ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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nora,
malukan....n lagi bila kita say no...dia bleh purposely buat lagi...ishh gerammmm
malukan....n lagi bila kita say no...dia bleh purposely buat lagi...ishh gerammmm
cakap pasal jalan tangan, tangan akulah yg seringan kapas... sikit jer PANGGGGGG!!!!!!!
slalu kena marah ngan hubby... now just cubit & jentik telinga!
sampai mika phobia tau! aku angkat tangan in a certain way jer, dia cepat2 tutup telinga dia! hehehhehe... kesian anak aku!
hubby tak pernah jentik, tak pernah pukul.
marah, yes... but never jalan tangan...
he has his own set of ways of disciplining him, which, miraculously, works all the time.
Apa ilmu ntah dia pakai.....
slalu kena marah ngan hubby... now just cubit & jentik telinga!
sampai mika phobia tau! aku angkat tangan in a certain way jer, dia cepat2 tutup telinga dia! hehehhehe... kesian anak aku!
hubby tak pernah jentik, tak pernah pukul.
marah, yes... but never jalan tangan...
he has his own set of ways of disciplining him, which, miraculously, works all the time.
Apa ilmu ntah dia pakai.....
<font color="aa00aa">this is what i found out..just sharing with u gerls..
rice/hazelnut/soy milk can reduce hyperactivity..makes a child more calm and easier to settle the child down when he/she is throwing a tantrum.
experts recommended that a child below the age of two to not watch any tv at all as the fast change of images on tv cause a small child to be hyperactive and thinks that is the normal way in life to behave.
a child below the age of five should only watch a max. of 2 hours of tv a day.</font>
rice/hazelnut/soy milk can reduce hyperactivity..makes a child more calm and easier to settle the child down when he/she is throwing a tantrum.
experts recommended that a child below the age of two to not watch any tv at all as the fast change of images on tv cause a small child to be hyperactive and thinks that is the normal way in life to behave.
a child below the age of five should only watch a max. of 2 hours of tv a day.</font>
momma_naqi
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rice/hazelnut/soy milk can reduce hyperactivity..makes a child more calm and easier to settle the child down when he/she is throwing a tantrum.
hmmm Anak aku hari2 makan nasi....sama je....infact semangkin hari semanngkin throw tantrums
*experts recommended that a child below the age of two to not watch any tv at all as the fast change of images on tv cause a small child to be hyperactive and thinks that is the normal way in life to behave.
Then bangun je da cakap {watch Ney...- Watch Barney)..hmmmmm
hmmm Anak aku hari2 makan nasi....sama je....infact semangkin hari semanngkin throw tantrums
*experts recommended that a child below the age of two to not watch any tv at all as the fast change of images on tv cause a small child to be hyperactive and thinks that is the normal way in life to behave.
Then bangun je da cakap {watch Ney...- Watch Barney)..hmmmmm
at one time, i even thot my son siffering from ADHD tau... or autistic. coz, to a certain extent, mcm ada autism nyer... guess everyone has their own level of autism...
den again, budak kan....
mana kita nak? anak yg duduk diam, dat makes u wonder 'sakit ker anak aku? normal ke anak aku?' or anak yg hyper, but u noe dia sihat & normal...
den again, budak kan....
mana kita nak? anak yg duduk diam, dat makes u wonder 'sakit ker anak aku? normal ke anak aku?' or anak yg hyper, but u noe dia sihat & normal...
momma_naqi
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**cos he would know better about right and wrong as compared to tots less than 2 yrs old.
yup2 coz dia pun da understand more things....
yup2 coz dia pun da understand more things....
lynzi
now is better pasal he dah understand reason.. there are still moments tho
both me and hb dun believe in pukul, most to most we take his hand and tepok.. we make sure he knows that is a punishment for what wrong that he has done
sekarang he dah pandai merajok tau... dok sorang sorang one corner quitely...
now is better pasal he dah understand reason.. there are still moments tho
both me and hb dun believe in pukul, most to most we take his hand and tepok.. we make sure he knows that is a punishment for what wrong that he has done
sekarang he dah pandai merajok tau... dok sorang sorang one corner quitely...
