ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Peah, Adam tendang your 2nd child ? Ganas eh.. mcm gini nak kena monitor 24/7. But i guess Maya is welcoming the 2nd one smoothly. Everday she look at my tummy(Padahal 3 bulan tak nampak apa2, cuma tu babat aku jer).. she will say simple things like "Hello Baby" "Baby minum milk?" then sings "ABC.." tu jer.. And i keep telling her, baby dah keluar, nanti Maya must tolong jaga ok.. kalau baby nangis, Kakak just sing song or claps hands or chit chat with baby.. Mummy kan sibuk kat dapur... Then she ask.."Oh,buat baby milk in the kitchen?" Then now slowly tells her that she must share her toys. Muka dia terus cramp.. hahah..

Abt being old and getting married and preggy..biasalah.. jodoh masing2. I nie dah 30 tahun, tapi mengandung number 2 mcm terasa im carrying triplets in a 50 yrs old body seh.. pas tu malas dia semacam.. then i terfikir, kalau nk number 3 mesti cepat-cepat, nak tunggu lagi 2-3 tahun, confirm i mcm 100 yrs old.
 


i baru bangun.. mata masih ngantuk.. kalau kat umah dah tarik selimut lagi ni..


Dan
zakat for maid wajib that the husband bayar if she is married. for non-married ones, she has to pay for herself. employers like us can pay for her but we have to ask for her permission first. Or alternatively we can help to pay for her but must also inform her to niat before making the payment.
source: read in MUIS webby.


Wati, butter cookies sounds so sedap!
i nak datang beraya boleh?


Almiralty akan ada earthquake?? nasib baik I jauh sikit.. mungkan tak terasa gegarannya.. heheheh!
 
hello sumer!

zakat fitra i da bayar. every yr stop pat geylang,
mesti kene singgah pat arqam bayar... takot last min terlupa.
hehe... biasa la aku ni kan slalu lost count of dates. :p

i tink kalo anak pompuan tipon mak ok la.
tp kalo mak tipon anak laki hari2 tu yg tk suka...
and at times kol setakat tanye da makan blom?
mcm la aku nak dera anak dia tak kasi makan. haiz....
then kalo pegi holiday pun nak tipon hari2.
alasan nye takut budak2 serasi ke tak, ok ke tak?
i mean, hello, we r the parents okie, tak serasi dgn kite
then serasi dgn atuk nenek dia ke!?
ok, saja carik kesempatan nak complain.

on a lighter note, its friday!
 
bik,
adam pun dulu mcm maya. sayang dgn baby dlm perot
skalo baby pop out, habis...
skrg pun kalo main asyik nk gaduh jer
then si sarah ni pun tk padan kerinting, suka bully abg dia
da la si abg nie cengeng, hari2 mesti nak menyakat.
tak gaduh, tak sakat... mcm tak sah. mcm dorang nye SOP*
*bukan sop eh, its standard order protocol*
 
Nor, boleh dtg.. tapi rumah i nie very the small... Maya mesti happy cos ada kawan.

Zu, masa aku baru-baru kahwin, mak hubby aku pun gitu lah. Tiap-tiap time dinner, mesti call tanyer anak dia, "Bini kau masak apa?" Nasib baik hubby ku nie creative.. dia pun menjawab "Sambal Tumis Telor, Ayam Goreng, Sayur Kangkong.." (Padahal McDonalds).. then mak dia boleh tambah "Sedap tak?".. Hubby ku pun menjawab "Mestilah sedap, isteri yg masak".. LOL. But i think my hubby pun ada bingitz dgn mak dia at one point. Sampai sometime, we go short trip, he die-die tak nak inform his parents. I told him to just inform, takut anything happen.. he say "Tak payah lah.. leceh"
So from then onwards, i also nvr bother to remind him to call to update his parents.
 
Alamak Zu... haiz.. mintak-mintak.. Maya keep her promise to sayang adik lah. Aku nie mana boleh stress sangat, nanti rambut gugur ! Hahah.. Baik-baik aku tak jadi tarzan, habis rumah aku ada tarzan malaya nanti.


