ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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nora, i have same storage prob too.. i had to build a wardrobe just for bags!
i know what you mean, sometimes these buyers are super cerewet and bargain macam beli ikan kat pasar.. just too much lah..
baju - i let go to my mom's kg before i moved in to my current place.
mira, yup very tempting.. esp that i am a bag-person!
i know what you mean, sometimes these buyers are super cerewet and bargain macam beli ikan kat pasar.. just too much lah..
baju - i let go to my mom's kg before i moved in to my current place.
mira, yup very tempting.. esp that i am a bag-person!
smalldreams
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Morning!
Lina
Wah, stylo gitu. You pun tompang MC sekalik? hahaha...
Morning Nor & Tania!
I'm in too.
Lina
Wah, stylo gitu. You pun tompang MC sekalik? hahaha...
Morning Nor & Tania!
I'm in too.
Hi pe'ah!
"Sapa sapa tahu mana nk cari cadar yg lawa lawa..."
Robinson's, Tang's, Taka & maybe JL
"nor, tempeh tu makanan kegemaran nora!"
ooooh baru makcik tau!! LOL!
later lunch time i nak terbang to MOM to collect my maid's work permit.. leceh jegak renew dorang nyer work contract eh.. best part is MOM is open only Mon-Fri.. nasib baik I chk, ingatkan nak pegi besok sesudah subuh!
"Sapa sapa tahu mana nk cari cadar yg lawa lawa..."
Robinson's, Tang's, Taka & maybe JL
"nor, tempeh tu makanan kegemaran nora!"
ooooh baru makcik tau!! LOL!
later lunch time i nak terbang to MOM to collect my maid's work permit.. leceh jegak renew dorang nyer work contract eh.. best part is MOM is open only Mon-Fri.. nasib baik I chk, ingatkan nak pegi besok sesudah subuh!
hmmph!
nak rant sekejap kat sini.
my hb is is going to iftar outside with his friends tonite. again.
i feel a bit resentful that he gets to do it several times, and I can't.
sorry...
k, rant over...
to a happier topic!
i found all my my boy's duit raya from last year!
so tak payah tukar duit this year.
nak rant sekejap kat sini.
my hb is is going to iftar outside with his friends tonite. again.
i feel a bit resentful that he gets to do it several times, and I can't.
sorry...
k, rant over...
to a happier topic!
i found all my my boy's duit raya from last year!
so tak payah tukar duit this year.
change of plans - lunch time takyah pi MOM, can collect work permit tmr 8-12pm. woohoo! boleh power nap!!
athlete, its a guy thing i guess.. for us memang rasa "bersalah" kalau keluar tak bawak anak. but i tell myself, i must stop having these thots, i have a life, i have girlfrens and we had our iftar out without the kids. we're all mothers and we all talked abt feeling "guilty" but agreed that everyone needs time out from the family/spouse at times.
duit raya
nak tanya, kalau you all pegi open house HR, then ada ramai kids from tamu yg tak dikenali, do you give duit raya? just a thot, cos these kids will go ard and salam everybody, segan kalau tak hulur!
athlete, its a guy thing i guess.. for us memang rasa "bersalah" kalau keluar tak bawak anak. but i tell myself, i must stop having these thots, i have a life, i have girlfrens and we had our iftar out without the kids. we're all mothers and we all talked abt feeling "guilty" but agreed that everyone needs time out from the family/spouse at times.
duit raya
nak tanya, kalau you all pegi open house HR, then ada ramai kids from tamu yg tak dikenali, do you give duit raya? just a thot, cos these kids will go ard and salam everybody, segan kalau tak hulur!
wati
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ye lah.. abih you action lah ckp you nak ikut. Kalau dia ckp tak boleh.. then you ckp, you bored.. Hahaha.. jahat aku eh.
For me lain plak. My hubby very family man. Kawan dia ajak lepak dia tak suka, then kalau nak keluar pun nanti he will ask them, "Wati dgn Maya aku bawak tau"
For me lain plak. My hubby very family man. Kawan dia ajak lepak dia tak suka, then kalau nak keluar pun nanti he will ask them, "Wati dgn Maya aku bawak tau"
nor,
yes, i'm the one always feeling guilty abt leaving my boy.
frankly speaking, i'd rather stay home with my boy then to go out with all his guy friends.
plus my boy ni susah sikit nak ajak keluar malam.
