my colleague parents. Itu pun he tak respect her parents tau. Kalau laki dia ada rumah, my colleague parents or anybody else cannot touch the baby. He always sindir kalau orang nak pegang2 anak dia. To him, if he is at home, it's his playtime with his daughter. Pada i ok, cuma being rude to in-laws dah merepek lagi2 kalau dia menompang.

Semalam i mimpi makan Beef Fried Rice.. shld i go get it later today ?
 
arghh....
im so annoyed dgn my mom!
dah lah i dah take leave sanagt, she can call and ask me to take leave on thurs cos she say she and bibik nak masak, then tak boleh jaga my boy??!!

i already told her that thurs is the only day that i have free to go do my hair, cos co. kasi half day!

she's sooo irritating!!

sorry, i've been having issues with my mom abt "perjagaan" my boy ni.
kesian my boy!
 
yey, ada orang kat sini.
kerja bnyak but i seriously takde mood,
jadi at least can chat here a bit while clearing paperwork.

Mas
Eh banyak tu cuti. I pun ada around there. After maternity leave I cleared last yr's leave sampai licin..if not, i have even more days! Syukur...

Wati
alamak, some men ahhh, very horrible one. Tapi eh i think yr colleague dah stress & tak leh tahan, coz it's really the last resort to run away. Seterok2 mana pun, I rasa I won't run away. Why should I if I wasn't in the wrong?

Nora, Lina
Biar betik seh ayam $12. Ayam kampung pun satu ekor baru $7.50. Ni ayam organic drp kampong kat mersing ke?
 
Peah, bukan my fren yg lari rumah.. Laki dia sendiri yg pack his bag and run to hide bawah ketiak mak dia...
 
cip

tu name yer attitude.. menyampah pulak

i have a fren yg her mom look after her kid
while she is at work

but hb dia attitude seh
always comment cara mak dia handle baby is kasar and not rite
i find his attitude very kurang ajar
 
peah

ni ayam organic and virgin gak yer .. hehehhe


athlete
this happen to me 2 raye ago
i had a bad perm
so on the petang raye itself i tengok pukul 6
my mum cam dah siap masak majority lauk

so i cakap i suruh bibik kemas dapo
and my mum tolong tengok kan my boy
i nak go straighten my hair

i pegi
tapi if looks cld kill .. hehehe
i balik my mum tak cakap ape ape
tengok i and jeling... haiz..

for me petang raye MUST amik leave
bec mak nak masak and sure very high strung yer
 
Bonda
Ohhhh, okie i dah re-baca. bagus lah, biar lelaki tu masok bawah ketiak mak dia. nanti bila dia dah come to his senses, biar dia sedar betapa sissy-nya dia... lol.

Athlete
Haizz...I totally understand what youre going thru. I had similar issues last time too sebelum Adam pergi sekolah. Ni pun my mom boring coz today petang I can't work from home. She really has a lot of work to do tho, I understand. I feel bad lah. Tapi Wed & Thursday, I'll be at home.

Can't yr sister or someone help ? Stress kan.
 
wati,
thurs morning i ambik off cos need to run some errands.
and leceh lah, if i bring my boy.
worse come to worse, yah, i'll do my hair on wed nite, then drag my boy all around town while i do my errands on thurs morning.

i don't underatnd why nak masak tak boleh jaga budak? *sorry eh, i tak tahu masak, so don't know the "process"*
its not like he's a baby kena dukung aje...
the most just bukak playhouse disney, dia diam je apa...
 
nora,
"if looks could kill"
i memang kenal betul that look!

SD,
my sis cannot take leave.
but, yalah, what to do, i just have to change my plans around.
proof that i can be flexible...
 
athlete

for my boy
memang tak tau dok diam
and my mum is perpetually high strung

so i memang takmo my boy distract her
senang cakap i just take him out of the equation of things for her to worry abt
 
Wati, kalau dah rasa nak makan tu better buy, kesian nanti kalau raya kedai tutup takut kempunan nanti.. nanti baby you ngeces pasal mami dia tak dapat beef fried rice! heheheh!

athlete, cool babe, nanti rambut tak jadi.. you pegi salon mana eh? i used to frequent this salon Miqradun at Bukit Batok but skarang dah tak kuasa lah time nak raya ni esp punyer ramai customers.. tunggu berejam even if with appt.