<font color="0000ff">Quote *den again, budak kan....
mana kita nak? anak yg duduk diam, dat makes u wonder 'sakit ker anak aku? normal ke anak aku?' or anak yg hyper, but u noe dia sihat & normal...*
Shahlynn
betul betul betul... nama nya pun budak kan... klu dia duduk diam je, tak active.. kita jugak yg susah hati..! </font>
mana kita nak? anak yg duduk diam, dat makes u wonder 'sakit ker anak aku? normal ke anak aku?' or anak yg hyper, but u noe dia sihat & normal...*
Shahlynn
betul betul betul... nama nya pun budak kan... klu dia duduk diam je, tak active.. kita jugak yg susah hati..! </font>
eliza_hairi
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Good morning mummies!
Got frustrated biler nak gunting rambut Aafreen smlm... Anak aku nie tak berenti bebual! Sumer nak ikut ckp dier! Pasal sikat pun mak dgn anak leh bergaduh. Then i tel her to shut up, jgn bnyak mulut. Ni budak leh jawab balik..
"Apin tak bnyak mulut, apin banyak gigi!!"
Got frustrated biler nak gunting rambut Aafreen smlm... Anak aku nie tak berenti bebual! Sumer nak ikut ckp dier! Pasal sikat pun mak dgn anak leh bergaduh. Then i tel her to shut up, jgn bnyak mulut. Ni budak leh jawab balik..
"Apin tak bnyak mulut, apin banyak gigi!!"
{rice/hazelnut/soy milk can reduce hyperactivity..makes a child more calm and easier to settle the child down when he/she is throwing a tantrum.}
nope... doesnt work at all...
makin makan nasi = makin banyak energy = makin hyper
basically 'experts' only does research on majority... but cant apply to all...
nope... doesnt work at all...
makin makan nasi = makin banyak energy = makin hyper
basically 'experts' only does research on majority... but cant apply to all...
eliza_hairi
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Anak aku hyper tang mulut!!
wati
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Betul tu Shahlynn.. kalau budak diam.. orang ckp.. budak nie normal ker tak.. then kalau active...orang akan ckp "Degil".. sigh* aku pun penat.
Lynzi, thanks for sharing. Kita orang bekerja and it's hard to get our caregiver to follow our instructions.. eg. no tv, no toons... etc. So kita balik kerja, buat our part plak. I will normally play with her, and then play hugging and kissing.. tu jer lah. then ajak dia baring-baring so she relaxed and then she will get sleepy.
It tough for us, tapi memang lah.. nak buat mcm mana seh..
Lynzi, thanks for sharing. Kita orang bekerja and it's hard to get our caregiver to follow our instructions.. eg. no tv, no toons... etc. So kita balik kerja, buat our part plak. I will normally play with her, and then play hugging and kissing.. tu jer lah. then ajak dia baring-baring so she relaxed and then she will get sleepy.
It tough for us, tapi memang lah.. nak buat mcm mana seh..
<font color="aa00aa">i do admit its very hard to carry out.
even for me yg langsung tak switch on tv if faiq is home find it hard cos once a week faiq kat rumah my parents the tv always on..he will not be interested to watch but will glance now and then..and yet when he is at home kadang he will point to the tv and asked why its not on..so i have to distract him by filling his time with activities like drawing, reading, playing, watching the birds, take a walk, etc..
mas,
for the rice/hazelnut/soy milk tu untuk substitute normal fm yg came from cows..
for me i try to avoid giving any snacks like biscuits and such after 8pm..if not sure active and dah 10pm pun masih tak nak sleep.</font>
even for me yg langsung tak switch on tv if faiq is home find it hard cos once a week faiq kat rumah my parents the tv always on..he will not be interested to watch but will glance now and then..and yet when he is at home kadang he will point to the tv and asked why its not on..so i have to distract him by filling his time with activities like drawing, reading, playing, watching the birds, take a walk, etc..
mas,
for the rice/hazelnut/soy milk tu untuk substitute normal fm yg came from cows..
for me i try to avoid giving any snacks like biscuits and such after 8pm..if not sure active and dah 10pm pun masih tak nak sleep.</font>
i dun mind letting him watch tv, provided its meaningful programmes.
No tom & jerry, no ultraman!
we encourage mika to watch programmes like dirty jobs, megabuilders, etc...
he even watches AFC channel, u noe...
