ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


<font color="ff6000">Sebab tu, I feel that I'm not good enough with all esp to e eyes of MIL and SIL.
Dulu kalau minta $$$, mesti dpt tapi smnjk hub got married...byk alasan diberi.

She did ask hub to change our car to 7-8 seaters but I told hub, WHY must we change our car for other people's need. Besar kereta, besar keraknya...
Hub diam bila I replied that.</font>
 
San,
3 hari tak makan, macam nak mati....
ah, mati ah! kurang 1 mulut aku nak suap!
hahahahaa....

it has to stop somewhere lah...
kalau tak, yg susah nanti ur MIL jugak tau...
Den takkan SIL tak gunakan otak... mana orang tua tu nak cekau duit every mth...
 
<font color="ff6000">SLynn,
Pendapat &amp; pemikiran MIL/SIL lain babe.
Even my prnts pening when I tkde sape nk luahkan perasaan sebab selalu I gaduh dgn hub bkn kerana apa. Kerana ILs.

Diaorng tahu diaorng dapat. Macam mana orng KL bole kasi $$$, they always tot WE can do so as "back up"</font>
 
{She did ask hub to change our car to 7-8 seaters}
San,
untuk bawak rakyat jelata?
hahahaha....
abes, hari2, tiap2 minggu kena bawak kappa?
den, minyak, mthly instalment, saper tolong bayar? dorang?

nie sumer kena fikir baik2 beb...
ikut nafsu, sendiri susah...
 
<font color="ff6000">SLynn,
Time for Lina to check machine at home lah...hehehe!

Itulah...yg bayar kita per bukan ada orng tolong bayar kan...Even car rental pon suro kita SPONSOR hor!!!
FIL pon tk tahu crite wen we brought up abt this.</font>
 
<font color="000000">Nshah
seram ke tu cite?? smlm TV tgk i..LOL...Ku bergantong with my SIL sampai 12am..but my son watched, patot dia ngempeng pat sebelah aje..

kata hub's cousin sister, cite tu seram..kalau nak tgk dari mula..DVD ada jual tau pat Muzika Rekod..</font>
 
my mom said cite tu best... very seram.
but i neva get to watch coz kat rumah takder Sensasi.

i only get my dose of Suci, Cinta Fitri &amp; Ezora on days hub balik lambat.. tu pun, kol 10 kita dah balik...
 
<font color="ff6000">Btw, thank you for all your inputs. Greatly appreciate it. Weekends will be here soon.
Pray for me ya...</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">eh eh..ni apa hal dengan smooth, setep, senget n sengau ni??

san,
kesiannya u..
jgnlah kerana orang lain kita laki bini bergaduh.
jadi macam notty and me..hehe..tak hepi mesti cakap beb.
takde boleh sakit and stres sendiri..</font>
 
<font color="000000">Sab

TV3 i tak dpt lah..cuma dpt Indo channel..tu pon i pasang di bilik bibik.
some say cite 'Jgn Tegur' bagus but some say boring...

takpe..nnt gi Jb ku nak beli jugak..</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Lynzi,
I noe I can't run from this.
I hanya bole luahkan sahaja.
Dugaan...
I wish I can buy a house at Tampines..</font>
 
Eh.. saper sebut name aku...

baru habis meeting lah... niari busy sikit

ape lah korang tak tau segan silu.. suke nak tengok bende bende menyeramkan
 
okie back...
still same topik.
citer pasal ILs nie takkan habis ler.

for me, selfish as it may seem, sumer i buat dak ajer le. my principal is very easy ppl treat me good, i balas doubly good. if not, i buat dak. org nk cakap ape, cakap la. aku hidup bukan utk menggembirakan org2 tertentu. tapi utk menggembirakan org2 yg aku sayang.
happy.gif
fikir byk2 pun le jadi stress.
 
<font color="000000">"aku hidup bukan utk menggembirakan org2 tertentu. tapi utk menggembirakan org2 yg aku sayang"

Zu,
Well said!!

tapi tak pernah aku buat dak ape org nak ckp..tak reti gitu..LOL!!</font>
 
san,
da tau den jgn stress yrself. anytg talk to hb. biar dia smpkan pada family dia. jgn stress sebabkan org lain. buang karen beb!
 
san
I can sense this issue caused a lot of strain in your relationship.

For me kalau ade kelebihan, biar lah ur hb "tolong" his mom, seberape yg dia boleh. After all its his mom. It seems that he anak yg baik,ingat mak dia pesan itu ini.

What we dont know wont hurt us (the buat dak theory).