Ayam

mekkk! saham ayam dah naik!!

smalam i beli isi ayam 1 kg $8, buat satay goreng.. Alhamdulillah sukses! selalu i beli daging satay kambing dah siap marinate, but they dun sell satay ayam. my kids kalau makan satay kambing asyik terselit kat gigi so i thot i make on my own.
 
Athlete, oh you ada some errands to run. Well sometimes it's like that. Tapi kan kalau mak-mak kita dah start masak, sure mcm stress tau. My mum kalau muka dah semacam jer, kita adik-beradik semua buat bodoh.. cos she become pontianak already. Ckp pekik2, then takder patience..kita tanyer sikit marah.. I always give the benfit of doubt that they are going thru menopause.. hehehe
 
"Tapi kan kalau mak-mak kita dah start masak, sure mcm stress tau. My mum kalau muka dah semacam jer, kita adik-beradik semua buat bodoh.. cos she become pontianak already. Ckp pekik2, then takder patience..kita tanyer sikit marah.."


cip

situasi same lah mak aku
cume kite tak panggil pontianak

kita panggil TRANFORMERS!!!

a few yrs back my mum sakit kite order org masak for raye

since she got her health back Alhamdullilah
she nak masak
bec she say yg order org tu dia tengok anak anak dia makan
dia rase sedih
 
"dia sedar betapa sissy-nya dia... lol."

I pun *click* LIKE .. hehehe

Nor, pandai yer buat satay..slurp. So i shall get my beef fried rice at Sakura Thai at Jurong Pt.

These few days, noticed that my skin is dry and horrible. So will moisturise heavily over these few nights.. hopefully i dun look like hantu di pagi raya..
 
Nor
'ngeces' tu hapa eh?

Wow, satay ayam? what marinade did you use? Maybe I can try that if I were to have an open house for some relatives at my new place.

Athlete
Worse come to worse, heret aje lah anak you. What to do. i guess our moms feel, kalau ada budak, susah nak masak. nanti nak susu lah, nak tido lah. or kacau time tengah potong sayur ke. I guess they want 100% attention on their cooking. Hahaaa.

Bonda
my mom is the very assertive sort.Entah kenapa eh I ni pun jarang lawan balik type. But i can be assertive when it comes to my hubby, lol. Jadi bila my mom bising, I tend to give in. After all I think I owe her big time for quitting her job to take care of my 2 kids.


Ni hari raya, berapa patut kasi mak bapak eh?
As we grow older, we earn more, tapi commitments pun lebih...sighs... wish I cud give my parents bonus ke..
 
jgn cakap menopause, my mum ni high-strung and ada history depression tau.
dia kalau dah "up" i think pontianak pun kalah, jadi kuntilanak agaknya.
when i was younger, our fights, semua macam epic battles.
now, dah tua sikit, things between us are better.

sigh, bertambah takde mood nak kerja...

ingat during lunch nak singgah geylang sekejap...
 
"my mum ni high-strung and ada history depression tau."


OMG same seh my mum
she went thru depresseion when my dad re-marry

so Insya'Allah i try my bestest to give in to her la
like Peah cakap.. she did alot for me too
 
athlete
Nak beli apa?
I nak gi tukar $ ah lunchtime.
And maybe buy a nice pair of heels.
Takkan nak pakai crocs dgn baju kurong.
 
kelakar korang kuntilanak semua keluar...
my late mom lak...dia suke masak sendirik...

so my kerja juz kopek2..my father potong tu cili kering n jaga ketupat ...

ngeces tu air liuh meleleh kan
 


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