ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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nora,
hah betul balik ku amik rotan nak beat itu mood...napa niari tak ikut gi work...semua orang ku marah niari....ishh ishh ish...very bad
hah betul balik ku amik rotan nak beat itu mood...napa niari tak ikut gi work...semua orang ku marah niari....ishh ishh ish...very bad
momma_naqi
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wah nora....
u know my exact location seh..
Bye san....
bye mamalizzz.
u know my exact location seh..
Bye san....
bye mamalizzz.
momma_naqi
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nora...
ishh tak adalah sampai gitu...hahaha...hopefully mood ku ikut ku ke keje besok....kalau dia tak nak ikut juga....ku amik leave
ishh tak adalah sampai gitu...hahaha...hopefully mood ku ikut ku ke keje besok....kalau dia tak nak ikut juga....ku amik leave
momma_naqi
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mamaliz,
hah dia vice versa balik....ishh
hah dia vice versa balik....ishh
momma_naqi
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Nora ishhh....
Oklah masa tuk moleh.....c ya when I c ya
Oklah masa tuk moleh.....c ya when I c ya
<font color="000000">Nora Aw
Yup, he returned home before me. He said he finished his school work with frens..so i just diam...as long dia balik I bersyukur.
I just gave him a tight hug and cried. I held his hands...telling him how much I love him and apologize....ask him if he hates me and if I did any wrong so I could improve myself...</font>
Yup, he returned home before me. He said he finished his school work with frens..so i just diam...as long dia balik I bersyukur.
I just gave him a tight hug and cried. I held his hands...telling him how much I love him and apologize....ask him if he hates me and if I did any wrong so I could improve myself...</font>
Morning ladies,
Gal,
Congratulations, you have taken the right step towards a good relationship and its good that as a mother, you can apologise to your son. (Some parents will not do that !!)
Hopefully it will make him regret what he has done seeing that you are so sincere.
Gal,
Congratulations, you have taken the right step towards a good relationship and its good that as a mother, you can apologise to your son. (Some parents will not do that !!)
Hopefully it will make him regret what he has done seeing that you are so sincere.
<font color="0000ff">Nottygal
u r great mom lah... tak semua mom got e courage to apologise to our own son tau.. Insya-Allah, ur son boleh rasakan ur love toward him..!!
bila baca ur story, i pun terfikir.. skg ni hari u.. hari kita entah bila.. i nak advise pun tak tahu mcm mana.. anak lagi kecik lagi..!!
Be strong k gal for e sake of ur sons..!!</font>
u r great mom lah... tak semua mom got e courage to apologise to our own son tau.. Insya-Allah, ur son boleh rasakan ur love toward him..!!
bila baca ur story, i pun terfikir.. skg ni hari u.. hari kita entah bila.. i nak advise pun tak tahu mcm mana.. anak lagi kecik lagi..!!
Be strong k gal for e sake of ur sons..!!</font>
<font color="0000ff">Cik Nab
memang betul tu.. some parent will nvr apologies to kids.. even tho they neo they r wrong.. tis especially during our mother time.. !!
now thing have chgs, kita tak boleh jadi Mak je.. we have to be their fren jugak.. cakap memang lah senang ehh, nak buat tu.. sighs!! </font>
memang betul tu.. some parent will nvr apologies to kids.. even tho they neo they r wrong.. tis especially during our mother time.. !!
now thing have chgs, kita tak boleh jadi Mak je.. we have to be their fren jugak.. cakap memang lah senang ehh, nak buat tu.. sighs!! </font>
Cik Zai, Lynn,
i agree with you... dari skarang kita patut mesti biasakan say sorry when we're wrong.
so when dorang buat salah, dorang tak agak2 say sorry..
i noe it wont be easy for Mika coz he's got my Heyuge Ego! its soooo difficult for him to sorry. hope to change dat...
gal,
i hope i will be like you when my time comes...
Kudos
i agree with you... dari skarang kita patut mesti biasakan say sorry when we're wrong.
so when dorang buat salah, dorang tak agak2 say sorry..
i noe it wont be easy for Mika coz he's got my Heyuge Ego! its soooo difficult for him to sorry. hope to change dat...
gal,
i hope i will be like you when my time comes...