Dan, mcm mana nak main ?
 
Wati
Adam ni memang terror. Dia macam budak kampung (haha no offence, tapi i rasa dia patut tinggal kampung where he can roam free all day long).
He kicks his adik and recently, angkat!!! Jauh pulak tu, for about 2 -3 mtrs & Aifah suka sangat. She'll smile her gummy smile when Adam puts her down on the floor. Aku yang heart attack.

Yeah it's true pregnancy takes a toll on our bodies as we grow older. I felt less tired when I was carrying Adam at 27 yrs old, compared to when I was carrying Aifah at 29. Now I'm just enjoying Aifah as much as possible before I consider having a 3rd one. tengok lah sejauh mana my hubby co-operates in child care. & of course, tengok finances jugak.

U can buy /borrow books to prepare maya too
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Zu
Rant over, nak log out ke?
 
peah,
almost time to fetch adam from skool
kesian sarah each time nk amik abg kene kejut dia

bik,
at least da kurang, mine still like dat but nt so frequent la
maybe cos ade sekali tu kite pat oversea they kol, aku trus naik loktang
ape ke tidak, da smp, i suruh dia kol and inform.
pas tu dah la, mlm and morning after pun kol lagi... haiz!
 
bik,
gals and boys diff...
boy mana nk jaga adik2 dorang.
kesian tau sarah, kadang aku bwk dia pi swim,
dia dok tepi steps main sorang. whereas adam w his cousins
tp kalo just two of em, he will play with her.
luckily sarah nie extrovert, she cn easily make frens.
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Wati
cepat lah reply Dan. Dia tengah sedih tu....ehhehe.. (sekali tu aku pun dah kena delete tapi tak perasan).


Zu
alamak, kesiannye sarah...tapi dia so cute lah with her curls & innocent face.
Look forward to more pics of her come december..(coz you always have playdates)
 
helooo..
just came back from bishan ntuc, beli bahan nak masak sabsuka this weekend.

haiz, i'm one of those "late" bloomers
preg with my boy at 34!
and it was quite a difficult pregnancy that i'm not thinking of having anymore...
 
Dan dan yg lain2.. jangan marah kalau i delete you all from FB. Cos i nie kan ada abit of low self-esteem which i can't control.. ada some family members punyer posting i tak bleh angkatz..cos they are so dear to me.. but so boros.. i looked at my life as a failure. Kadang2 i cry to my hubby. Kesian laki aku tak bersalah.. he feels shitty when i cry.. padahal my life was ok before FB comes. So daripada aku delete that particular group of people, might as well i delete everybody. So harap2 no hard feelings ok..i memang niat nak close FB acct. Very addictive.

Zu, i guess boys will be boys eh...

Peah, nasib baik tak jatuh baby gal you. But i guess, kids suka buat kerja adult.. they think they can do it, tapi pada kita memang boleh sakit jantung heart attack.

I remember my neighbour punya son. He is 3 yrs at that time. Mati-mati nak bukak pintu rumah dgn kunci. Then i tgk lah mana parents dia.. Rupanya this boy suruh parents dia tunggu dekat daerah lift. He die-die nak buat sendiri. Pada dia, if the parents can do it, he also can do it. Sama dgn angkat kotak berat, budak nie pun tried to carry, but bila tak bleh angkat, dia mengamok sendiri. For me, i will at least let Maya try once. Kalau dia jatuh or fail, i will let her have a taste of it.
 
Bonda
jadi apa guna yr FB a/c now?
takpelah, buat apa yang buat you rasa gembira
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btw, semalam adam hilang kat pasar geylang. for a whole 2 minutes, I felt my body turn cold. Terdengar suara budak kecik panggil, "IBU!" but I just couldn't find him! syukur someone brought him to me, holding his hand with him crying like crazy.
 
athlete
kita serupa...

bonda
kalau camtu tak mengapa....i understand...

my gal pon sama lah...act cam dah besau..
makan suap sendiri...
bila mengamok...semua dia campak..
 
