ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Nora,

The fishy part is what I am afraid of. If I were her, I'll tell the MIL to "fly kite"...... *don't mean to be rude but no choice*

San,

Tell her that she must have at least a family member with her, takut dorang datang and just snatch the baby away. This kind of thing can happen as we have heard before tapi kita doakan semoga tak sampai terjadi to your gf.

Kesian dia eh, itu lah as what they say "marriage is a gamble" ~~
 


saper tau maybe they're trying to stall for time ke...try to find ur gf nya faults ke so they can attack ke...
if i kan....i fight in civil court...cos i heard syariah also they will tend to side for guy side...limit limit the guy will jus say he nak amik nombor 2...saper lah tau......
 
san...mestilah his side cakap jgn coz mesti si J tu kena rabak...

jhuz tell ur fren go to any masjid\Taman Bacaan...just make appt...then attend 1 session even the hub tak pergi....once at 1 session mintak refer to Syariah....

OR...

if the J tak bayar nafkah for more than 3 mths already.....JUST GO STRAIGHT TO SYARIAH COURT....jgn lupa surat nikah n birth cert anak....
 
<font color="ff6000">Liz,
Kiutlah kartun u tu...hehe!

Cik Nab,
Thank u for your doa. I will see how thgs goes on her side. For nw, her parents amat marah terhadap dia. Now kat ward alone. Her mom baru nk rest wile waiting for her upcoming ops, and nw this happened...

Lina,
Naik berbuih you..
I kalau bole tk nk pressure her since dah sarat.
Dia kata, dia nk bersalin dulu pastu gi counselling. Antara hub dia nk join in sekali or not, tat will be later part...</font>
 
if she gos there...anything happens they can say she the one who came to make trouble....
if they wanna see her they shud go n see her...why shud she be the one to go to them...apa salah dia sampai dia yg kena pergi sana..?

in fact she shud be wif her family now...even if husband nak see her...he shud be begging to see her n anak....cos he did her wrong....
 
true wat lina say....kalau she go alone pon tak apa...at least masuk records that she have intentions to improve the marriage or try to rectify...but not the husband since he mia...
lagi kalau syariah court tau he mia....he's not supposed to overnite away from wife if no valid reasons..lagi lagi istri yg sarat.....
 
san...dun give up on ur friend...i guess her condition makes her vulnerable.....ya she shldn't go alone...right now juz 'matikan diri' when it concern the other side...
 
lina...

kalau nak settle divorce ke apa...kat syariah dulu...but part anak anak ni..i still go civil...cant imagine if her anak kena taken by that kinda family...ish...
dah lah bapak macam gitu...bole tanpa segan silu nak pompuan lain....ingat the other woman nak jaga anak dia ngan betul ke...
 
<font color="ff6000">Liz,
Sebab MIL kata anak dia susah nk locate sekarang and wants her to "take the opportunity" but that day kata, nk selesaikan hutang-hutang anak dia dulu baru selesaikan hal mereka...confused!

Lagi best bila dia suro my gf gi Bishan, amik anak dia pastu turun P.Ris. For e 1st time I marah my gf. Knapa nk jadi bodoh? Kau sarat + anak toddler nk kehulur hilir by cab. Abis tk syng $$$ buang gitu?
In e end, she nvr go...kalau dia pergi, mmng I kol mak dia suro tahan...

MIL sndri cnt face her parents hor...
Apa-apa jumpa kat P.Ris atau jmp luar.</font>
 
San, betul Nora ckp.

Personally, i think there is no point in mengharapkan the husband to change into a new leaf and come back to her. I mean he hurt her so much in this difficult time, so tell your gf. For now, she must be strong for her doter and unborn baby. No more being sad abt her life. She need to move on. Then tell her to list down all the things like, since when hubby dia tak balik rumah, then when did he start having affair, duit nafkah diber ker tak? All this must be kept in a notebook. Then go to court. Kalau husband to tak nak ikut, nevermind, just go alone bawak budak2. Then tell everything to court. They will call him to come down to settle. Kalau dia tak nak, then the mahkamah syariah will post and advertisement in the Berita Harian to call him to court. Kalau dia tak hadir, then he will be in big trouble.

Mahkamah akan timbangkan salah siapa. Then the custody of the child will be under your gf. Suka2 si husband dia nak amik. Confirm tak dapat ! Eee... geramnya aku tgk orang pompan kena bully.
 
<font color="0000ff">Lina
aku nak gi bw early nx mth.. just give advance notice to whoever yg nak gi together gather.. segan ah nak gi sorang!!</font>
 
<font color="000000">Good Morning Mommies!!!
Cik Nab, Lynn, Lina, Nora, Naqi, Liz, San, Wati dan yg sewaktu dengannya….</font>
 
child under 7 confirm hub tak dapat unless he can prove otherwise.....

u dun go to battle without weapons....
ya like wati mentioned....ur fren must write down all the 'happenings'....estimate date n the $$$$
 
<font color="0000ff">quote *Eee... geramnya aku tgk orang pompan kena bully*

aku lagi geram bila tgk pompuan biarkan diri dia kena bully..!!!</font>
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Mcm mana nk tuntut $$$ wen her hub sndri tk cukup $$$ eik?