Kudos
<font color="0000ff">San
my dad pulak, dia ni comedi, relax and hapi go lucky punya type.. nak tgk dia marah punya lah susah.. tapi my mom yes.. very the garang oiii!!
Now wit her cucu, me and my sister tak leh pukul anak depan dia.. confirm kita yg kena marah.. padahal dulu, dia yg selalu pukul kita.. hehehe</font>
my dad pulak, dia ni comedi, relax and hapi go lucky punya type.. nak tgk dia marah punya lah susah.. tapi my mom yes.. very the garang oiii!!
Now wit her cucu, me and my sister tak leh pukul anak depan dia.. confirm kita yg kena marah.. padahal dulu, dia yg selalu pukul kita.. hehehe</font>
<font color="ff6000">Lynn,
Dah terbalik kott?
I hardly see my dad laugh mcm tak ingt dunia till I have sons. Imagine lah...out of my 25 yrs, 21 years back den...lemau suasana rumah tapi tk sekarang.
Ceria-ceria selalu...ekeke!
Wonder kalau tahun-tahun akan dtg wen we hv grandchldrns, camne plak eik... =p
Cik Nab,
B.I.N.G.O!
I told dad what I feel and see but he claimed, "Mana ada? Smua mak bapak sayangkan anak2 + cucu. Takkan nk tunjuk?"
But den, wen I'm about 7 yrs old etc...lain sey treatment yg I dpt. No toys etc...Part my sons, wah...wah..wah...dari kata menyemak, smua BOLEH!
I nk belikan barang for my sons, dia kata rumah dah mcm store tapi 1-2 mths later...dia yg hadiahkan...tsk tsk!</font>
Dah terbalik kott?
I hardly see my dad laugh mcm tak ingt dunia till I have sons. Imagine lah...out of my 25 yrs, 21 years back den...lemau suasana rumah tapi tk sekarang.
Ceria-ceria selalu...ekeke!
Wonder kalau tahun-tahun akan dtg wen we hv grandchldrns, camne plak eik... =p
Cik Nab,
B.I.N.G.O!
I told dad what I feel and see but he claimed, "Mana ada? Smua mak bapak sayangkan anak2 + cucu. Takkan nk tunjuk?"
But den, wen I'm about 7 yrs old etc...lain sey treatment yg I dpt. No toys etc...Part my sons, wah...wah..wah...dari kata menyemak, smua BOLEH!
I nk belikan barang for my sons, dia kata rumah dah mcm store tapi 1-2 mths later...dia yg hadiahkan...tsk tsk!</font>
<font color="ff6000">Lynn,
Dah agak pun tapi I purposely say out...ekeke!
Cos his retired frens also realised e changes in him after having grandchildren. Still, as usual...tk akan mengaku yg dia over-pampered...
Gi NTUC, 7-11, pasar, GIANT, JB, MALACCA, BATAM, KL etc...sanggup you walaupun dia tahu keadaan diri sebenar...</font>
Dah agak pun tapi I purposely say out...ekeke!
Cos his retired frens also realised e changes in him after having grandchildren. Still, as usual...tk akan mengaku yg dia over-pampered...
Gi NTUC, 7-11, pasar, GIANT, JB, MALACCA, BATAM, KL etc...sanggup you walaupun dia tahu keadaan diri sebenar...</font>
<font color="000000">Alamak banyak nye reply..tadi sepi...
Cik Nab- u motivated me tau! seeing u so close with ur daughter, dah mcm fren..i pon nak camtu....
Nora Aw- your involvement in your son school work is enuf to tell me how nice and a good mother you are to Izzat...not many working mommies can do to that extent...
San, Lina, Nshahi- Maybe its my past, and what I went thru as a child and my growing up days.. the lack of care and love showered to me...
Furthermore, I put too much expectations on him as the eldest brother, which is wrong. So when he did not meet my expectations, I got upset easily….</font>
Cik Nab- u motivated me tau! seeing u so close with ur daughter, dah mcm fren..i pon nak camtu....