8pm dah cranky nak tidur.
re:duit raya.
i usually stand by packets of $2 for those kind of situation.
but usually, baru satu rumah dah habis.
so, rezeki budak2 kat situ.
the next house kalau ada, duit kita dah habis, nak buat apa?
yes, i'm the one always feeling guilty abt leaving my boy.
frankly speaking, i'd rather stay home with my boy then to go out with all his guy friends.
plus my boy ni susah sikit nak ajak keluar malam.
8pm dah cranky nak tidur.
re:duit raya.
i usually stand by packets of $2 for those kind of situation.
but usually, baru satu rumah dah habis.
so, rezeki budak2 kat situ.
the next house kalau ada, duit kita dah habis, nak buat apa?
wati
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Cadar pun nak tukar eh. heheh
Athlete, aku pun sama jugak. Maya and me inseparables. I nak gie mana-mana mesti bawak, kalau tak feel so guilty. End up i keep calling home and ask Maya buat apa.. etc etc. Pernah aku buat whole day event, my mum sampai call nangis. I tanyer what happen.. My mum ckp, anak kau keep asking "Mummy come home, Mummy come home" So my mum tgk dia mcm kesian.. dia yg melalak. I balik jer, my daughter terus mcm monyet. Cling to me the entire time.
Nak tanyer soalan. How often do you guys call your mum to chit chat abt anything?
Athlete, aku pun sama jugak. Maya and me inseparables. I nak gie mana-mana mesti bawak, kalau tak feel so guilty. End up i keep calling home and ask Maya buat apa.. etc etc. Pernah aku buat whole day event, my mum sampai call nangis. I tanyer what happen.. My mum ckp, anak kau keep asking "Mummy come home, Mummy come home" So my mum tgk dia mcm kesian.. dia yg melalak. I balik jer, my daughter terus mcm monyet. Cling to me the entire time.
Nak tanyer soalan. How often do you guys call your mum to chit chat abt anything?
smalldreams
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nor, athlete
talking abt duit raya, have you gals changed $ to new notes already?
I pun will have $2 notes for them. I mean, tak baik pulak tak kasi. Giving can bring about some happiness to the giver & receiver too. haha. Cuma this yr I budget habis coz I really have a lot of expenditure waiting. (rumah baru & all).
Oh ya, thanks for the lobang on kacang girls, my bro & my Tok dah pergi beli tadi. Yey!
talking abt duit raya, have you gals changed $ to new notes already?
I pun will have $2 notes for them. I mean, tak baik pulak tak kasi. Giving can bring about some happiness to the giver & receiver too. haha. Cuma this yr I budget habis coz I really have a lot of expenditure waiting. (rumah baru & all).
Oh ya, thanks for the lobang on kacang girls, my bro & my Tok dah pergi beli tadi. Yey!
Wati, i was like that when i only had Lis sorang. macam so kesian kalau tak bawak dia pergi mana-mana. but sometimes to go out and buy stuff i had to leave her so that i cepat pergi and cepat balik. some places are not kids-frenly lah.
duit raya
i recycle from my kids nyer duit raya so takyah tukar notes. i just transfer from my acc to theirs and take their cash to re-use.
dah 2 yrs i buat cam ni, to avoid the mad Q in the bank.
call mak
i call my mom at least once a week, kalau tak sibuk 2-3x a week, just to ask how she is, sihat tak, duit blanja cukup tak etc etc.
sometimes just a short one like tanya dia ok tak.
last time my late dad is the one always calling me, belum sempat nak call dia, dia dah call my hp, we also sms. he still keep my sms which i sent to him.. meleleh air mata bila i baca after he passed on.
duit raya
i recycle from my kids nyer duit raya so takyah tukar notes. i just transfer from my acc to theirs and take their cash to re-use.
dah 2 yrs i buat cam ni, to avoid the mad Q in the bank.
call mak
i call my mom at least once a week, kalau tak sibuk 2-3x a week, just to ask how she is, sihat tak, duit blanja cukup tak etc etc.
