ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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Gal,
Memang as parents sometimes we expect too much from our children - that is normal BUT just put ourselves in their shoes.............
But its good to realise our mistake and move on from there. Anak2, kalau kita anggap dorang as friends they will open up to us automatically.
I also very garang to both my girls so they confided everything in my mum. Bila dia tegur kan baru I realised and decided to change.
Insya Allah may everyone of us here have a good family relationship, Amin ~~
BTW - gathering on 6th March tu kat mana - if location is convenient I wil consider.
Memang as parents sometimes we expect too much from our children - that is normal BUT just put ourselves in their shoes.............
But its good to realise our mistake and move on from there. Anak2, kalau kita anggap dorang as friends they will open up to us automatically.
I also very garang to both my girls so they confided everything in my mum. Bila dia tegur kan baru I realised and decided to change.
Insya Allah may everyone of us here have a good family relationship, Amin ~~
BTW - gathering on 6th March tu kat mana - if location is convenient I wil consider.
<font color="ff6000">Kengkawan...
I need contacts asap.
Any one who happen to know someone who can tc of house/toddler and my gf (yang sedang tggu hari utk bersalin) for a month starting 4th March, 11am to 5pm?
More likely looking at a part time maid basis cos her mom will undergo an operation.
Location : Bishan</font>
I need contacts asap.
Any one who happen to know someone who can tc of house/toddler and my gf (yang sedang tggu hari utk bersalin) for a month starting 4th March, 11am to 5pm?
More likely looking at a part time maid basis cos her mom will undergo an operation.
Location : Bishan</font>
momma_naqi
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ishhh nora...ni terkejut plak
momma_naqi
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gal,
hah niari mood aku ikut ku pergi keje
hah niari mood aku ikut ku pergi keje
<font color="119911">NAw
thx for e concern sis.. hes abit btr wen im home smlm.. told him to go for cholestrol blood test tp entahlah dekni degil tul.. lau lah i kuat utk drag him & if i CAN DRIVE him even btr..
saat2 camni i nyesal coz i bodoh & cant drive yet..
percaya tak i reached home smlm at 8.15pm seh.. so penat.com.. coz train buat hal at JE dah berejam then at bukit gombak lagi berejam gila thus i fed up i turun pi beli dinner pun cantik then naik train balik turun CCK naik cab hehe..</font>
thx for e concern sis.. hes abit btr wen im home smlm.. told him to go for cholestrol blood test tp entahlah dekni degil tul.. lau lah i kuat utk drag him & if i CAN DRIVE him even btr..
Nora,
Sekarang dah cool pasal dah berumur. Last time when my girls were young I was very stern with them sampai my hubby bila nak belikan dorang toys pun takut.
When they were teenagers hubby already stressed that weekends are meant for family only, no outing with friends unless it is a special occassion. Until the time they prove themselves then they are allowed for outing with friends.
Sekarang dah cool pasal dah berumur. Last time when my girls were young I was very stern with them sampai my hubby bila nak belikan dorang toys pun takut.
When they were teenagers hubby already stressed that weekends are meant for family only, no outing with friends unless it is a special occassion. Until the time they prove themselves then they are allowed for outing with friends.
Ladies, check here for Longchamp lovers:-
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/590029/2187761.html?1235527873
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/590029/2187761.html?1235527873
smalldreams
Active Member
Morning semua...
Nottygal
Wow, it takes guts to apologise to your pre-teen boy. Hope that made an impact on him
I also support parents apologising when we have indeed made the mistakes, tapi we also have to be careful about apologising too much and at every small thing, coz that will also undermine kita punye power as authority/parental figures. Takut nanti dorang ingat, takpe, nanti Ibu will apologise, it's OK...let's do it again next time.
Kak Zainab
I wish I could be as stern. Actually I thought I was, but I am clearly not. Maybe personality wise aje, I'm not a very garang person.
The LC spree is tempting, but my pocket is still recovering from my japan trip. Sighs.
Did you ladies read about the free shipping coach thread? tengah huru hara sikit lah sekarang coz the person who organised the BP was reported to have been involved in an accident. Sekarang $$ beribu2 lemon is involved...
Nottygal
Wow, it takes guts to apologise to your pre-teen boy. Hope that made an impact on him
Kak Zainab
I wish I could be as stern. Actually I thought I was, but I am clearly not. Maybe personality wise aje, I'm not a very garang person.
The LC spree is tempting, but my pocket is still recovering from my japan trip. Sighs.