@ my mom's place, tv is only on certain hours of the day. mika balik school @ 2, wash up, lunch & play a bit. after dat, nenek bacakan buku or muqaddam. den sleep. bangun tido, mandi den watch tv. by den, dah nenek's tv time. so he watches cooking programme or continue playing with his toys till ayah comes & fetch him home...
No tom & jerry, no ultraman!
we encourage mika to watch programmes like dirty jobs, megabuilders, etc...
he even watches AFC channel, u noe...
@ my mom's place, tv is only on certain hours of the day. mika balik school @ 2, wash up, lunch & play a bit. after dat, nenek bacakan buku or muqaddam. den sleep. bangun tido, mandi den watch tv. by den, dah nenek's tv time. so he watches cooking programme or continue playing with his toys till ayah comes & fetch him home...
<font color="aa00aa">nora,
izzat pandai merajuk?
faiq yg baru 17 mths ni pun dah pandai merajuk tau.
its unbelievable until u see it with your own eyes.
bila i marah him, he will suddenly stay so still and not move..he will tundukkan his face and look at me thru his eyelashes after few minutes has passed..bila mummy dah pujuk and hug him baru he will start moving again..sighhh</font>
izzat pandai merajuk?
faiq yg baru 17 mths ni pun dah pandai merajuk tau.
its unbelievable until u see it with your own eyes.
bila i marah him, he will suddenly stay so still and not move..he will tundukkan his face and look at me thru his eyelashes after few minutes has passed..bila mummy dah pujuk and hug him baru he will start moving again..sighhh</font>
momma_naqi
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nora,
really...
kira niari nak kena masak simple2...coz nak ajak anaqi read flashcard cepat2 then bleh tengok diorang nyanyi
really...
kira niari nak kena masak simple2...coz nak ajak anaqi read flashcard cepat2 then bleh tengok diorang nyanyi
<font color="000000">Slynn
same aje dgn u all...cuma I have to x4..
biasa lah, the 2 younger ones dah mcm twins...asyik bercekau aje...yg no 2 nie kaki menyakat..suka sakat abg ngan adik..eldest and 3rd get along well...sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit..bound to quarrel juga...
the only thing being the only woman in the house, i felt so loved by many guys....my boys before tido will salam me and give goodnite kisses to me..they will take turns to kiss..kiss...kiss all over my face until i say ok, they will then hug and say. 'Goodnite Ibu and I love u Ibu'..so sweet...
if either one merajok with me...jgn harap lah they want to comeby..even though the other bros will ingatkan 'hey tak salam ibu eh?''..dia buat tak tahu aje...by then i dtg mengalah lah..psl i nak didik dorang not to be petty..jgn terbwk bwk till next day..</font>
same aje dgn u all...cuma I have to x4..
biasa lah, the 2 younger ones dah mcm twins...asyik bercekau aje...yg no 2 nie kaki menyakat..suka sakat abg ngan adik..eldest and 3rd get along well...sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit..bound to quarrel juga...
the only thing being the only woman in the house, i felt so loved by many guys....my boys before tido will salam me and give goodnite kisses to me..they will take turns to kiss..kiss...kiss all over my face until i say ok, they will then hug and say. 'Goodnite Ibu and I love u Ibu'..so sweet...
if either one merajok with me...jgn harap lah they want to comeby..even though the other bros will ingatkan 'hey tak salam ibu eh?''..dia buat tak tahu aje...by then i dtg mengalah lah..psl i nak didik dorang not to be petty..jgn terbwk bwk till next day..</font>
the only thing being the only woman in the house, "i felt so loved by many guys....my boys before tido will salam me and give goodnite kisses to me..they will take turns to kiss..kiss...kiss all over my face until i say ok, they will then hug and say. 'Goodnite Ibu and I love u Ibu'..so sweet... "
eh eh same same......
*lapar ah*
eh eh same same......
*lapar ah*
momma_naqi
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Lynzi,
I get my maxi fm Melcollection...baru last week beli 1 more
I get my maxi fm Melcollection...baru last week beli 1 more
momma_naqi
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momma_naqi
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dat's da latest 1 yg I order...
Lynn,
Nape takot plak...kan dia can fit Size S-XXL
Lynn,
Nape takot plak...kan dia can fit Size S-XXL