Jangan sampai nanti bile ur MIL dah takde ur hb menyesal bec tak buat itu and ini for her.. Dah time tu dah terlambat. my POV

in short... relak dun sweat the small stuff.
 
notty,
ape tak reti.. start from now. makin licin lagi muka kau gal. haha...

kalo sumer aku pikir kan, hidup aku tak lama beb. hari2 aku hide pat rmh. pikir benda2 yg bukan2. if things nak jadi, kite as human tak dapat elak. all we can do is seek guidance from HIM. Kite merancang, DIA tentukan. I take wat ever comes my way. Neway, umur semakin tua, makin byk aku pikirkan, makin cepat la aku berkedut. tak mo aku!!!
 
<font color="ff6000">Nora,
I tak halang apa yg dia nk bantu TAPI it seems they are taking advantage on the monthly thingy. Just got this strong feelings that FIL's unaware of this matter.</font>
 
me back...
serious i dun stop hubby from giving his parents/family...but OF coz settle keperluan rumah n my duit kuih semua ...priority keluarga sendiri dulu...

n yes I agree inlaws kalau bebual sedikit sebanyak tinggalkan kesan kat dalam hati...but BUAT DAK JE LAH.....malaslah nak simpan2 ....
 
<font color="000000">Zu
aku bersuara bila perlu aje, tak yah nak jadi mak mandir sikit3 nak bertikam lidah...psl tu skrg dorang tak berani jejak dam aku...kalau aku diam, confom dorang mula lagi..

ku pon tak suka bertengkar for nothing, coz end up laki aku yg get hurts..setakat to correct their statements je...</font>
 
notty,
sama la.. aku cakap bile perlu. tak perlu aku daim. bab aku slalu diam ler dorang ingat dorang ble cakap sesuka ati. so for me, baik aku buat hal sendiri. jaga family aku sendiri. lagi baik. aku nye org diam2 berisi. kalo aku da start, cfm yg kuar tak baik.
 
shlynn,
tadi da makan sandwic srdin cukup ler.
nnti nak antar adam pi capoeira so tak masak.
maalam ajer goreng kway teow ler..
 
san

lain kali u gi ur MIL place, u eksyen bebual (tapi mesti dpn ur FIL tau)

"Mak, ari tu beras yg KITA BELIKAN sedap tak? Tanyer sebab kita pun nak try lah beras tu buat masak kat umah.."
 
San,
Open your heart, just let go lah...This is good example for your child also. They can see what the parent do....next time they will do the same.
By the way do you or HB give MIL money monthly?
 
san

nak kepo sikit le... ur MIL pakai facial wash brand aper sampai kena beli kt Larkin je? Is it one of those M'sian brand cosmetics??
 
<font color="119911">Slynn
ah tadi waris ajak main chak2 ah.. sbb tu ku hilang.. masuk alam dia kejap hahaha siol je aku eh.. taklah tadi tgkkan san nya luahan hati dah tu tup2 dah time utk lunch so kuar ah beli makan &amp; pi bank sekali.. anyway san u noe wats best.. u can try to do cara sab ckp.. if u got e chance bagus to do that</font>
 
<font color="119911">gal
seram gak ah smlm i tgk 1st time act bt i heard e review mmg bagus wen they showed in tv3 sikit hari.. n yes keliwon also heard gd, hopefully sensasi beli.. act i tak tgk dari mula coz no kaki, as laki aku tak kuasa nak teman tgk cita camni..</font>
 
<font color="119911">sab
hehe ku baru nak tanya, hang dah tnya dulu a'ah lah san apa brand eh? xtra, tesco tak leh beli ke? jauh seh sampai larkin</font>
 


<font color="ff6000">Mira,
I duno how to open my heart anymore.
MIL is just to afraid of SIL. If she doesnt gv the $ she asked, kena torture one kind. On the otherhand, MIL always think her son will definitely help whenever she need $.
Hub did gv bt lesser den before.
MIL is e type you hv to gv more so she cn use tat $ to cover her necessities.
Say like having a maid. B4 married, hub gave her $450 mthly so she just need to top up a lil bit only unlike nw.

Sabrina,
Brand?
I sndri tak tahu tapi it was recommended by our KL's aunties. Dia suka ikut-ikut..</font>
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

R
Any preg mums in their 40s?
Replies
10
Views
1K
iron_lady
I
L
Home-boarding family
Replies
0
Views
62
lightning888
L
L
Looking to Connect with Fellow Mums
Replies
2
Views
1K
Mommy J
M
A
Have any considered abandoned infant adoption
Replies
0
Views
254
Adofematy1
A
E
Looking to adopt a baby girl
Replies
1
Views
1K
Adofematy1
A

Back
Top