Nora Aw- your involvement in your son school work is enuf to tell me how nice and a good mother you are to Izzat...not many working mommies can do to that extent...
San, Lina, Nshahi- Maybe its my past, and what I went thru as a child and my growing up days.. the lack of care and love showered to me...
Furthermore, I put too much expectations on him as the eldest brother, which is wrong. So when he did not meet my expectations, I got upset easily….</font>
San,
my dad punnnnnn.... kalau dengan cucu, bukan main lagi! padahal dulu, kita salah skit jer kena bedal! my mom pernah tegur my dad, kalau dgn anak, sumer salah! kalau cucu, sumer takper!! dia jawap, takperla... cucu saya per!
dulu, kita kalau mintak aper2, his answer, tunggu gaji la, nantila... penatla!
skarang, cucu mintak watermelon, terus salin kain, turun, belikan watermelon AND papaya! tengokla!!
my dad punnnnnn.... kalau dengan cucu, bukan main lagi! padahal dulu, kita salah skit jer kena bedal! my mom pernah tegur my dad, kalau dgn anak, sumer salah! kalau cucu, sumer takper!! dia jawap, takperla... cucu saya per!
dulu, kita kalau mintak aper2, his answer, tunggu gaji la, nantila... penatla!
skarang, cucu mintak watermelon, terus salin kain, turun, belikan watermelon AND papaya! tengokla!!
nshah
how's ur hb?? better tak?
shahlynn / san
my dad memang suke kids, tapi biasalah time kite dulu he sibuk keje kan, mane ade time.
bile dapat cucu, sana sini dia dukung, walaupun tengah ngaji or pray
kalau dengar my mom marah cucu. terus turun tanya
"Why? Why scold him?.. Dun scold, dun scold?"
how's ur hb?? better tak?
shahlynn / san
my dad memang suke kids, tapi biasalah time kite dulu he sibuk keje kan, mane ade time.
bile dapat cucu, sana sini dia dukung, walaupun tengah ngaji or pray
kalau dengar my mom marah cucu. terus turun tanya
"Why? Why scold him?.. Dun scold, dun scold?"
wati
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Nottygal, we all learn from mistake. Hidup nie ibarat trial and error. So it's ok to make mistake. Dun worry.
For me, now my daughter baru 16 bulan. Tapi if she is hurt, sick or kena marah...then she will cry.. i will quickly apologise. Dah automatic. Sama dgn my husband juga, kalau i mcm ter'menjawab' or being sarcastic, i will quickly apologise. It's very tough tau nak mintak maaf.. tapi i just think that what if i sleep and tak bgn the next day. Dah tak sempat nak mintak maaf to my hubby kan ?...sigh* Life is like that lah.
For me, now my daughter baru 16 bulan. Tapi if she is hurt, sick or kena marah...then she will cry.. i will quickly apologise. Dah automatic. Sama dgn my husband juga, kalau i mcm ter'menjawab' or being sarcastic, i will quickly apologise. It's very tough tau nak mintak maaf.. tapi i just think that what if i sleep and tak bgn the next day. Dah tak sempat nak mintak maaf to my hubby kan ?...sigh* Life is like that lah.
<font color="000000">San
satu hari nanti entah kita pon sama..dgn anak lain dgn cucu kita manja2..
my mom said habis kalau dah i dah garang dgn cucu dia, cucu2 dia nak pergi mana mengadu? sebaiknya they go to them than outsiders....
Maybe kalau ada cucu, i pon tak nak disiplin2..da penat..nak happy2 takmo stress2..enuf with my 3 boys..it should be my turn to keep cool...let my boys raise their kids pulak, then they can understand me...hahahaha</font>
satu hari nanti entah kita pon sama..dgn anak lain dgn cucu kita manja2..
my mom said habis kalau dah i dah garang dgn cucu dia, cucu2 dia nak pergi mana mengadu? sebaiknya they go to them than outsiders....
Maybe kalau ada cucu, i pon tak nak disiplin2..da penat..nak happy2 takmo stress2..enuf with my 3 boys..it should be my turn to keep cool...let my boys raise their kids pulak, then they can understand me...hahahaha</font>
momma_naqi
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selamat pagieee semuaaa