Syariah tahu ajar....i hv mailed a kaunselor add. in Syariah Court...u can help by writing to that lady then PRINT n kasi ur friend
 
Lynn

true.. i sokong u....


JTS
my cousin (lelaki) main kayu tiga, tingalkan anak bini, lama merana
then wife pasal dah kesunyian, ade male fren
my cousin and my aunty then go to court cakap wife ade affair
they can proudce tape recordings of her telephone conversations with the other guy

so the wife yg kena tuduh in court and she lost her son aged 4 that time

my cousin lepas tu dapat rumah, dapat anak and kawin baru (tapi sekarang pun dah ade gf lain)

the son dari umur 4 till now 10, my aunty jage, teh father langsugn tak kisah

so u see... the wife actually dah merana lame, but kena trap dgn her MIL and hb
and then she appears to be in the wrong in court
bec she dun have anyhting to show for hb behaviour

ni pun case dengar MIL punye cakap.. asik asik kate nak berobat..another FISH.
 
Morning Dan.

San, dun worry about whether the hubby can settle $$ or not, tu belakang citer. As i said, just go court and seek help. It is tough but just do it. Kalau dia tak corperate, boleh kena warrant arrest.

Do it where it hurts. Just keep her baby and toddler safe tau. Mcm mcm boleh terjadi. Must have somebody to look after her. Ingat tau, if kidnapped is to happened, hukumnya in Singapore is "HANG" ! If the kidnapper is the child father or family, then must go according to court saying. Katakan court ckp once a month the husband family can see the toddler, then it's only once a mth. Kalau dorang kidnapped, then kena jailed. Either way kita menang. Dun worry.
 
Nora, kesianya...

Dorang ingat dorang lagi lincah, kita pun boleh lincah.. no problem.. nak kena rajin tekad.

Dan, how are you and the kids ? Dah sihat.?? Sekarang musim lah.
 
<font color="ff0000">Lina/wati

My gal getting better now

Me sore throat..
My neck still sakit bila bangun
Doc just gave me pain killer n gel to apply
Kalau tak baik jugak baru gi Xray</font>
 
<font color="119911">Dan
good to hear ur girl btr.. as for u take care babe..

gathering.. ON? so sapa nak book bowling alley? sesapa ada member leh dpt murah best gak.. so makan we go foodcourt pun cantik ah.. more choices &amp; MURAH</font>
 
Big clap for Wati the Chief
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San,

Tell your gf that she can count on us for moral support. Jangan termakan janji2 palsu by her MIL.
 
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
Tak nafikan dia mmng lembut. I yg selalu tekan nt to gv her hub too much face.

Wati,
Thank u for sharing sis.
Mudah-mudahan she can do it. She jus sms me she'll be having her 1st counselling session at REACH @Bishan this Monday. Still, up to her husband to tag along.

Dan,
Glad ur doter is getting better...</font>
 
Danryan

did u tru urut for ur next.

kalau muscle strain pi x-tray pun for what?

just call ur makcik urut time bersalin tu and ask if she can help.


lynn
jgn seganlah nak pi sorang, i find it ok, fast game
zap zap and go..hehehhe
 
Cik Zainab,

apa plak nak tepuk-tepuk. I tak bleh tgk kaum kita sendiri kena bully.

Kata JUNGLE FRIENDS... so must help each other lor. So San, for now you are her channel tau. You must help her. Dapat pahala. Does your hubby mind tak ? Ada husband tak suka tau.. mcm leceh gitu nak amik kisah.. something like tat.

Dan, kesian you. Takper.. nie memang musim orang sakit, budak sakit.... cos kejap hujan kejap panas terik.. tu sebab mcm gini.

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lynn...

u ingat tak masa kita pi...ada this chinese lady dia kluar kan..? u prasan tak she jalan kengkang macam org baru bersalin....hehehehe
 
<font color="000000">Kesian beta...

masuk kejap je...1.30-3.30 ptg ada US Compliance Training..so rushing...

Dan, glad to hear ur princess semakin sihat...

Nora, wat happen to ur lzzat\..try pakaikan baju power ranger, mana tau can get his power back..!

Lynn, abis hari ape kau nak gi?</font>
 


<font color="ff0000">Nora

Thot of urut also but this one is at right tengkok lah...
takut salah urut..teleng jugak my kapla
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Marsyha ok tapi the phlegm like susah she nak keluar kan...</font>
 
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