Peah, marah ker.. FB tu sajer jer kat situ. Kalau ada orang leave message nk ajak i gie jemputan ker or tag me, i can still receive.. Just that if i delete, that particular person, nanti dia nampak my friends list masih ramai yg lain.. dah dia terasa plak.. so better this way.

Anyway, korang bleh carik aku kat sini, kat FB stil bleh hantar msg, then saper ada my hp bleh passing2 kalau ada yg carik.. Wa no hal punyer babes.
 
Dan.. aku tgh nak delete sumer orang.. hehehe.. belum sampai Lina Bidadari lagi.. .. jgn jeles..
semua orang akan ku delete... Hahahahah

It was a hard decision for me. But i have to do it. These few days i feel so much better without FB. Im seriously like addicted to FB tau. Iphone kan boleh check FB, so the moment i celik jer, i grab hp to check on FB. Then kat kerja pun asyik dgn FB. Susah man..
 
wati, eh rumah kecik ke rumah besar does it matter as long as you tak menyusahkan orang right?
ni semua rezeki masing-masing.
my girls would be happy to have a playmate too.
you bring Maya to my place too ok
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FB
i see a lot of nice and not so nice things going on in FB.. good in a way that old frens really get to get in touch after so many years tak jumpa.
status updates
kadang it can be a good thing too in the sense you kinda know how your frens are doing, what they've been up to etc. the bad part comes when orang suka use the status updates to sindir frens in fb. otherwise its also our words which are being misinterpret.

i pon macam dilema nak close acc or not. now i try to shut off ppl who are pretending to be frens but blakang kita they stab our back. life seems more peaceful when you ignore these "noises"
guess FB has its perks and sucky parts, i am still holding on, but see lah how things go along.
 
i ingat nak buat crepes then spread nutella and sliced banana. my helper smalam beli pisang, i ingat dia nak buat jemput2 pisang.. so kira settle ah.

athlete, smalam i goreng nasi goreng sambal blach.. bau blach power, baru beli last wkn fresh punyer
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Athlete, btw you tak look 34 seh..im serious. you look way much younger.

Nor, ya lor.. ada upz and down for FB.

Berbuka eh ? Hmm.. depend on the chef kat rumah tu. Perut ni tak berapa bagus lah. So i anything..

Btw, i nak tanyer, saper kat sini have bloated stomach.. bukan tummy tau, bloated stomach. I mcm nak pergi doc pun ada bcos, i have this bloated stomach right after i give birth to Maya. Then on and off, having stomach cramps tak tentu pasal. I takut mcm ada penyakit gitu.

Now that im pregnant only 3 months pregnant, but i look like 6 months tau. And i rasa my perut keras semacam.. not the womb area, but above the womb.. i survey2 internet, seem like INDIGESTION. Just asking saper ada this situation.
 
wati, kadang-kadang bloated tummy tu angin stuck. i used to have difficulty to burp, macam nak kena paksa baru angin keluar. then i tried taking this Actal (from pharmacy) and it helps.
tapi since you preg, better check with your gynae.
 
Bloated nie smcm. I really feel something is wrong with me. My upper stomach betul punyer keras tau. Bila pengang mcm ada batu. Tu yg i takut. I pernah bilang my gynae, then he said tu bukan dept pregnancy, must refer me to digestive system punyer dept.
 
Wati,
Thanks for the compliment!