Did you ladies read about the free shipping coach thread? tengah huru hara sikit lah sekarang coz the person who organised the BP was reported to have been involved in an accident. Sekarang $$ beribu2 lemon is involved...
smalldreams
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Nshah
I pon lagi terok drp you. I have lesen tapi I dah lama tak drive kereta and I think I'm as bad as orang yang tak tau bawak kereta. What with the crazy singapore roads. Takut seh. Every yr I resolve to drive again tapi takde courage lah. Tengok lah later when work dah tak buzy sangat.
I pon lagi terok drp you. I have lesen tapi I dah lama tak drive kereta and I think I'm as bad as orang yang tak tau bawak kereta. What with the crazy singapore roads. Takut seh. Every yr I resolve to drive again tapi takde courage lah. Tengok lah later when work dah tak buzy sangat.
smalldreams
ape pulak singapore yer roads crazy.. bukan yer cam mesia or india
last time i got coliq from India, cantik cam Miss Universe
She go mesia and sewa keta, i asked her "How,can drive there?"
She says "If i can drive in India, I can drive anywhere." *Imagine the Indian slang k*
ape pulak singapore yer roads crazy.. bukan yer cam mesia or india
last time i got coliq from India, cantik cam Miss Universe
She go mesia and sewa keta, i asked her "How,can drive there?"
She says "If i can drive in India, I can drive anywhere." *Imagine the Indian slang k*
smalldreams
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Nora
Memang the craziness of s'pore roads tak leh tandingi kat india & malaysia, tapi i rasa kat sana at least organized chaos jugak. kat sini the drivers are very aggresive, tak kasi way at all seh. Anyway that's very funny if you imagine the slang! Semalam I bought the book - Slumdog millionaire. So far so good!
Shahlynn
the thread is the one without the shipping fee.
I got a feeling eh, tak lama lagi, all these BP coach/KS will be banned. Now ada orang organise gucci spree too. I'm tempted to tell them not to participate, coz gucci punye imitation, yang grade AAA+ punye,is very very close to the ori.
Memang the craziness of s'pore roads tak leh tandingi kat india & malaysia, tapi i rasa kat sana at least organized chaos jugak. kat sini the drivers are very aggresive, tak kasi way at all seh. Anyway that's very funny if you imagine the slang! Semalam I bought the book - Slumdog millionaire. So far so good!
Shahlynn
the thread is the one without the shipping fee.
I got a feeling eh, tak lama lagi, all these BP coach/KS will be banned. Now ada orang organise gucci spree too. I'm tempted to tell them not to participate, coz gucci punye imitation, yang grade AAA+ punye,is very very close to the ori.
Shahlynn, Coach BP - read here:
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/2122070.html?1235531046
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/2122070.html?1235531046
smalldreams
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Nottygal
Haha, time tu my son tido lah. Dia ni telinga punye sensitive, bising sikit pon boleh bangun. Tapi kadang2 i jatuhkan barang kat dapur kuat, dia tak bangun pulak....haiz...
OK I aspire to be more stern. It's fun to be stern sometimes. Heheh.
zainab
I guess kalau ada official receipts, OK Lah. Tapi kalau takde, just based on trust, it's really risky. But if beli overseas, can save about $200 on each gucci/lv. sometimes i wonder, kenapa lah s'poreans suka nah lv & gucci although kita tinggal kat rumahs simple2, hdb aje. isnt lv & gucci for the very rich? Kalau kat france, only the rich carry LV, and it's their local brand! That's what I read in an article in ST before.
Haha, time tu my son tido lah. Dia ni telinga punye sensitive, bising sikit pon boleh bangun. Tapi kadang2 i jatuhkan barang kat dapur kuat, dia tak bangun pulak....haiz...
OK I aspire to be more stern. It's fun to be stern sometimes. Heheh.
zainab
I guess kalau ada official receipts, OK Lah. Tapi kalau takde, just based on trust, it's really risky. But if beli overseas, can save about $200 on each gucci/lv. sometimes i wonder, kenapa lah s'poreans suka nah lv & gucci although kita tinggal kat rumahs simple2, hdb aje. isnt lv & gucci for the very rich? Kalau kat france, only the rich carry LV, and it's their local brand! That's what I read in an article in ST before.
smalldreams
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nora
sebab tu lah, orang kat sana very rich. filthy rich! baru sajak bawak LV
Zainab
Tempting kan? Tapi takpe lah, I stick to mid range items - LV is out of my league. Hehe.
sebab tu lah, orang kat sana very rich. filthy rich! baru sajak bawak LV
Zainab
Tempting kan? Tapi takpe lah, I stick to mid range items - LV is out of my league. Hehe.
smalldreams,
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji dapat save duit beli barang2 branded. low self esteem, mebe?