sometimes just a short one like tanya dia ok tak.
last time my late dad is the one always calling me, belum sempat nak call dia, dia dah call my hp, we also sms. he still keep my sms which i sent to him.. meleleh air mata bila i baca after he passed on.
wati
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Nor, sabar eh. I sajer jer tanyer soalan tu. Bcos for myself, everyday i will call my mum. Memang dari i start kerja gitu. Dia tempat i mengadu nasib lah. She knows all my story. No secrets between us. Benda kecik pun mesti i call her. My colleague, terperanjat when i told her that i called my mum everyday. Even when we are living together, i will call her. She finds it weird cos dia ckp, nanti balik kan jumpa mak kau kat rumah.. hehehe. My hubby pun sometime bising. Whenever im bored, i call my mum. Just to chit chat and tanyer dia buat apa. Kita pun sms non stop.
smalldreams
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Bonda
Sedapnye cookies tu, mesti Maya happy.
wah dia dah training nama dia "kakak" eh...
Sedapnye cookies tu, mesti Maya happy.
wah dia dah training nama dia "kakak" eh...
wati
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Dan, baik kau pakai botol yg quality mcm Corelle.
Peah, sebelum i preggy she dah call herself Kakak. I think my mum was the one who call her Kakak first, then terus melekat sampai sekarang. My mum is the one yg pressure i to have 2nd child. Cos dia ckp, beranak byk-byak and cepat-cepat..selagi aku masih kuat nak jaga. Nanti dah tua, kau yg susah.. boleh gitu eh.. So bila i preggy.. she was so ESTATIC !
Maid fitrah, from what i heard from radio warna was.. she got her pay, she should pay for herself.. or if she is married, she shld ask her hubby to pay for her.. Not we pay for her.
Peah, sebelum i preggy she dah call herself Kakak. I think my mum was the one who call her Kakak first, then terus melekat sampai sekarang. My mum is the one yg pressure i to have 2nd child. Cos dia ckp, beranak byk-byak and cepat-cepat..selagi aku masih kuat nak jaga. Nanti dah tua, kau yg susah.. boleh gitu eh.. So bila i preggy.. she was so ESTATIC !
Maid fitrah, from what i heard from radio warna was.. she got her pay, she should pay for herself.. or if she is married, she shld ask her hubby to pay for her.. Not we pay for her.
smalldreams
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Bonda
Bagus lah yr mom is very supportive.
My mom was also very happy when I announced I was preggy with #2. She said she was just abt to ask me, coz she wondered if I was not going to plan for #2 soon. Mak mak ni eh...
I pun psycho Adam that he was going to be a brother. So he kept repeating the mantra, "Adam nak jadi Abang!" Hahaha... tapi i rasa girls as kakak more responsible. Terok si Aifah kena tendang, picit etc dgn si Adam tau.
Dan
I would think her husband or herself shud be paying the fitrah. I mean, my employer doesn't pay for mine aper.
Bagus lah yr mom is very supportive.
My mom was also very happy when I announced I was preggy with #2. She said she was just abt to ask me, coz she wondered if I was not going to plan for #2 soon. Mak mak ni eh...
I pun psycho Adam that he was going to be a brother. So he kept repeating the mantra, "Adam nak jadi Abang!" Hahaha... tapi i rasa girls as kakak more responsible. Terok si Aifah kena tendang, picit etc dgn si Adam tau.
Dan
I would think her husband or herself shud be paying the fitrah. I mean, my employer doesn't pay for mine aper.
Thanks Bonda & Peah...
In dat case, i will tell my hb to pay dulu then deduct fr her salary...
Bonda
Betul tu yr mom said
beranak seberapa blh...nanti dah tuek dah tak larat...umur dah tinggi anak masih kecik2...
not to say to anybody eh....for example me...
nikah lambat
dapat anak lambat
sekarang alhamdullilah...stop at 3
In dat case, i will tell my hb to pay dulu then deduct fr her salary...
Bonda
Betul tu yr mom said
beranak seberapa blh...nanti dah tuek dah tak larat...umur dah tinggi anak masih kecik2...
not to say to anybody eh....for example me...
nikah lambat
dapat anak lambat
sekarang alhamdullilah...stop at 3