Btw, yes, maybe its angin.
But how come yr gynae taknak diagnose eh?
In that case, go to yr regular GP, explain yr condition and let him know you're preggy also.
So that he can prescribe you with meds safe for preggy.
But if you're still unsure, then bring the meds again to your Gynae to double check.
 
bik,
aku pun mcm tu time preggie. esp lepas makan.
aku ingat sebab aku makan pelahap... haha.
kalo da makan, aku duduk mcm tk kene. nak nafas pun mcm susah
until aku found a way... :p
aku diri straight, bukak kaki sikit, angkat tangan tinggi2 and kebas.
haha... jgn ketawa. it works tau. smp skrg.
kalo susah nak burp aku buat gitu. sedawa kuat. haha...

peah,
fb lama tak upload gmbr. malas pun ade.
privacy purpose pun ade. cos most kids pic i only set to myself n family
kgpun nw da jarang gi playdate, oleh sebab2 tertentu,
yg antara lain berpunca dari penutupan sementara fb tu.
*haha... takut org tertentu tau baca, pardon my powerful melayu.
 
athlete,
power kan! membesar baca berita harian tau.
dari pri skool, balik skola, mesti nak baca BH dulu.
skrg pat rmh takde BH, balik rmh mak, amik satu stack,
lepak one corner baca BH.
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nari buka ape?
smlm masak bolognaise tp tak makan.
balik rmh parents jgk carik nasi- daging masak kicap. :p
 
Zu, haha... mcm buat taichi jer.. apek kau ajar eh..

Ok..insyallah and hopefully it's angin. I really dun need any kind of sickness now.. Subhanallah.. jauh kan.
 
Sabsuka tu apa siak..

Anyway, i got the F1 info wrong. Actually the $1,288 is for 3 day pass. My mom got the sat tix. So i dah lelong on internet.. Dgn pantas ada buyer..
 
nor, you still around?

here's the one that i found:-
300gm mince meat
100-200gm mixed vegetable
2-3 large tomatoes, chopped
2 large onions, chopped
1 small can tomato puree
3-5 tbsp chilli paste, more if you like it spicy
1 tbsp meat curry
6 tbsp tomato ketchup
2 tbsp ginger paste
2 tbsp garlic paste
5 tbsp oil
salt to taste
4-5 large eggs
1 fresh red chilli, thinly sliced
1 fresh green chilli, thinly sliced
scallions and chinese parsley, finely chopped

Mix mince meat, garlic, ginger paste and curry powder and leave it to marinade for 20mins. Heat oil in the wok Add chilli paste and fry it till oil separates Add chopped onions and fry till it turns translucent. Add tomato puree, tomato ketchup, mince meat mixture and salt. Mix them well and let it simmer till the meat is cooked. Add chopped tomatoes, mixed vegetables, fresh chillies, scallions and parsley. Let it simmer and add a bit of water if the mixture gets too dry. Prepare a casserole dish, transfer cooked meat into the dish and pour eggs onto the meat mixture. Bake in the preheated oven for about 10minutes or until the eggs are cooked. Serve hot and eat it with bread or rice .
 
good monday morning everybody!

Thank you athlete.. baru nampak pagi ni the recipe.. takper Raya kedua or ketiga boleh masak ni
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morning morning...

nor,
my anak alhamdulillah dah baik...dia batuk n selsema...
tapi sakit sekarang meleret eh...esp the batuk...

lagipon dgn ngan maid blurness...aku terpaksa ambik tu sick leave....

WATY..
delete in FB acct tak per tapi jgn delete in ur 'friend list' hihihi...

$2..
kalau aku ade rezeki lebih memang aku kasi even to those yg tak kenal....
cume now practise to those datang rumah n if i gi rumah dorang...
kalau gi rumah dorang n i got no spare $2 n rakyat lak ramai...i will pass the moolah to the house owner for their kids...
my kids naik bus dapat duit raye from strangers hihiih....

nie belum gi pasar tau...selamat bertempur di medan pasar to me!
 
Hullo all...

alamak, very lemau at work today.
Walaupon my hari raya preps not much too.
won't be cleaning my house as much coz kita dah nak pindah anyway. Cuma clean apa2 yang perlu.
It's just the whole mood lah... seriously takde mood nak work..haiz..
 
morning morning

u cuti on thrusday and monday

monday tu nak rehat

hoping to cover majority this weekend

tapi jln raye ni tricky
kite nak visit then org tu pun keluar jalan raye
 

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