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji dalam bank account, ribu2 lemon! untuk masa depan?
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji tiap2 bulan dapat gi shopping, untuk menunjuk. inferiority complex/deprived of childhood.???
tepuk dada tanya selera...
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji dapat save duit beli barang2 branded. low self esteem, mebe?
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji dalam bank account, ribu2 lemon! untuk masa depan?
ada orang, hari2 makan nasi & sup fishball pun takper. janji tiap2 bulan dapat gi shopping, untuk menunjuk. inferiority complex/deprived of childhood.???
tepuk dada tanya selera...
smalldreams
Active Member
Shahlynn
Nasi & sup fishball sedap ape! Hehe.
I wish I could save $$ on food, but I love food too much. I spent a lot on food almost daily!
If not, I really wish I could be your 2nd option....
Nasi & sup fishball sedap ape! Hehe.
I wish I could save $$ on food, but I love food too much. I spent a lot on food almost daily!
If not, I really wish I could be your 2nd option....
wati
Active Member
San, i will try to ask my mum fren. She staying in Bishan. Not sure whether she is working or not lah.
Sorry to ask, whether ada bayaran tak.. Cos takut plak makcik tu tanyer. I understand your fren situation, whereas other people might not. I hope you understand. Jgn kecik hati tau.
Sorry to ask, whether ada bayaran tak.. Cos takut plak makcik tu tanyer. I understand your fren situation, whereas other people might not. I hope you understand. Jgn kecik hati tau.
seriously, nasi & fishball sup MEMANG syiok!! lagi2 kalau hari panas... dats is one thing i can eat everyday... hehhehe
nora,
kalau setiap kali makan 2 mangkuk besar, camner nak kurus eh? hehehhe
smalldreams,
bottomline, tepuk kocek, tanya sendiri.
u nak enjoy life, by all means...
it oso boils down to priority & mentality la.
dun enjoy food=deprived; for the sake of arm candy,
or i-settle-for-anybrand-so-long-i-get-to-enjoy-all-sort-of-food...
masing2 hor....
nora,
kalau setiap kali makan 2 mangkuk besar, camner nak kurus eh? hehehhe
smalldreams,
bottomline, tepuk kocek, tanya sendiri.
u nak enjoy life, by all means...
it oso boils down to priority & mentality la.
dun enjoy food=deprived; for the sake of arm candy,
or i-settle-for-anybrand-so-long-i-get-to-enjoy-all-sort-of-food...
masing2 hor....
wati
Active Member
Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date / Day : 6th March, Friday
Place :1) BBQ Chix @ Cineleisure (Halal ker tak?)
2) Secret Recipe @ Marina
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
1) Wati
2) liz
3) nshah
4) Danryan
5) Shahlynn
6)
Open to suggestion ok. Kat Marina ada bowling centre. So mesti bawak socks.
Date / Day : 6th March, Friday
Place :1) BBQ Chix @ Cineleisure (Halal ker tak?)
2) Secret Recipe @ Marina
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
1) Wati
2) liz
3) nshah
4) Danryan
5) Shahlynn
6)
Open to suggestion ok. Kat Marina ada bowling centre. So mesti bawak socks.
nshah,
u beli2, den simpan dalam fridge?
i beli2, simpan dalam perut... lagi dahsyat kan?
my mom slalu pesan,
nak makan sedap, yg lain2 kena sacrifice.
nak pakai cantik, hari2 makan bubur...
my hubby slalu pesan,
orang(bil) yg gaji 5figure tu, takder pun tiap2 bulan pegi shopping. pakai tshirt & bermudas jer.
kita yg gaji tak seberapa, nak blanja cam orang kaya?
asyik kena toink ajer aku!
u beli2, den simpan dalam fridge?
i beli2, simpan dalam perut... lagi dahsyat kan?
my mom slalu pesan,
nak makan sedap, yg lain2 kena sacrifice.
nak pakai cantik, hari2 makan bubur...
my hubby slalu pesan,
orang(bil) yg gaji 5figure tu, takder pun tiap2 bulan pegi shopping. pakai tshirt & bermudas jer.
kita yg gaji tak seberapa, nak blanja cam orang kaya?
asyik kena toink ajer aku!